男友不带我见朋友 感觉他只是想找炮友怎么办

　　dangliangrenfenshoushi，youshiyehuijuedetongchexinfei，danzheibingbudaibiaoyiqieyijieshu。fenshoulehaizenmewanhuiaiqingshidajiadoucunzaidekunnan。tamodadeyongqi、goutongyuqinfen，caikeyiranqiaiqinghuohua。shiqixinlai、fansiguoqucuowu、tanxunjiejuewentidebanfa，quanshiwanhuiaiqingdezhongyaobuzhou。zuizhongyaodeshiyaozhenxinfuchu，lejiebierendeganshou，bingzhudonggaibianxianzhuang。genjuzhenchenghuihua，zhongxinjianlidegongshi，huoxufenkaibingbushizhongdian，fanershicongtoukaishidejihui，rangaiqingzaicizhankai。fenshoule，bingbudengyuwanbi，fanershizhongxinqihangdekaiduan。

　　jianshu：danglianrenqinshenjinglifenshouzhihou，shibushihaikeyiwanhuiaiqingchengweiyigerangrenyouyubujuedenanti。butongderenmianduizheigewentishiyouzhebutongdechuangyixiangfafangfa，dankeyishizheyixiacuoshilaizhongxinqudelianxihexiufuaiqing。

　　自我反思：追忆初心

　　fenshoulehaizenmewanhuiaiqing，zaifenshouzhihou，diyibushikaizhanziwofansi。huiyiqilianggerenxiangchushidemeihaohuiyi，huiyizuichurenshideneiyike，zaisikaozaochengfenshouyuanyin。zheiyangkeyibangzhudajiazhongxinshenshizijideyantanjuzhi，zhaodaojishigaizhengshineikongjian。yucitongshi，yeyaokaolvtamenzhijiandeteshuzhichujiqilingyifangduiyuwomendebiyaoxing，jinerjiandingbuyiwanhuiaiqingjuexin。

　　个人提升：提升自我使用价值

　　fenshouzhihou，womenyinggaihuashijianhejinglilaitishengziwoshiyongjiazhi。gaishanzijiderongmaopinpaixingxiang、xuexijineng、fazhanqushixinqigerenaihao，quanshitishengziwoshiyongjiazhidelujing。zaiwomenbiandegengjiazixinyuyoufengcaishi，lingyifanghuizhudongzaiciliuyidaodajia，jinerweiwanhuiaiqingzhizaojihui。

　　复建联络：敢于沟通交流

　　fujianguanxishiwanhuiaiqingdezhongyaoyibu。danzhongyaodeshiyidingyaobimianqiangzhiheduifanglianluo，fanershixuanzeyigeheshidejihuihefangfa。nenggoutongguodianhua、shouji、huoshimianduimiandejiaoliu，jiduifangshuomingduiyuzaicishizhedechengyi，bingjijiqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou。genjuzhenzhidehuihua，jiashenlejieherenke，weiwanhuiaiqingdaxiajichu。

　　寻找妥协：寻找解决问题的办法

　　zaixinjianlianluodeqiantixia，wubixunzhaotuoxie，yitongxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。shuangfangbixurenrangyixie，lejieduifanglichang，bingkeyiweilezhongxinzaiyiqizuochudiaozheng。tuoxiebingbushiduizishenshiyongjiazhidexisheng，gengshiweilebaochiaiqing，nenggougenghaodigongchu。genjubicizhijiandetuoxieyunuli，keyizhujianxiufuguanxi，fanhuiyiqianlangmandeqingkuang。

　　重构爱情：重新建立的共识

　　weilenengwanhuiaiqing，zhonggouaiqingdefangshishibukequeshaode。bicixujingguoyouxiaodegoutongyulijie，zhongxinjianlidegongshiyumubiao。yucitongshi，yeyaozhongxinsikaocongqiandeyixiliewenti，fangzhizaicixianruzaiqizhong。genjuzhongxinjianlibiaozhun、tishengjiaoliuhehudong，nengrangaiqingzhongxinhuanfachuxindeshengjihewendu。

　　结束语

　　fenshoulehaizenmewanhuiaiqing，fenshouleshibushihaikeyiwanhuiaiqingzaiyubicidenulihexinxin。ziwofansi、gerentisheng、fujianlianluo、xunzhaotuoxiejiqizhonggouaiqing，shiyixilieguanjiandeliucheng。meiyigeqingkuangdoubuyiyang，butongdefangfahenyoukenengshiyongyubuyiyangderenhezhuangkuang。danzuizhongyaodeshi，yaoxiangxinaiqingyeshizhideweizhinulide，yinweiwomenzhenxinfuchu，buduannuli，jiuhenyoukenenghenhaodiwanhuiaiqing。