如何预防男友说分手？爱情这三大雷区不能踩！

　　dangnannvpengyouzhijianchanshengfenshoudeshihou，renmentongchangxiwangkeyiwanliubingfuhe。neiyang，fenshoulezenmewanliuhefuhechengweiyigejiqiedenanti。zaizheiguochengzhong，bixuyizhenchenghezhenxinqumianduikunnan，bingqietongguogoutonghelijiequjiejuemaodun。yucitongshi，yaoxuehuigaibianzijidequexian，bingzhanxianzijidejinbuyuchengzhang。zhongjianxinrenhezhongxinjianliganqingshixiufuguanliandeguanjiansuozai。erzuizhongyaodeshi，shuangfangdouyaoduoyidiannaixinyujianchi，gongtongfendou，cainengyoujihuiwanchengfenshouzhihoufuhe。

　　失去了爱人，怎样拾起以前的温暖？

　　yiduanganqingdewanbitongchangrangrenshifentongchu，danhenduorenyiranxiwangkeyiwanhuiaiqing，houzhongxinfuhe。neiyang，fenshoulezenmewanliuhefuhebianchengleyigezhongyaodeketiyanjiu。zaizheiguochengzhong，xuyaozunxunyixiejibenzhunze，yizengqiangchenggongdekenengxing。

　　1. 接受并理解分手原因

　　zaibuduanwanhuiaiqingyiqian，bixulizhidihuiwangyufenxifenshouyuanyin。diaojiebixujianlizaigongtongdelijiehelijieyishang。buyaojizhezhizelingyifanghuoyuantianyouren，ershiyaochangshilijiebierendeganshouhedongyin。zheizhonglijieyouliyubicinenggougenghaodigoutonghexianghufuchi。

　　2. 真诚沟通，重建信任

　　goutongshixiufuguanliandeguanjiansuozai。biciyingdangtanchengdigoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandetiyanyuxuqiu，fangzhipipinghezhize。yucitongshi，yaoqingtingtarendeshengxiang，guanxinbierendeganshou，bingzhanshichuzijilijieyuzhichi。genjuzhenzhidegoutong，nenggaishanxianghuzhijiandelijieherenke，weifuhefahuitezhang。

　　3. 挖掘问题的本质，改变现状

　　fenkaitongchangshiyinweibicizaiganqinglichulewenti，yiner，zhenduifuheeryan，jiejuezheigewentishishifenzhongyaode。chukaitanxunxiangtongdianhegongtongzhichu，haiyinggainuliwajuewentidebenzhi，bingxiangjinbanfagenggaizijidesiluhexingweifangshi。genjuziwofansi，xuehuimianduibierendeguandianhejianyi，yijixuexiyouyidegoutongfangfa，nengzengjiafuhedegailv。

　　4. 复建友情，再次共处

　　zaifuhedeguochengdangzhong，fujianyouqingzhiguanzhongyao。zaipengyoudejiaodukaolv，jianlixindeqingganlianxi，suzaogongtongdexingquyuaihao。zhujianhuifuzhengchangdexiangchumoshi，buyaojizhexiufulaojiuqinglvguanxi。genjuyouyidesuzao，nengzengjiaqinmiganherenke，weifuhediandingjichu。

　　5. 给对方时间和空间

　　fuhebushiyicuerjiudequanguocheng，bixushijianhekongjianzuochudiaozhengheshiying。biciyingdangjiduifangchongzudekewanxing，buyaoguofenganyutarendeshenghuoyuqinggan。tongguozishendejinbuyuchengzhang，zhanxianjiduifangyigezuihaodeziji，doushifuhedezhuguanyinsu。

　　6. 坚持不懈耐心

　　fuhebingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，xuyaoshuangfangdezhizhenaixin。pengdaokunnanyucuozheshi，buyaoqingyanfangqi，fanershiqingxiangxinaideliliang，buduannulibingbaochileguan。weiyoubicitonglixiezuo，nenggouweifuheerfendou，caiyoukenengwanchengwanhuiaiqingmubiao。

　　fenshoulezenmewanliuhefuhe，zaifenshouzhihouwanhuihefuheshiyixiangjianjurenwu，danzhiyaoshuangfangbicixiangai，erqiedouxiangweizhifendou，jiuhenyoukenengshiqiyiqiandewennuanyuxingfu。genjulijiehegoutong、genggaihezhongjian、jiyushijianhekongjian，jianxinaidelilianghuidaizhedajiazhongfanaiqingdezhian。buguanzuihoudejieguozenyang，wanhuihefuhedeyigeguochengzishenyeshiyiduanbaoguidejingli，yerangwomenzouxiangchengshuwanqiang。