夫妻只要做好这3件事 婚姻更加持久稳定

　　youguan"henvpenyoufenshouliyou"，womenjiangyaozaizhihoudewenzhongtaolunzaochengzheiyijuedingdegezhongyinsu。fenshoushiyizhongfuzadeqinggantiaoxuan，qianshedaobicideguannian、jiaoliufangshi、renshengmubiaojiqixianghuzhichideshuiping。womenjiangyaopouxihenyoukenengdeyuanyin，birubicidegebiechayi、pinfandizhengzhi、wufamanzuduifangxuqiu、zhangjiudegongzuoyalihuoshizhuanbiandehuanjingdeng。genjuquelizheizhongfenshouyuangu，womennenggenghaodilejieqingganshangdeduoyuanxingyijiruhezaiganqinglizuochujuece。

　　与女盆友分手原因

　　无法调和的价值观冲突

　　henvpenyoufenshouliyou，fenshoudeyigepubianyuanyinshilianggerenzaijiazhiguanzhongcunzaiwufadiaohedemaodun。wulunduiyuhunyinshenghuo、gongzuo、jiazhong，haishiduijiazhiguannianjigerenshenghuoxiguan，womendejiazhiguantongchanghuiyingxiangwomendeguanlijuecegerenxingwei。ruguoliangrendesanguancunyoujudadechayi，kenenghuizhishimaodunhechongtudebuduanshengji，zuihoumeifayizhizouxiaqu。

　　无法满足对方需求

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，bicizhijiandexuqiuheqiwangshihenzhongyaode。ruguolianggerenwufamanzuduifangxuqiu，zheileibujunhengkenenghuizhishizhangqixingqiangliebumanhejinzhang。zheizhongxuqiunengshijingshencengmiandeshiyong、shizhangdefenpei、bicizhijiandegaoduguanzhudeng。dangyifangzishizhizhongwufamanzulingyifangdexuqiushi，fenshouhenyoukenengshiweiyidejiejuefangan，youyuchixubuduandexinhanhebumanhuishiguanlianyuelaiyuebuweisheng。

　　沟通不到位，欠缺了解

　　hezuoshibaochiyiduanshenxinjiankangguanliandeguanjiansuozai。danshi，ruguolianggerendejiaoliufangshicunzaikunnanhuoshiqianquelejie，guanlianjiuyaomianlinkaoyan。yuyanbiaodajiedi、meifalingtingduifangjianjie、zhengchaohezhengzhimeifajishijiejuedengzhuduowentidouyoukenengdaozhifenshou。qianqueyouxiaogoutonghuisunhairentonghexianghuxinrendeqianti，shiguanlianbiandecuiruoyubupingwen。

　　人生目标不一致

　　dajiaduiweilaideqiwangyumubiaozhenduiyiduanguanxidegaosufazhanyouweizhongyao。ruguolianggerensuozhuiqiuderenshengmubiaobuyizhi，guanlianbianhuizaoshoujiannan。youderenzhuixunshiyedechenggong，youxierenzegengjiazhuzhongjiazhongdefazhan。ruguoshuangfangmubiaocunyoumaodun，wufadiaohe，jiukenengbunengyizhizouxiaqu。buyiyangdeshenghuoguijikenenghuizhishigebendongxi，tanxunzuishihezijideairen。

　　人格差异和个性化不符合

　　meiyigerendouyouzhezijiderengehefengge，zheijiushiwomenbianchengyuzhongbutongziwodeyibufen。danshi，ruguoliangrendexinggeherengeyousuochayi，kenenghuizhishiduoyangxingdeqianque。biru，yigerenhenyoukenengxihuantiaozhanhefangsong，erlingyigerenkenenggengqingxiangyuwendingyoushushi。zheigexianxiangzairichangrichangshenghuokenengchanshengmocabushigan，jinerdaozhifenshou。

　　汇总

　　henvpenyoufenshouliyou，suiranfenshoushiyijiantongkuyujiankudeshier，danshiyoushihoutashifeichangbiyaode。henvpenyoufenshoudeyuanyinnenggoubaohangeleicengmian，baohanwufadiaohedejiazhiguanchongtu、wufamanzuduifangxuqiu、goutongbudaowei、renshengmubiaobuyizhijiqirengechayihegexinghuabufuhe。genjuqingchudiyishidaozheizhongfenshouyuangu，womennenggenghaodilejiezijidexiangfahexuqiu，jinerweiyihouxunzhaogengshihedeairenheguanxi。fenshousuirantongchu，danyenengkanzuoshiyizhongweigenghaodemingtiansuozuochudejijizhudongqueding。