这三种分手千万别去挽回

　　fenshouzenmewanhuinanyoushihenduonvshengxinzhongdeyiwen。yaoxianghehaotadeneixin，shouxianyaocongxinlizhujian。zhangwofenshouyuanyin，jijizhudonggenggaitamendexingweihexingwei。zhanshichuzhenzhihefazhandexintai，zhongjianxinrenhegoutong。yucitongshi，bubiguofenzhuiqiu，jiduifangshijianyukongjian。yongshijixingdongzhengshiniduitadeguanzhuheqingyi，jianjiandizhongxindianrantaxinzhongdehuomiao。jilao，wanliunanyouxuyaonaixinyunuli，danhaiyaokantadaodizhibuzhidefuchuzheiyiqie。

　　fenshouzhihou，xuduonvshengdoushihuishenxianjiaolvqingxuhejuewang，buzhidaoruhewanliuzaoyiliqudenanyou。shijishang，wanliunanyoudeyigeguochengbixushendusikaoyuxingweijutizhidao。xiabian，jiangcongjigefangmiantaolunfenshouzhihouzenmewanhuinanyoudeyouxiaoshouduan。

　　自我反思与改变

　　fenshouzenmewanhuinanyou，zuixian，fenshouyuanyinhenyoukenenghenimenzhijiancunzaidenantixiangguan。yiner，yigezhongyaodebuzhoushikaizhanziwofansibingnuligaibian。huiwangfenshouzhiqiandezhuduowentibuhemudedifang，sisuozijishifouyouyidingdezhize。zheibingbushiyaozeguaizishen，ershiweilegenghaodegaijinhefazhan。tanxunwentidebenzhi，bingqiezairichangrichangshenghuonuligaibiantamendexingweihexingwei。

　　修复沟通与重建信任

　　fenshouzhihou，goutongdepoliewangwangshiyigezhongyaodeyuanyin。yiner，fujiangoutongshiwanliunanyoudezhongyaohuanjie。keshi，yidingyaozhuyi，bubigenjuxingfenhezhengzhiqujinxinggoutong，zheizhihuijiazhongfenqi。fanguolai，womenxuyaohetabaochilixinghelixingdegoutongfangfa，lingtingtadexiangfaheganshou，shizhechuliwenti。yucitongshi，yaochengshibiaodachuniduitadeneijiuxiangnian，biaoshunizhenshineixinxiangfa。

　　呈现成长与改变

　　nanshengchangchanghuibeinvxingdefazhanziwogaibianshenshenxiyin。buduanbuduantishengziji，zhanxianchuwanshanyuzixin，keyimashangxiyinzhutadezhuyili。zhuyaobaokuogaishanzijiderongmaopinpaixingxiang、zhuixungerenxingquaihao、tuokuanzijidejiaojiquandeng。zhanshinidefazhanhezijuexing，rangtakanjianyigegengyouzixin、jianqiangheyouqizhideni。

　　给与空间和时间

　　wanliunanyoubushiyicuerjiudequanguocheng，xuyaonaixinyushijian。suiranxinliyongyouqiangliedeyuwang，danshibuyaoguofenzhuiqiu，jiyuduifangshijianyukongjian。zheijiuyiweizhebuyaopinfandajiao，yebieduitashiya。fanguolai，womenxuyaozhanxianchuzishenduiyutadezunzhongyushiyong。zheizhongxingweibudannengrangtakanjiannidezunzhonghelijie，yekeyirangtagewaizhenxinidechuxian。

　　迅速行动与告白

　　zaishidangdeshijian，dangnimenzhijiandeguanxideyihuanjiezhiji，ninengxunsuxingdongbingbiaodaniduitadeqingyi。zhuyaobaokuojijiyuetachulai，titazhunbeiyifenteshudeliwu，huoshijixinbiaodanidezhenshitiyan。tongguojijixingdong，gentazhanxianniduitadezhenxiyunuli，rangtatihuidaoniduitadezhenzhiheqingyi。

　　fenshouzenmewanhuinanyou，fenshouwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhong，xuyouqingxidemubiaobingbaochilixinghelixing。jilao，aidewanliuxuyaoshuangfangdeyizhinulihejianchi。ruguotazhendejiushinifeichangzhidewanliudenanyou，huoxuzaijianchibuxiegongtongnulixia，nimendeganqinghuizhongxinranqi。