挽回男友的秘密：挽回爱情的潜规则你懂吗？

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　　符合几条就该分手？

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　　丧失信任

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　　沟通不畅

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　　价值观念总体目标不一致

　　zaiganqingzhong，gongtongdejiazhiguanyumubiaokeyijiwomentigongfangweiyuxiwang。danshi，dangwomenfaxianhebanlvdehexinlinianyumubiaocunzaimingxiandemaodunshi，dajiashifougaikaolvyaobuyaonengzhangqigentamenyiqichengzhang？qianquegongtongdezhuiqiuyufazhan，nengrangwomenzaiganqingzhonggandaokongxuhemimang。

　　持续不断的损害

　　yicicidesunhainengrangwomenkaishizhiyizheiyiduanganqingshifouzhendeduizanmenyouli。dangwomenchixuzaodaobanlvdeshentihuojingshenshanghaishi，dajiashifougaizaicichengshouxialai？renhefangshidebaolixingwei、lingnvehuojiduandekandaidoushibunengbeijienade，womenyaoweihuzijideanquanhezunyan。

　　fuhejitiaojiugaifenshou，zaihuiguquanbuguanxishi，womenyaoshensishulv：zheiyiduanganqinghaiyoumeiyouwanliudehenyoukeneng？dajiashibushihainenggouhebanlvyiqichengzhang、chuangjiangengjiajiankang、gengjiaxingfuzhijiandeguanxi？jiarudaanshikendingde，neimeyexu，fuheyixiebiaoshijiuzugougaojiewomen，xianzaishishihoufangshoule。meigerenzhidegoumaiyiduanjiankangeryuanmandeganqing，ermouxieqingkuangxia，fenshoudoushizouxiangxingfudediyibu。