如何与一个事业型的男人相处

　　dangmianduihunyinlidechuguixingweihebeiqishi，youyizhonglingrenkunhuohemaodundeqingkuang：zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma？zheizhongqingkuangtanxunzhedajiadeneixinjiexian。tihuidaochuguidetongku，danyoushenxiannanyigeshedeshenaizhedangzhong。zheizhongqingkuanghenyoukenenglaiyuanyugezhonggeyangdeyuanyin，ruduiganqingdeyikao、haipajieshouxianshigudu、huozheshiduiyiwangmeihaojiyidejianchi。zaizheiyangdefanzadexinlichongtuzhong，ziwodexuanzeyujiazhiguanniannanyibimiandebeikaoyan。zheiyichangneixindebipinheqingganshangdeqiansherangrenjinbuzhusisuo：ganqingjiujingshiruhebanzhepanbianxuanlvjixuqianjinde？

　　心灵深处的挣脱：了解叛变里的同房

　　 dangyigerenfaxianzijideairenchuguishi，buguanshigenjulijixiangguanzhengjuhuoshijingliguocongweiyouguodecaiyi，neixindounengbeiyizhongzhengtuosuoyingxiang。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yigeyinrenshensiwentiluchushuimian：zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma？zheizhongqingkuangshenhouyunhanzhehenduofuzadeqingganshenglixinlifangmian。jinguanmeifayikendingdexingshihuiyinggaiwenti，dannengyouyixiashijiaolaitaolunzheizhongqingkuangdekenengxingdeyuanyinjiweihai。

　　依靠与害怕：爱的迷案

　　 duiganqingdeyikaokenengshizaochenglejiechuguiquezaicitongfangdeyizhongyuangu。jibianlingyibandepanbiangerenxingweishanghaidaozizunxinherenke，danyouxierenhenyoukenengbuganmianduiduchudexianshiyugudan。zheileiqujueyuxiangduiwendingdefuqiguanxizaochengleyizhongneixindedanxin。qingganshangdecuoluanhemengbirangrenmenhenyoukenengxuanzehulvechuguideshishi，changshiweichijiazhongdeyitihuazhangqiwending。

　　受困执着：美好记忆的桎梏

　　 lingyigeweihailejiechuguihourengrantongfangqingkuangdeyaosuyinggaishiyiwangmeihaojiyidejianchi。dangwomenhuiyiqicongqiandemeihaoshiguang，tamenyexuqidaibaochizheiyifenqingganshangdechixu。zheileizhizherangrenshenxianduilingyibandezhongshiheduipanbiandekuchujiandemaodunzhong。yuqingganshangdepanraoheshizilukoudezhuanjiao，tamenyexuxuanzezaicitongfang，changshishiqicongqiandexingfukuaile，weicilaimianduineixindekuchuhekunhuo。

　　自身承担：胡作非为的愧疚

　　 duibanlvdechuguigerenxingweibuduantongfang，henyoukenengyibufenlaiyuanyubenrenduiganqingdezizeshiminggan。duiyuyixiereneryan，takenenghuijiangbanlvdechuguixingweiguiyinyuziyideguocuohuobugou。zheileineizaizizezishenchizeshidetamenbaituobuleduiganqingdefuwuchengnuoheyiwugan。tamenxuanzezaicitongfang，bingjixiwangyongzheizhongfangshixiubuposundeguanlian，yicijiejueneixindekuchuhekuijiu。

　　违反内心：内心的防范意识

　　 lejieairenchuguiquexuanzezaicitongfanghaikenengshiweilenengfangfanyishi。yingduicankudeshishiheposuidehunyin，yixierenkenengxuanzeweichiwuzhishangpingwen。tamenxuanzezaicitongfang，cushishenzhishizaichuguiyinyingxiayirancunzaiyizhonghaoxiangzhengchangshenghuofangshi。zheigecuojuedebaochikenengshiweilejiangdiduizishenyujiatingzaochengdeshanghai，tongshibaozhengshehuifazhanshixianlidebiaomiandexiangxi。

　　zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma， zongdelaishuo，lejiezhangfuchuguiquexuanzezaicitongfangdexianxiangyizhongkanqilaimaodundanshiqueshidashidexinlizhuangtaizhengtuo。jiujieyikaoyuhaipa、shoukunzhizhe、zishenchengdanheneixindefangfanyishizhong，gerenxuanzehesixiangzaoshoutiaozhanmolian。zheileifuzadeqingganqingkuangyinqileduiganqingdesikaoyuduihunyinlideshencengcimaodundeshijiantansuo。zuihou，meiyigerenbixuzaijiannandejuezezhongxunzhaozijineixinpingheng。