花镇情感咨询师：突然被分手是一种什么样的体验？

　　jinanrenfafenshouxinxitajingranbuhui，zaiaiqingdaolushang，henduoshihouhuibulizhidishiyongjibicifafenshouxinxi。danshi，bukesiyideshi，nanrenjuranduizheiyangdexiaoxishierbujian，meiyouhuiying。zheiyijianjiemingledeqiaoduanyinqilehenduosisuo：jiushitabuzaihufenshou？tayibuzaiguanzhulianggerendeganqinglemeiyou？yihuozheiyouqitadeyuanyinmeiyouhuiying？wulunshihezhongjiangjie，womendouyinggaisisuofenshoudeyuanyinyijixianghuzhijiandejiaoliufangshishifoucunzaiwenti。zheigexiaoxiaodeshiergaojiewomen，aiqingdeduoyuanxingyuangaoyuwomendexiangxiang，womenyinggaigengxizhiditansuohefaxianhemiandui。

　　深夜的分手确定

　　jinanrenfafenshouxinxitajingranbuhui，zaiyigeshengengbanye，woshuranxiajuexin，jinanrenfaleyitiaofenshouxinxi。woxiwangnenggouyongzheizhongfangshiqingxidibiaoshuwoxinzhongdetongchuhebuman。danshi，lingrenjingyadeshi，tajuranmeiyouhuiying。zheiyichenmowuyanyaowoxianruleshenshendemimanghekunhuo。

　　沉默背后隐藏着的是啥？

　　wushuxingchenzaijijingdeyewanshanyaozhe，fangfoshizaichanshizheqinglvdegushi。cikedexinqingsuizheshijiandetuiyierzhujianbiandezaodongbuanxiaqu。wojianjianbuduanhuiyiwomenzhijianshenghuodediandi，changshijiangjiezheiyiwuyindehuifu。shitaduiwozaoyibuzaihuma？haishigengleyumoshouchenmowuyan？zheiyichenmoshitabunengmianduifenshouzheiyishishi，huoshitaduiwohaowuganjue？zhenduitajiujingzaixiangxieshenme，wowufadezhi。

　　沟通交流破裂，情绪消退

　　zheiyichenmowuyanchongfentixianlewomenzhijiangoutongjiaoliudepolie。fenshoudexingshiyingdangshiwomenzhijiandezuihouyicihuihua，ranertaquexuanlechenmowuyan。wokaishifansiwohaizaifenshouhuanjiezhongshibushibingmeiyoubiaodaqingxizijidexiangfa，huozhewomenzaipingrizhongdegoutongjiaoliuzhongshifouyouhushiduifangdexuqiu。zheiyichenmowuyanbujindaibiaozhetadehuifu，gengyushizhewomenzhijianqingganshangdexiaotui，duifangdexinzaojiufanghu。

　　面对未知的未来

　　woganjuemimanghexiaochen，buzhidaogairuhemianduijianglai。fenshouxinxidechuanchudaibiaozheyizhongjueran，wokewanghuodeyizhongjietuo，congbeishangdejiugezhongjietuochulai。danshi，tadechenmowuyanyaowoxianrugengjiashenrudekunhuo，budebumianduijiexialairizi，yigemeiyoutaderizi。weilaizhiluchongmanzhebuquedinghegudu，womenxuyaozhongxinzhaodaozishen，zhaodaoxindefangwei。

　　分手的启发：

　　jinanrenfafenshouxinxitajingranbuhui，zheiyiwuyindehuifurangwoyishidao，fenshoubingbuzhishilianggerenzhijiandeshier，gengshiyiciduizishendezhongxinsikao。dajiaxuyaoxuehuinenggougenghaodigoutongjiaoliu，biaodaguandianyuqinggan，jinliangjianshaogoutongjiaoliudepolie。fenshoubudanmodadeyongqi，gengyinggaiconghuigengjiachengshu。zhihou，womenyaogewaizhenximeiyifenganqing，buxuchenmowuyanhewuyindehuifuyanmailewomenzhijiandezhenchengyuwennuan。