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1、把不争吵当作目标。
qishiqinglvjianfashengmaodun,qizhengzhishijianhenzhengchangdeshiqing,suoyiwomenyinggaixuehuideshiruhebayigekenenghuifashengmaodundeshijianzaifazhanchengduliuzhiqianmoshadiao。biru,youzheiyangdeyizhongqingkuang,nvdeshuoyaochihuohuo,nanshuowobuxiangchi,zuotiancaichile;nvshuo,bu,wojiuyaochi。nibupeiwoquchishibushibuaiwole,nibutengwo。nanshuo,zhendebuxiangchi,yaochiniquchi。zheishiyigemaodunjihuadeanli。erzhengquedezuofashi,nanshengpeinvshengquchihuohuo,chiwanzhihouzairangnvshengpeinanshengquchitaxiangchidedongxi,nvshengkandaonizuochulexisheng,tayeyiyanghuidongderuciduini。suoyi,youshihounimenzhijianhuiyouchongtumaodun,danshiyaodongdeyongzhihuilaijinxinghuajie,zheiyangganqingcaibuhuizaizhengchaozhongguozaoxiaohao。
2、学会控制情绪,尽快冷静。
ruguoshizaishimeiyoubanfa,liangrenfashenglezhengchao,neimenvrenyidingyaomingbaikongzhiqingxudezhongyaoxing,wulunchaodeyouduomejilie,douyaorangzijikeyilengjingxialai。xuehuiruhezaifashengmaodunshikongzhizijideqingxu,jueqiaoshixianlengjingshimiaozhong,jiezhehuanweisikao,ruguonishiduifang,tingdaobierenduinizheiyangshuohua,nihuiyoushenmeganshou。xuehuiyonglixingkongzhizijideganxingqingxu,zheihuibangzhunimendeganqingzhiluzoudegengjiapingwenzhangjiu。
3、吵架之后学到东西。
henduoshihou,qinglvzhijiandeshidangzhengchaoduiyucujinliangrendeganqingshiyoubangzhude,suoyichaojiahoudezongjiejiaoliushihenyoubiyaode。xiangduifangbiaoshichuniyijingzhidaoliangrenjingchangchaojiadeyuanyin,bingqierangliangrenyiqixiediaojiejuezheige,duinimenyihoudeguanxishihenyouhaochude。qishihuangejiaoduxiangxiang,zheiduinimenliangrenlaishuohaishiyijianhaoshini。yinweiruguonimenchaojiazhihoubujiunimenzhijiandewentijinxingjiaoliu,erbachaojiadeyuanyinjiyinzanghua,zheijianghuichengweinimenganqingweilaiyigedadeyinhuan。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan!
4、建立信任感。
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