如何远离渣男，避免短择？

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaweixin，zaixiandaishehui，weixinchengweidajiagoutongjiaoliudezhuyaotujingzhiyi，yechengweileyizhongwaiyudefangshi。zhenduicaiyizijidezhangfuchuguidelaopoeryan，diaochaweixinjiuchengleyigezaisuonanmianshier。neiyang，zenyangdiaochaweixinlaiquerenzhangfushibushizhendewaiyuni？tongguoduibiweixinliaotianjilu、chayanliaotianmubiao、jianceliaotiangongzuopinlvdengxingshinenggoubangzhuqizimenhuodeyixieanjianxiansuo，danshixuyaojilao，zaidiaochahuanjiezhong，baochilengjinghelixingcainenggenghaodejiejuezheigejiongjing。zuizhuyaodeshi，yingduikeguanshishishi，yingyijugerenjibenqingkuanglaizuochushiyideguanlijuece。

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaweixin

　　diaochaqibeihoudekuhesikao

　　猜疑阴影

　　hunyinlidewaiyunantishilingrentongkuyuyihuode。dangzhiyizijizhangfuchuguishi，dajiajinbuzhuxiangzhaodaoquezaozhengjulaiquedingzheiyidian。erzaixianzaideshejiaowangluopingtaizhong，weixinyijingchenglehenduorengoutongdeguanjianzhuanyonggongju。

　　信赖的缝隙

　　diaochaweixinshenhouyunzangzheduihunyinherenkechongji。danxiashouzheiyimingandiaochayiqian，womenyinggaishensishulvzijidexiangfahehunyinqingkuang。diaochayiqian，dajiayidingyaoxiansisuohunyinzhongcunbucunzairenhewenti，nengfougenjugoutongyurangbuchuli；bingkaolvdiaochajielunhenyoukenengzaochengdehouguo，shifoucunzaiyingduicelve。

　　思考微信

　　zaidiaochaweixinshi，womenyaoconghaojigeshijiaoxiashou。zuixian，pouxiweixinliaotianjilushiyigezhongyaodeliucheng。liuyichaxunshifoucunzaihemoshengrenhuoyixingpengyoupinfandilianluo，youmeiyoushejidaoyuhunyinyoubeineirong。cizhi，chayanliaotianmubiaodoushizhongyao。guanchazhangfuyushenmerenjingchangliaotian，shifoucunzaiguoduqinmidechenghuhuogoutongjiaoliu。zuizhong，jianceliaotiangongzuopinlvyekeyitigongyixieanjianxiansuo。ruotayumouyitedingjiaosejingchangliaotianqieshejidaozaixianshijiantaizhang，zeyoukenengcunzaidewenti。

　　保持冷静

　　diaochahuanjiezhongwubibaochilengjinghelixing。bubishenxianexunhuanzhong，bunengrangcaijipengzhangchengkongzhibuledecaiyi。kandaidiaochajielunyingyikeguanxintaiqufenxi，bingfeiqingxuxingdexuanze。yexuyaoyishidaole，diaochajielunjinjinanjianxiansuo，bingbudengyusuoyoubeihoudezhenxiang。

　　应对客观事实

　　zaimianduidiaochajielunsuoshuofangxiangdekeguanshishishi，womenyinggaikeyijieshouyuchulishiji。cike，womenyinggaiyizishenxuqiuhemeihaoweidaoxiang，quedingjiexialaixingwei。keyikaolvyuzhangfupingdengjiaoliu，xunzhaofuqizhijiandediaozhenghezhenxing；huoshi，genjushijiqingkuangtiaoxuanzixinglikaizheiyiduanbuzhongdehunyin。

　　一场游戏

　　diaochaweixinshiyichangminganshoujiyouxi。tabujinkenengdailaizhengshidetongchu，yehuidaozhiwuhuiyucuopan。buyiyangderen、butongleixingdehunyinzhuangkuang，jiejuediaochadexingshiyeyousuobutong。zaikaizhandiaochashi，womenyinggaijinshen、lizhisikaomeiyibu，weihuzijideqingxuhezizun。

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaweixin，diaochaweixinjinjinchuliwentideyizhongfangshi，gengweiguanjiandeshijiuyiwanshandexintaimianduiaiqinghehunyin。sikaozijineixin，qinfenkeshouhunyindezhongyaoqianti，yulingyibanyiqimianduinanti，zaigoutongyulejiezhongzhaodaokefudejihuafangan。suirandiaochaweixinyoukenengshibiaomiandeyizhongxingwei，danshenhoudemudejiushiweilefujiansunhuaiderentonghetanxunhunyinlianxidezaicijunheng。