现任男友和前男友我该选哪个？

　　hunwaiqingnvrentichufenshouwanhuijiqiaoshiduizaihunyinzhongpanbiandenvrenlaishuodeyizhongmoufazhandefangfa，tamenxiwangkeyiwanhuizaoyipoliedeguanlian，shiqihunyinxingfu。danzheizhongwanhuijuefeiyishi，bixulengjingfenxiheqingtingduifangdexinsheng，yucitongshibiaodazijineixinzhenzhihegenggaichengnuo。miqiegoutong、xianghutiliangyuzunzhong，zaicilajinguanxishishixianwanhuideguanjiansuozai。chucizhiwai，jijixunzhaojishuzhuanyehunyinfudaohejingshenzhichiyekeyizhutuizaicixiufuguanxi，ranghunyinyouzhexindeqidian。

　　感情问题：婚外情女人提出分手的确定

　　zaihunyinlichuxianhunwaiqing，zhenduinvreneryan，shiyizhongjuyouchongjilideganqingwenti。yingduihunyindeliekaihexinlingshenchudepanbian，tamenwangwanghuixuanzexiangfenshou，xunzhaosuiyiyuxingfu。zheigexuanzebujinyingxiangzhetazijideshenghuotiaoxuan，haiduizheigejiatingdailailejidadezhendong。neiyang，zaifenshouquedingyanqian，cunbucunzaiwanhuidekenengxingni？

　　反省思考：洞悉隐秘的矛盾

　　nvrenxiangfenshoutongchangdaibiaoletamenzaihunyinzhongduizhuangkuangdebumanheneixindemangran。zheishi，fanshengsikaobiandeyouweizhongyao。tamenbixushendusikaohunyinlidemaodunhewenti，quelizijideyaoqiuheqiwang。zhiyouxiandongxibingchulihunyinzhongyinmidemaodun，cainengdakaiwanhuidekenengxingdedamen。

　　密切沟通：重建信任的窗口

　　fenshouhoudewanhui，keyijianlizaimiqiegoutongdeqiantixia。nvrenyingdangjiandingdiqingtuzijidezhenshitihui，tongshihaiyaoxuehuilingtingduifangneixinyaoqiuyuganshou。zaigoutongzhong，zhencheng、lijiehezunzhongshibukehuoquedebiaozhun。bicibixutanchengxiangjiandigoutongjiaoliu，fujianxianghuxinrenheaiqingdeqiaoliang。

　　内心更改：成长与收获承诺

　　wanhuihunyinbudandanshinengrangduifangfanhuishenpang，gengshiyicineixindechengzhangyushouhuo。nvrenbixuzhanxianzijideneixingenggai，yongshijixingdongzhengmingzijichengxinheyongqi。zheijiuyiweizhezhaochuzijidecunzaidebuzu，nulitishengzijideqingshanghegoutongxiediaonengli。weiyoutongguogerentishengchengnuo，caihuirangduifangzhenzhenzhengzhengyujianweilaihunyindejihuihekeneng。

　　技术专业指导：寻找外部支撑的能量

　　hunwaiqinghefenkaisuodailaideganqingwenti，youshihouxuyaoyongdaogengzhuanyedehunyinzhidaolaizhongshipinghengheyindao。hunyinzhidaoshikeyitigongzhuanyedezhidao，xiezhufuqiliangrenyishidaowentidebenzhiranhouzhaodaojiejuefangan。yucitongshi，xunzhaojingshenshangdeweijie，biruyuqinpenghaoyougoutongjiaoliuqingtu，nenggouweinvrentigongyifenjingshencengmiandeshiyongheanwei。

　　重构婚姻：重新建立逐渐

　　wanhuibingbudengyuhuidaocongqiandehunyinqingkuang，ershiyinggaigenjubicizhijiandeqinfen，gongtongjianliqiyiduanyigequanxindehunyinguanlian。zheixuyaoshuangfangzhongxinsikaohunyindejiazhiheyiyi，bicilijieyubaorong。chuangjianjijierjiankangdeshenghuohunyinfangshi，weiweilaishenghuodaxiajianshidejichu。

　　结束语

　　hunwaiqingnvrentichufenshouwanhuijiqiao，bujinjinzhishibawozhuhunyinlidezuihouyisijiyu，gengshiweilerangzijihaiyoujihuizhongshixingfuyuzhenzhenzhengzhengdemanzugan。zaizhixingwanhuifangandeguochengdangzhong，nvrenbixushencengcishenshizijiyaoqiu，genjumiqiegoutong、neixindiaozhenghejishuzhuanyezhidaowanchenghunyindezhongsu。zuihou，weiyoutongguobicizhijiandegongtongfendouhezhenzhidetouru，caikeyiranghunyinkaiqixindezhujian。