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　　qingxiyidi，yingduifenlichulai

　　1. 温和而真诚：客观合作是重要

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　　2. 支持和理解：给对方时间和空间

　　zaitichufenshouhou，jiduifangchongzudeshijianhekongjianlaixiaohuahejieshouzheizhongqueding。zhongshibierendeganshou，buyaoqingyikuaisubiaoshuhuokuanwei。biaodalijieyuzhichi，yijingquedingfenshoubingbudaibiaobicizhijianqijiazhijiangdi，ershiyizhongweilenengbicizuijiadexuanze。

　　3. 真诚感激：回望和女友的美好回忆

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　　4. 自我反思：表明因个人原因以及需要

　　tidaofenshoudeyuanyinshi，guanzhuzishendetiyanyuxuqiu。biebaquanbuzerendoutuijianjilingyifang，fanershitanrandibiaodagerenqingxufanyingbianhua。zhuzhongbenrenchengzhanghefazhandebiyaoxing，nengrangduifanglijiefenshouchuyugengqiangdemudeheyongyi。

　　5. 果断而包容：防止后悔莫及和憎恨

　　dangquedingfenshouhou，shizhongbaochijiandingbuyi，fangzhizuochuhouhuixuanze。yucitongshi，weichibaoronghelijiebierendeganshou。bunengrangzenghenhuoguodudeqingxudiaojiezishen，ershizhijiejienaheshifang，weilianggerendeweilailiuyouyipianguangkuodefuwupingtai。

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