挽回爱情的必备套路，绝对让他再爱你一次

　　benwenjiangweirao“henanpengyoufenshouliyoudaquan”jinxing，lijuzhuduoqingkuangjiyuangu，taolunfenshouzhenduinannvzhijianweihaiyuxianshi。bulunshixianghuzhijianbuheshixingqing、shenghuofangshidejiongranbutong、bicizhijianmubiaobuyizhi、goutongbuchang、beipanhebuxinrendeng，zheizhongfenshouyuanyinjiangbangzhuduzhegenghaodilejiefenshoudeduoyangxinghehenyoukenengdailaideyingxiang。tongguozheipianwenzhang，womenjiangjiandaonanrennvrenfenshoudegezhonggeyangdeyuanyin，huoxujiunengcongzhonghuodeyixieyouguanaiqingheguanxideqifa。

　　丧失共同的目标

　　henanpengyoufenshouliyoudaquan，bulunshichijiudeguanlianhuoshijinqideaiqing，nannvzhijiangongtongdemubiaozhenduiguanliandegaosufazhanzhiguanzhongyao。danglianggerenfaxianzijimubiaohelixiangbukeyiyoujirongheyuzhichishi，jiuhuichuxianmaodunhechongtu。kenengwomenzaigongzuofangmiandezhuiqiubuyiyang，qizhongyigerengengzhongshigerenchengzhang，erlingyigegengqidaiyongyouwendingderichangshenghuo。yekenengtamenzhuiqiudeshenghuofangshibuyiyang，qizhongyigerengengqingxiangyuwujuwushulvxinghetanxun，erlingyigerengengqingxiangyuwendingdejiatingshenghuo。dangbicizhijiandemubiaohelixiangfashenglejudabianhua，fenshouhenyoukenengbianchenglezaisuonanmianjielun。

　　沟通不畅

　　hezuoshiweichijiankangguanliandezhongyaojishi。keshi，youshinannvzhijianjiaoliufangshifenggetedianyoukenengchuxianchabie。huoxuyigerenxiailijitanlvdibiaodaguandianhetihui，erlingyigerengengqingxiangyuzhuanglongzuoyahuozheliyongjianjiexingdefangshibiaodazishen。zheizhonggoutongjiaoliuchabierongyizaochengwuhui、bumanhechongtudezaocheng。jiarugoutongbuchangchixucunzai，lianggerenjiunanyishulilianghaoderentongheshenrudelijie。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshouhenyoukenengbeichengzuochuliwentidebuerzhixuan。

　　三观不合

　　xinggerenherenzhijianhuxiangxinshanghuoshichanshengmaodundeguanjianyinsuzhiyi。youshi，lianggerenxinggetezhengwanquanbuyiyang，bicizhijianmeifahemuxiangchu。yigerenhenyoukenengxinggewaixiang、leguan，xiaixiuxianhuodong，erlingyigerenhenyoukenengneixiangxing、qingjing，gengxihuananjing。zheizhongxinggechabieyehuidaozhilianggerenzaishenghuoxiangchumoshizhongchuxiankunhuohechongtu。jiarusanguanbuheyinqilepinfandizhengchaohefenqi，fenshoujianghuichengweizhiyouzhuiqiuxingfudefazhanfangxiang。

　　背叛和不信任

　　beipanhebuxinrenshidaozhiliangxingguanxipoliedepohuaixingyuanyinzhiyi。beipannengshijutichugui，haikeyishimanbaoyinmihuoqipianxingwei。buguanbeipandefangshizenyang，tapohuailianggerenzhijiandexinrenheguishugan。bingqie，beipantongchangyinqileshenrudeqingxushanghaitongchu。jiarubukeyizhongjianxinren，nannvzhijianguanliannanyijianchixiaqu。

　　生活方式和观念不同

　　nanrennvrenfenshoudelingyigechangjianyuanyinshishenghuofangshiheguanniandemaodun。meigerenyoumeigerendeshenghuofangshiheyitaorenshengjiazhiguan。jiarulianggerendeshenghuofangshiguodujiongranbutong，biruyigerenxiaijieshidalianghaopengyou，erlingyigerenxiaisirendequanzi，neiyanglianggerenwufazhaodaozuiheshidedianqumanzubicizhijiandexuyao。ciwai，jiarulianggerendejiazhiguanxiangchataiyuan，biruyigerenkanzhonghuaxuewuzhiyujinqian，erlingyigerengengjiazhuiqiujingshenshangdedadao，yekenenghuiyinqimaodunhemaodun。

　　henanpengyoufenshouliyoudaquan，nannvzhijianfenshouyuangugeyoubutong，meigerendeqingkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde。danshi，sangshigongtongdemubiao、goutongbuchang、sanguanbuhe、beipanhebuxinrenjiqishenghuofangshiheguannianbutongdengdoushiyixiechangjiandezaochengfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。genjulejiezhongzhongyinsu，dajiakeyigenghaodeyingduifenshoudegailv，tongshihainenggougewaizhenxiyunuliweihuzishenyuairenxianghuzhijiandeguanxi。