花镇情感导师冷爱：良好沟通是经营婚姻的必修课

　　zaiganqingdezhongdian，chuxianleyizhongzhuangkuang，neibianshi“fenshouhouyaoqiandenanren”。zheizhongnanren，buganyuganqingdeliekai，yeyaozaijingjishangsuoyaosuowei“peichang”。tamenzhaogezhongliyou，naizhiyifalvmingyi，xiwangcongqiannvyoushoushanghuodejinqian。haizidexingweiyinqilepubiandefenqihesikao。daodishishenmezaochenglezheileixianxiangdechuxian？shijinqianyouhuohuoshizizunxinsunhai？zheibijiangyinqidaliangtantao。

　　相爱以后的纠葛

　　bansuizheganqingdeliekai，buxingdishijishenhouluchushuimian，fenshouhouyaoqiandenanrenchengweileyizhonglingrentaoyandeqingkuang。zheizhongnanren，zaiganqingdezhongdian，wufabaituotandewuyanyinyou，yihuaxuewuzhishouyiweiliyou，chixusuoqunvfangzichan。

　　残余的情绪纠葛

　　fenshouhouyaoqiandenanrentongchangxianruzaiqinggandejiongjingzhong。suiranganqingzaoyizoudaozuihou，dantamenhaoxiangnanyishihuai，qiwangtongguosuoqujinqianlaixianshizijideshiwangyufushang。zheizhongzuofabujinshiduicengjingdeaiqingdexiangwang，gengshiduizizunxinweihu。

　　背驰自尊心的行为

　　fenshouhouyaoqiandenanrendejudong，zheiyeshiduizizunxindecaita。tamenbuyuanjieshoubuchenggongyusangshi，jiangjingjishouyibaifangzaiganqingshenhou，yisuoyaojinqianzuowei“junheng”。danshi，zheileibeichizizunxindexingweizhiyoujinyibusunhaitamenzishendexingxiang，rangrenxixubuyi。

　　利益和法律争夺

　　zheileijiugebujinjintingliuzaiganqingfangmian，haishejifalvfaguihequanlidejiaofeng。fenshouhouyaoqiandenanrenzonghuiyifalvmingyi，guidingfenpaizichanhuosuoqufuyangfeideng。zheiyeshidenantigengweifuza，xuyaoyongdaofalvfaguifangshiqujiejue。

　　社会问题与价值观

　　fenshouhouyaoqiandenanrendechuxian，yinqileshehuishangmaodunyuguanniandemaodun。yifangmian，renmenduijinqianyuganqingzhijiandeguanxiyongyoubutongdeguandian，youxierenrenweinanxingyinghuodejingjibuchangjin，yourenzejuedeganqingbunengyongjinqiankaoliang。lingyifangmian，zheizhongzuofayeshejidaoshehuigongdeyugerenzerendetantao，yinqileduishehuisixiangyujiazhiquxiangdesikao。

　　重构分手后之间的关系

　　yingduifenshouhouyaoqiandenanren，nvxingbixubaochilengjing，buhuibeiqingxuzuoyou。genjulixingergongpinggongzhengdefangfa，chulilihuncaichanjiufen。erfenshouhouyaoqiandenanren，yexuyaoshenshizijigerenxingwei，yilixingherenxingdeyimianlaimianduiganqingdejieshu。

　　感情亲身经历教训和成长

　　duiyuyixiejingliguofenshouhouyaoqiandenanrendenvrenlaishuo，zheishiyipianjingyanjiaoxunyutuibiandezhangjie。genjuzheiyiguocheng，tamenkeyigengchengshudilejieziji，zhaodaoheshidejiejuefangfa，bingweijianglaideganqingbimianleisidejiuge。yucitongshi，qishishiduizheixiefenshouhouyaoqiandenanrendejinggao，rangtamenyishidaoletanyuyusuoyaowufadaitizhenzhengyiyishangdeaiyuguanhuai。