巧用挽回方法 提升挽回男友成功率

　　lengmodanbufenshouzenmeti，zaimianduilengmodeguanxi，renmenchangchangxianruliangnandejiongjing：jixiangweichiguanxi，younanyirenshoulengmozaochengdeshanghai。danshi，zenyangtanjizheileilengmodanyoubuxuguanxiliekaini？zheixuyaowomencaiquyizhongchengshuerpingjingdexintai，ranhoujinxingtanchengjiaoliu。lingtingduifangganshou，biaodazijidexiangfa，bingshizhexunzhaojiejuefangan，yiqiuzaibaozhengguanxideqiantixiagaishanlengmodexiankuang。lengmobufenshou，tanjidankeyiweiguanxizengjiashidudefangshizaiyuyichengxiangdai，yitongxunzhaohepaidejunhengdian。

　　提升冷漠的沟通之道

　　lengmodanbufenshouzenmeti，lejiezhishenlengmoguanxilidekunhuoyujiaolvyudajiameiyigerendouyouguozheiyangdejingli。lengmodeqifenlingrengandaoduliyushiwang，danshiwomenyouburenxinfangqizheiyiduanguanxi。neiyang，zenyangzaibaochilianluodeqiantixiatanjilengmo，xunzhaotupokouni？

　　真心实意表达心里感受

　　lengmoshiyizhongqingxudebiaoda，erqingxubiaodashirenherenzhijianqudelianxidezhongyaoniudai。dangwomenmianduilengmoshi，keyichangshiyongchengkendetaiducongwodejiaodukaolv，biaodaziyideganshou，bingfeihuxiangzhize。biru，keyizheimeshuo：“wozuijinganjuedajiazhijiandejiaoliushaolexuduo，woyoudiandanxinwomenjianxingjianyuan。”genjubiaodazijineixinganshou，dajiahenrongyiyinqilingyifangdegongming，bingcushibicizhijiangengshenrudilejie。

　　聆听对方的心声

　　lengmobeihouyexuyunzangzhelingyifangdekunhuo、pijuanhuowushengqiujiu。weilenenglejieduifanglichangheganshou，womenyinggaifuchugengduodereqinghelingting。jiejinsuonengsikaolingyifangdeshijiao，jiduifangzugoudeshijianlaibiaodaziyideganshouhekanfa。zheizhonglingtingbudankeyichuangjiangengshenkedexinlai，tongshiyeweiwomenzhaodaojiejuewentianjianxiansuo。

　　积极主动寻求解决方案

　　lengmoguanxidegaishanbixuwomenxieshougongjin，xunqiujiejuefanganshiguanjiandeyibu。zaijiaotanzhong，nenggoutichuyixiejutitiyihekunhuo，bianyubicikeyigenghaodechulicunyoudefannao。biru，nenggouxunwenduifang：“womenzenyangnenggougaishandajiazhijiandejiaoliu？”tichangjijidixunzhaojiejuefangan，shibaituolengmoguanxidezhongyaobuzhou。

　　塑造共同爱好活动

　　gongtongdexingquheaihaozhutihuodongnenggouchengweilengmoguanxiderunhuaye。bulunshiyiqicanjiayundong、shuaju、zhufanhuoshilvyou，goujiankaixindeqifennengrangbicigengweiqinmi，bingtishengbicizhijiandegongqingli。genjugongxiangkuaileshishikeke，dajiahaiyoujihuigengshenrudilejielingyifang，tongshihainenggouzengjiabicizhijianjiandeganqinghuomiao。

　　重构关系的一个过程需要一段时间

　　lengmoguanxidegaishanbushiyicuerjiudequanguocheng，henyoukenengxuyaoshijianhexixin。shuangfangbixufuzhunuli，lijieduifangdequexian，lejieduifangdeguowanghechengzhang。yidingyaojizhu，zhiyaoshuangfangdouxiangweigaishanguanxierfendou，lengmodejiedizhongjiuhuibeixiaochu。

　　结束语

　　lengmodanbufenshouzenmeti，lengmoguanxidegaishanxuyaodajiaganyuzhimianwenti，ganyubiaodaneixinshenchudeganshouheqiwang。genjuzhenzhidegoutongyuxianghuzhijianlingting，dajiakeyizhujianxunzhaogaishanguanxidefangshiheduice。wulunzainaduanguanxizhong，lengmozishizhizhongshiyigetiaozhan，danzhiyaowomenjianchibuxie、qinfen、baochixiwang，dajiajiuyoukenengbaituolengmo，xiuburongqiadeguanxi。