分手后，挽回的前提是你们能够复合

　　zaimianduigennanpengyoufenshoudetongkushi，womenbujinwenyixiaziji，zenyangcainenganfuzhuzijini？zheiyiwentikunraozhehaoduoren。fenshouchanshengdeshangtongheshiwang，xuyaoshijianlaiquanyu。zaizheiguochengzhong，womenkeyigenjushutongqingxu、xunzhaoshiyong、zaicizhaodaoshuyuzijidezhongxindengfangshilaianfuzhuzishen。fujianzixinxin，zhongshizijidexiangfa，weizijishijianyukongjianlaizhiyu，quanshimaijinxinshenghuodeyibu。buguanduomejiannan，henanpengyoufenshoulezenmehong，guanjianzaiyuzhaodaoshuyuzijideneixinnengliang，leguanmianduibingziranhuifu。

　　分手之后的痛苦与安抚住自身

　　sangshinanyou，fenshouzhihoudetongkujingchangrangwomengandaotongchexinfei。neiyang，zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，womengairuheanfuzhuzijini？zenyangjianjiandibaituofenshoudeyinmai，shiqishenghuodekuaileyuzixinni？jiexialai，huizhubuweininjieda，bangzhuzijizhujianhuifuzishen。

　　疏通情绪：抽泣并不是十分可耻

　　fenshoushi，neixinchongmanlegezhongqingxu：nanguo、naonu、xinhandeng。zheizhongqingxuzhidebeifaxiechuqu，caibuhuibeiyayiganzaixinzhong。yiner，ziyouzizaidichouqiba。yanleikeyihuanjieneixindetongku，shifangchulaiqingxuyali。dashengdehuhan、sansanbu、xiexiazijidetihui，doushiyouxiaodeshutongqingxudexingshi。buyaodanxinluolei，youyuchouqibingfeinuoruodezhuyaobiaoxian，ershiweilerangzijihaohaodishifangchulai，xunzhaoxindefangfaquhongzishen。

　　寻找适用：与亲友共享

　　fenshouzhihoudetongkubixuyourenpei，xuyaorendelijieguanai。bulunshiqinren、pengyouhaishiqinmideren，dounengchengweiwomenzijidezhongduanruanjian。hetamenyichengxiangdai，qingtuneixindefannaohetongku，rangtamenjiyunijianshexingyijianhefuwei。tamenpeibanyugulinengshiniduguofenshoujieduandeyewan，xunzhaoshiyongshihonghaozijizhongyao。

　　再次享受快乐：做自己喜欢的事情

　　fenshouhou，yaoshiqishenghuodekuaile，neijiuxuyaozhaodaogerenxingquaihao，bingzhudongquzhuixun。zuozijicengjingxihuandeshiqing，wulunshinianshu、jianshenyundong、lvyouhuoshixuexijineng，zheizhongdouhuirangnizhongxinzhaodaokaixin。jiangzhongdianqianyizaizijishenshang，peiyangyigelianghaodeshenghuoxiguan。zaifengfuzijideyucitongshi，yerangzijigengjiafengcaisiyi，weixiayiduanganqingdelailinchongfenzhunbei。

　　自我反省：懂得从分手中发展

　　fenshoubingbushiyijianrongyirenkedeshi，danshenghuozhonghenduocuobaidoushiweilewomenfazhan。zaitongkuzhong，womenkeyishenshizijiyiwang，sousuowentidebenzhi，congergenghaoditigaoziji。fenshoushiyigeshiwomengengjialejiezijidejihui，genjuduizishendesikao，womenkeyifajueneixindequedianyubuzu，weiziwotishengjieshuixingzhou。

　　时间的力量：为自己治伤空间

　　shijianzhiliaoyiqiewaishangdeliangyao。zaifenshouhou，weizijizugoudeshijianlaizhishang，buyaojizhetanxunxindelianai。zhenzhengyiyishangdezhiyuxuyaoyiduanshijian，bixuwomenmanmanyingduiheshifangneixindefannao。zaizheiguochengzhong，bixukuanyidairenzishen，bieyinyishishibaidanduizishenguoyuyanke。rangshijianyidiandiandanhuatongku，shizijizhongxinhuanfachuyujianqiangpiaoliang。

　　结束语

　　fenshoushiyiduanjiankudeqinshenjingli，dantongshiyeshidajiachengzhangdejihui。henanpengyoufenshoulezenmehong，zhongdianzaiyushutongqingxu、tanxunshiyong、zaicixunqiukuaile、ziwofanshenghejiyushizhang。weiyoutongguozheiyixiliedeqinfen，dajiacainenggouzhenzhengdianfuzhuzishen，zhongshixingfukuaileyuzixin。xiangxinweilailangsong，diliqianxing！