异地恋为什么难熬？我们都应该知道一下

 yidilianweishenmekelian？yidilianweishenmenanao？weishenmeyidilianhennan？woxiangxinhenduorendoushizhiqiyi，buzhiqier。xiaobianxianzaijiubangnifenxixia。

一、为什么异地恋很难

1、心态和生理需求

 duiyumeigerenlaishuo，shenchuyidiliandenanrenhenvrenhuijingshoushijianhekongjiandeshuangzhongkaoyan，bijingwulunnanrenhaishinvrendouyouxintaiheshenglifangmiandexuqiu，zhengsuowei：shisexingye，benwukehoufei，ruruoxintaihuoshenglizhangqishiheng，ganqingjiyoukenenghuiqingfu，hekuangnanrenhenvrenbunengchaoxixiangchu，suizhierlaidebuquedingyinsuhuiyurijuzeng，xianrujinjiehunyoulihundeqingkuangshiyoufasheng，hekuangmeiyoubaozhangdeyidilianni？

2、地域问题

 weishenmeyidilianhennan？yinweidiyuwenti。yidiliankenenghuiqianshedaodiyufangmiandewenti，bushigongzuohuoxuexidedidianjiushijiaxiangdedifangxiangqushenyuan，chuyujiazhangdejiaodukaolv，nanrendefumuhuoxumeiyoushenmeyijian，fanzhengshinvrenjiaguolai，keshinvrendefumudeyijianjiudale，bijingfumubuhuixinganqingyuanrangzijidenveryuanjia，bushiganshejiushizuogeng，yidilianhuixiongduojishao，suiranbushifumuzhiming，meishuozhiyan，danshifumudejianyiyijiuyuweishangcun，hekuangfumubuhuihaizijidehaizi，chufadiankendingweihaizizhexiang。

3、有人乘虚而入

 yidiliandefuqihuinanyididangyuanziyuzhoubiandeyouhuo，zaiyidiliandechuqihuoxukeyididangxiexushiri，bijingmeiyoudadaojibuzeshidedibu，daidaoqinglvzhijianfengeliangdikuangrichijiu，ruruobeichuyujinshuiloutaideyixingshanfengdianhuo，shibihuixingtongganchaiyuliehuo，yidianjiuzhe，dabufenyishibaigaozhongdeyidilian，wubushibeitumoubuguideyixingwaqiangjiao，zhengsuowei：xuqiuyouduoda，shichangyouduoda，daidaokongxuzhishijiushibeirenchenxuerruzhiri。

4、远水解不了近渴

 nanrenhenvrenkeyirijiushengqing，tongyangnanrenhenvrendeganqinghuiyourunishuixingzhou，bujinzetui，yuanbenyijingdaodaaiqingdejibie，bansuiyidiliandeshirizengduo，nanrenhenvrendeaiqinghuijiangjichengweiyouyi，suoweideqinglvguanxizaoyijingmingcunshiwang，zhizhichengweizuishuxidemoshengren，bijingdianhuayijiduanxinbunengdadaojifuzhiqindexiaoguo，fandaorangrenxinjihuoliao，zhengsuowei：yuanshuijiebulejinke，wuluntoutongnaorehaishidashixiaoqingdoubunengbangfu，jiuerjiuzhinanrenhenvrencongzhangjiyibicideguanxi，shuangfangyifenshoudefangshichengquanbicideziyoushen。

二、异地恋为什么难熬

1、想念却没有用

 weishenmeyidilianneimenanao？yinweixiangsikuwotingwodepengyoushuoguoyijuhua。qishilianggeyidilianxiangaideren，zhendeshitebiedeburongyi，lianggerenzhinengtongguoshoujishangmiandeduanxin，huozheshuoshishipinliaotiancaikeyiweijiezijidexiangsizhiku，zheishishifentongkude。

2、力不从心

 weishenmeyidilianneimenanao？yinweizhu。zainvpengyoushengbingdeshihou，nanshengkeyitongguoshouji，tongguoweixingentashuo，niyaoduochidianeryao，yaoduozhuyishenti，qianwanbuyaorangzijizheliangle。danshi，woxiangshuodanshi！zheixiehuasheidouhuishuo，buguodangnidenvpengyouzaizijiganjuedaozuiwuzhudeshihou，taxiangrangnijitaduanyibeiwenshui，niquezuobudao。duiyunilaishuoyeshinanaode

3、寂寞

 weishenmeyidilianneimenanao？yinweizhiyoujimo。jiuerjiuzhi，zaitadexinlimianzenmekenengbuhuichanshengyizhongkongxujimodeganjueni？ruguozaizheigeshihouyourenchenxuerrudehua，woxiangxinnimendelianqingyihuishunjianbengta。meiyoubanfa，zheigeshehuijiushizheiyang，yidilianzhendeshifeichangdenanjianchi。 nvrenshiyizhongganxingdedongwu，takeyijilianaichongmanfeichangzhangjiudebaozhiqi，danshiqiantishi，nimenzaitongyigewuyanxiaxiangchu。danshiniquezuobule，suoyishuoshinanaode。lianai：1、lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

4、缺少关怀

 yidilianweishenmekelian？yinweiqueshaoguanhuai。nvpengyoushengqile，henvpengyouchaojiale，nvpengyouwuliqunaole。womenyigeyongbao，yigedaoqian，shenzhishiyigejiandandedoutaxiaodexiaodongzuo，douyoukenenghuirangzheigewenti，dashihuaxiao，xiaoshihuale。danshiyidilian，quebuneng！！！ ruguowobujienidianhua，ruguowobuhuiniweixin，ninengzenmebanni？nvrenshizuixuyaoguanhuaide，zuixuyaobaohude，meiyoubaohudeta，xiangshibeidayuyizhilinzhe，bukelianma？

 meiduanyidilianyoumeiduanyidiliandenanchu，wulunduonan，douku，xiwangnimendounengwuwangchuxin，jianchizoudaozuihou，zhunimenxingfu。