如何把握好第一次约会，让自己顺利脱单？

　　zaihunyinzhong，nengdaolaogongchuguishiyigerangrentongkudeshiji。zheileibeipanrangqizidexinlingshenxiancuoluan，dapobenlaixiangduiwendingdejiazhong。bujinrangqizishiquduilingyibandexinren，yedailailetongkudexinlizhemo。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，qizipobudeyizhongxinsikaoziyidehunyinheguanlian，yingduigulv、tongkuhepanduan。nvshenghuixiangzheruhezaiciwanshanziji，fujianhunyindexinren，bingzaijuedingshifouyaoyizhizouxiaqu。wuluntazuochushenmeyangdequeding，yiluzoulaidoumodadeyongqihejianqiangdeyizhi。

　　观念的撕破

　　nengdaolaogongchugui，wobuganxiangxin，danshishishiquebaizaimianqian。zheiyiwoshenaidenansheng，juranshenbeiwochuguile。woxinxiangshibeisipokai，wujintongkufuxianzaiyanqian，woshunjianxianrushenshendebengkuidangzhong。congqiandexingfuhemeihaohaoxiangyiyezhijianchengweipaoying，congweiyouguodetongkuyaowowufahuxi。

　　信任的奔溃

　　tadewaiyubeipanlewomenhunyinchengnuo，rangwoduitadeyiqiexingchengleyihuo。yiqianwutiaojiandejianxintadewo，xianzaiquewufahuibixinrendebenkui。wojianjianzhiyizijishibushihaibugouhao，shibushiquefanaxie，caidaozhitabeipanwo。zhuduoyihuokunraozhewo，yaowoshenxianzizewunaidangzhong。

　　内心深处的挣脱

　　yingduibeipan，wodexinlichongmanzheshiwanghetongku，dantongshiyeyouyibufenxiwangkeyiwanliuwomenzijidehunyin。woxianruneixinshenchudezhengtuo，buqingchuyingdangzenmemianduizheiyiqie。yifangmian，woqidaizaicigoujianqiwomenzijidexinren，qipanzhetanenggourenshidaozijidebuzhengquebingzhenzhenzhengzhenghuiguozixin；lingyifangmian，wojiujinbuzhuyiweitashibushizhendezhidejitayicijihui。

　　自我重塑

　　zheiyichanghunyindekunjingyaowozhongxinsikaoleta。wokaishikaolvzishenjiazhihezizunxin，quedingbuhuizaiyerangtabeipanjiedingwo。wokaishinulixiufuzishendezixinduli，zhuyizijideshentijiankang。weileweihuzishen，wohaizaixinlingshenchudeshangkouchujinxingxiubu，tanxunneixindeningjinghewanqiang。

　　重新定义婚姻

　　hunyinzaiyebushiwoxinmuzhongdexingfuqingjing，zheixuyaozhongxindingyi。wokaishikaolvwomenbicicunzaidewenti，changshixunzhaoduice。womenyinggaizhenxinshiyimianduikunnan，gongtongfendoufujianxinrenhejiaoliu，zhaodaoyiqianneifenpeihemoqiheqinmiwujian。danwoyemingbai，zhongxindingyihunyinjixuyaotadenuliyuchengxin，gengyinggaiwoyingyongheyongqi。

　　所选择的选择

　　zaihunyindeshizilukou，womenxuyaozuochujiannandejueze。shijixuhetagongduyisheng，suiranbeipandetongkurengrancunzai，haishixuanliqu，jizijizhuiqiuxingfuchukou。zheigexuanzeguanxizhewoweilaidexingfuyuziyou，womenxuyaojinshenhengliang，ganyuerjiandingbuyidebaituowojuedezhengquedefangxiang。

　　新的起点

　　bulunshiyuanliangtahefujian，haishixuanliquzhaodaoxindezhujian，wohaixiangxinnizijikeyitaguozheiyiduanjiankudeqinshenjingli。buguanjingliguoduodatongkuhewaishang，wohaijianxinshijianhuichongdanyiqie，dailaigengduoderichangshenghuohexiwang。zheigeshiwozhongxindingyizishendejihui，doushiwolaiweishinianhoudezijiyangfanyuanhangdekaiduan。

　　坚守本心，追寻幸福

　　buguanxuanlenazhonglumian，wodasuankeshouzuorendedixianzunxunyuanze。buguanjingliguoshenme，wonengweichiduizishendezhenzhengyiyishangdezhongshi，bingqieweizijideaiqingqinfennuli。zheiyiqinshenjinglirangwomingbaile，zhiyouxianaixiziji，caikeyihuodebierenzhenzhenzhengzhengdeguanai。wodekuailezaizijishouli，womenjiangweicijianchibuxienuli。

　　汇总

　　nengdaolaogongchugui，zhangfuchugui，zheishiyigelingrenxintongdeshiji。yingduibeipan，dajiayaojingliwujintongkuhezhengtuo，danyeyaodongdezhongxindingyihepanduanweilaiderensheng。zaihuifuyufujiandaolushang，keshouzuorendedixian，tanxunneixinshenchudeanquanhemeihao。bulunshenmeshihou，baohuhaozijiyuzhuiqiuzhenzhengdekuailedoushishifenzhongyaode。