你为什么一直单身?单身的六大原因

　　zenmetimiandeshuofenshou，fenshoushiyizhongzaisuonanmianqingxuxuanze，erruheyongtimiandefangshijieshuyiduanganqingbianchengyigezhongyaodehuati。zaizheiguochengzhong，womenyinggaixunzhaoshidudefangshilaibiaodaziyidexiangfaheganshou，yibianshuangfangnengyizunzhongyulijiedexintaigebendongxi。wulunshitongguopinghedehuihua、jixin、huoshixuanzeshihezijideshijiandidian，shiwomendajiantimianfenshouqingjingdeguanjianyaosu。tongguogezhongfangshi，womennengjinliangbimianshanghaitongchu，yucitongshiweihubaoyangbicizhijiandezunyanjiyili。ruheyitimiandefangshishuofenshou，shiyigexuyaosikaoyuchulidewenti。

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，yiduanganqingkenengzaoshoujiongjing，zuizhongzouxiangfenshouzheiyiwufahuibidexuanze。danshi，zaijieshuyiduanganqingdeguochengdangzhong，ruheyongyouyayutimiandefangshibiaodafenshoudexiangfashishifenzhongyaode。xiamianjiangtaolunzheixiefangfa，bangzhunizaifenshouzhongbaochizunyanlejie。

　　真诚而平和的会话

　　zenmetimiandeshuofenshou，zaifenshoushi，yizhenchenghepinghedefangshiheduifanghuihuashihentimiandefangshizhiyi。jinliangjianshaozeguaihezhengzhi，erbiaodashijiqingkuanghexinlisuogan。tongguofenxiangzijidexiangfaheduiweilaidekebianxing，nenggoubangzhuduifanglijieniqueding，bingcushitamenjienafenshouzheiyishishi。

　　重视别人的感受和建议

　　fenshoubujinjinshiniyigerendejuece，yexuyaokaolvbierendeganshouhejianyi。lingtingduifangjianjie，bingbiaodaduitamendeganshouzunzhong。jinliangjianshaoshanghailengdandeyanyu，ershiyongwenroudifangshibiaoshuzijidejueding，bingjiduifangzunzhongyulijie。

　　选择适合自己的时间地点

　　fenshoushiyijianzhongyaodeshi，bixuxuanzeshihezijideshijiandidian。baozhengzaiyigexiangduisimiheshushidehuanjinglijinxingjiaoliu，bianyushuangfangnenggouzhenxinchengyigoutongyubiaodaqingxu。fangzhizaigonggongchangsuohuotarenyanqianmingquetichufenshou，yifangnengrangduifanggandaobushufuhuokunku。

　　不要过度解释说明争辩

　　zaifenshoushi，buyaoguodujieshishuomingzhengbian。quelierjiandandibiaodazijidejueding，tongshibimianyiciyouyicidichanshuyuanyin。guoduojieshishuomingzhengbiankenengyinfazhengchaohefenqi，jiazhongbicizhijiandeshanghaitongchu。fanguolai，tiaoxuanheshideshijian，jiandingeryouwenroudibiaodazijideguandian，binghuiyingfenshoudejueceshizuijiadefangshi。

　　保持冷静和尊严

　　zaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，yaobaochilengjinghezunyanshishifenzhongyaode。fangzhiqingxuhuaxingweibiaoxianyanci，bunengrangnaonuhuobeishangzhuzaizhenidexingwei。suiranfenshoushitongkude，dantongguobaochilengjinghezunyan，ninengzhanxianzijidezouxiangchengshuwanqiang，yucitongshijibiciliuxiayigejijizhudongdediyiyinxiang。

　　zenmetimiandeshuofenshou，wulunzainali，ruheyitimiandefangshishuofenshoudoushiyigeburonghushidewenti。genjuzhencheng、pinghedehuihua，zhongshibierendeganshouhejianyi，xuanzeshihezijideshijiandidian，buyaoguoduzhengbianhejieshi，bingbaochilengjinghezunyan，dajiakeyizaifenshoushibazunyanlejiebaocunjiduifang，yitongmianduiweilaidekaoyan。fenshoujinguantongchu，dantimiandaobie，shichengweigengqiangzishendediyibu。