几个小细节迅速提升男友对你的好感

　　yinggaigenchuguilaogongshuonaxiehua，zaiwomenfaxianzijiairenchuguishi，renmenchangchangmianlintongchu、naonuhejuewang。keshi，womenyaoyonggandequmianduineixinshenchudetong，yuchuguidezhangfujinxingyicizhenchengduihua。womenyinggaibiaodazijixinhan、shiwanghesunhai，tongshihaixuyaolingtingtadebiaoshuhesikao。zheizhongduihuanenggoucujinbicigengjiashenruzhangwowentidebenzhi，bingqieweiyihoudequanyuhefujianchuangzaoyigechengxinhezhenshiqishidian。

　　应对出轨：英勇而负责任的对话

　　yinggaigenchuguilaogongshuonaxiehua，dangmianduichuguidelianrenshi，renmenchangchangjuedexintenghexiaochen，keshiyuqishuoduzichengshoutongchu，womenyaoyonggandequmianduineixinshenchudemimanghetongku，yuchuguideairenjinxingyicichengxinerchuangxinxingdeduihua。yixiashuyuyixieninenggenchuguidezhangfujiangdehua，keyibangzhudajiayitongchuliwenti。

　　1. 表述你的情感

　　wogandaohennanguo、xinhanfennudangwofaxiannichuguile。zheileipanbianrangwoganjuedaotongkuyuyihuo。woxiwangwomenkeyitanlvditantaozheizhongqingkuang，zhaodaojiejuedefangfa。

　　2. 寻找了解

　　mafannigaosuwo，weihenixuanzelechugui？woxiangtingtingnineixinshenchu，guanzhunidedongyinyijixuyao。neiyangwocaimanmanhenyoukenenggenghaodilejieni，bingcainengzhenzhengdeyiqizhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　3. 规定诚信

　　womenyinggaijianliyigefuzerendegoutongjiaoliuziranhuanjing。mafannifangxiafangbei，xiangwotanbaiyouguanchuguideyiqie。woxiwangtingjianzhenshigushi，bianyudajiakeyigenghaodejiejuezheixiejingjiweiji，bingxiangzhegenghaodemingtianqianxing。

　　4. 表述损害

　　woxiwangninenglijienichuguibangwodailailejidadeshanghaimeiyouanquangan。woshenganbeipanbianyubeisheqi。zheizhongtonghuibansuiwohenzhangyiduanshijian，danwoxiwangwomenkeyigongtongfendoufujianwomendeguanxi。

　　5. 找到解决方案

　　rangwomenyiqixiangzheruhefujianwomendexinrenheguanlian。dajiakeyixuanzefufuyizhihuohunyinshenghuozixunguwendezhichi，zhidingyixiezhiduhechengnuo，yibaozhengwomendeguanxikeyizaicijinkuaihuifu。

　　6. 创建沟通桥梁

　　shiwomenweichikaifangshideduihuahepinfandigoutongjiaoliu。woxiwangwomenkeyixianghuzhijianlingtingbierendexiangfahetihui，bingbuduanzhaodaoyigejunhengdian。weiyoutongguozhenchengyulijie，dajiacaikeyibaituozheiyikunnan。

　　7. 寻找内心深处的思考

　　mafannifanshengzijichuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，bingsisuonishibushizhenzhenzhengzhengxiangyaodiaozhengheduizheiduanhunyinchengdan。wohuiyucitongshifanshengzijizaihunyinlidebugou。zhiyouzaidajiadouxiangweihunyinshenghuopinboyuchengzhangshi，dajiacaiyoujihuifujianwomendeguanxi。

　　yinggaigenchuguilaogongshuonaxiehua，dangmianduichuguizhangfushi，zheizhongduihuanengbangzhuwomengengjiashenruzhangwowentidebenzhi，bingzhaodaojiejuedefangfa。keshiyidingyaojizhu，duihuahenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，erzhongjianxinrengengjiashiyixiangyanjundekaoyan。yiner，womenyinggaihenyounaixin，yucitongshiyidingyaobaochishenglixinliqingxujunheng，bianyukeyizaizheiguochengzhongxuehuibaohuziji。