结婚之后，你们谁先开始嫌弃彼此的？

　　zaiaiqingshijiezhong，fenshoutongchangbingbushishiliaoweiji，fanershijinglileyouzhangdeqianzhao。fenshouqiantayijinghenlengdan，jianjianshiquleduibicidejiqingheguanai。tazhujianjianshaolejiaoliudeshizhang，goutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuexiqueershengshu。lengmodezhuyaobiaoxiannengrangduifangtihuidaoxinlingdejuli，enaidezhongzimanmandiaoxie。zheizhongshulishiaiqingdeshujuxinhao，buxingdifenshouzhishizaisuonanmiandejielun。zaiaizhong，goutongheguanzhudeqianquehuipohuaimeihaodeaiqing，yinci，jinzaofajuezheizhongzhengzhao，yexushifangzhifenshoudeguanjiansuozai。

　　简述：感情中的冷漠与疏离

　　fenshouqiantayijinghenlengdan，zheishiyigeyoushangerchangjiandexianxiang。zaiaidetuzhong，reqingdixiaosanhelengmokuosantongchangshiguanxiehuadezhengzhao。xiamianjiangconggoutong、guanzhuheqingganbianhuadengduogefangmianlaitantaozheiyixianxiang。

　　沟通的疲惫感

　　aideqishidianshiwujindegoutongjiaoliuheduihua，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，airenjiandegoutonghenyoukenengbiandeyuelaiyueshao。pingdanwuqiderichangrichangshenghuo、yaliyijiqitaduozhongyaosujiangdiletamenbiciqingtinghejiechudejihui。manmandi，takaishijingshenpibei，buhuizaiyuanyiqingtingduifangdexinsheng，naizhizhujianduiduifangshuolengmo。

　　关注的消失

　　ganqingxuyaoguanhuaiheguanzhu，danshifenshouqianlengmorangrenganjuedaolingyibandeqingshi。tamenbuzaiguanzhuduifangdexuqiu、xingquheaihaoqingxu。manmandi，takaishicuxindayibierendeganshou，buhuizaizhanxianchuaiqingdeguanhuaihewennuan。zheileiguanzhudequeshizaochengleaiqingdeqianqueheshulidejiazhong。

　　情感的改变

　　fenshouqianlengmoyuqinggandegaibianjinmilianxi。shenshenaizhezhezijideneixin，jianjiankaishipijuanbumanyi。zheizhongzhuanbiankenengshiyinweigerentisheng、shenghuodeyalihuoshiyixiebukeyuyuededenanti。buhuizaiganshoudaowennuanheguanaideairenzhujianyanjuanlehezhuiqiuxinyingcijixing，danduifangjizaiqinggandelengmoxiatihuidaolebeibeipanhebeipaoqidetongchu。

　　复建期待和连接

　　fenshouyiqian，dangwomenfaxiantakaishibiandelengmoshi，bufangshizhequanmianlejietamendeneixinshijie，tanxunzhenshiqinggandongyin。goutongshifujianxiwangyuxiangliandegongluqiaoliang，baozhengshuangfangdoushijiyugongxiangbicizhijiandexiangfaheganshou。yucitongshi，zaiciguanzhuduifangdexuqiu，weiairenjiyuzhichihelijie，yiwenxinyuailaimibushulihelengmosuodailaideliefeng。

　　结果

　　fenshouqiantayijinghenlengdan，ganqingxuyaobuduandenuliyujianchi，danyoushihoulengmoheshulijianghuichengweihunyinpoliexinhao。fenshouqianlengmoyibanlaiyuanyugoutongheguanzhudequeshi，jiqiqinggandegaibian。danshi，womentongguojianlixindexianghulianjie，xunzhaoxiwangdehuomiao，bingqieyongguanhuaihelejielaizirunaidezhongzi。weiyouruci，dajiacainengjiaidejianglaizaojiuyigewennuandeqixidedifang，bikailengmoheshuliyinying。