为什么会异地恋？因为我想和你有一个未来

 yourenhuiwenweishenmeyidilianweishenmenan？jiaruzhendeneimenanweishenmehuiyidilian？duiyunidezheizhongyiwen，womanmanweinijieda。

一、异地恋为什么难？

1、bunengjianmian，meiyouhuati

 yidilianweishenmenan？yinweigongzuojinzhang，duoshuyidilianqinglvjigeyuebujianmiandoushuyuzhengchang。gangkaishi，meitianhuitonggedianhua，guanxinduifangguodezenmeyang，chishenmele，leibulei，zaiganma?keshishijianjiule，zheixiewenhoubiandepingdanwuwei，shenzhiganjueshizaimeihuazhaohua。bujinduifanghuidadehenfuyan，jiulianzijidouganjuezongwenzheixiehuatihenshahentianzhen。cengjingzuishuxideren，xianzaiyidiandiantunse，liangongtonghuatidouzhaobudao，buzhidaoshigaifangshouhaishigaijixu。

2、zhinengwanggousongxiaoliwu

 yidilianweishenmenan？yinweiyidilianhenku，qianbudaoduifangshou，wenbudaoduifangdechun，nalihaiyoushenmelangmankeyan。chulewangliaohedianhualiaotian，zheifenlianqingshizaishizhaobudao“luojiaodian”，bierendeqixikeyipeizheduifangchifanguangjiekandianying，eryidilianqinglvdeqixizhinengbeiwuxiandekongxuganyangai，danyuanzaimougejierili，nikeyishoudaoduifangdekuaidi，yenengganshouyiciweiruoqueyouzhenshidelangman。

3、kanbuqingnizaitaxinzhongdeweizhi

 yidilianweishenmenan？yinweiyidiliandeqinglvmendui“dengdai”yicisuanshiyouaiyouhen，aizainikeyiyongdengdaidefangshihuanlaiyifenmeihaodehunyin，henzaiqianfangdeluyouduozhang，xiwangyouduomiaomangniyigaikanbuqing。nizainan，tazaibei，duifangdeshijieshishenmeyangzi，tazaineiliyoumeiyouyudaogengheshideren，nizaitaxinlijiujingzhanjuzhezenyangdeweizhi，shuoshizaidenihenmolingliangke，youshihouxiangxiang，zaiyidiliandeguochengzhong，fuchugengduodeyifang，queshixianggeshagua。

4、daojiehunnianlingquehaowujinzhan

 ruguobaqitalianaidejinzhansudubizuohuojian，neiyidilianjiushuyuwoniu。doudaolegaijianjianshuangfangfumudenianlingle，shenbiandepengyoumengaiququgaijiayejiale，zhiyounimenhaichuzaimoheqi，yiyanbuhejiuyaonaofenshou，sihaomeiyouanquangankeyan。xinlitouqueshihenzheji，keshiduiciniyouwunengweili。

5、周末没有他

 yidaozhoumo，nijiuhuifaxianzijihenkelian。yinweiniyoudabadeshijian，queyoubuzhidaozuoshenme，xiangkandianyingqueshaogerenpei，xiangyaoguangguangjieyouyuebudaoren，dadianhuajiguimi，duifangyinweiyaopeinanyouerweiwanjujueni。youshihouxiangxiang，haishirangzijimangliuyidianhao，zhishaozheiyangjiubuhuigandaogudu。

6、haipatayudaogengheshideren

 suiranhenduoshihouniganshoubudaozijizailianai，dannishizhongjianchiweiaifuze，jinguantalinihenyuan，dannishizhongzilvxianggeyihunrenshineiyanghuozhe。danshendeyixingpengyouwanshangyueniqukge，nixiaozheshuowanshangheduixiangyouyue，yudaorangzijixindongderen，niyeshizhongmaibuchuneiyibu，jinguanniquedingzheigerenyaobitayouxiu，bitagengshihelianai，dannihaishijianchidengzheyidideta，nizongshizheiyangquanziji：“doudengleneimejiule，buchazheiyishibanhuile。”

7、总是爱幻想

 qinglvyidi，nanmianyouyifangzongaihuanxiang，huanxiangtaweixiaodeyangzi，huanxiangtaqinnietoudeyangzi，huanxiangtadounikaixindeyangzi。shijianjiule，nizaixinlijiuhuipingkongniezaoyigeta，wulunshixinggehaishimouxiejudongdouhexianshidetacunzaichuru，shenzhiyaobixianshidetahaojishibei，qishinixinliyehenqingchu，dannirenyouzijizheiyangquzuo，yinweinizhishixiangrangkanqilaimeineimejimohegudu，xinlikongkongdeweizhizongdeyoudongxitianmanba

二、为什么会异地恋

 yourenshuoweishenmehuiyidilian，lianggerenchengtiannizaiyiqi，guranshixingfude。tamenhenshaojimo，danyehenshaoyoumianzhangdesinian，sinianbenshenjiushiyizhongdexingfubushima？“wogenniguozhebuyiyangdeshenghuo，danwoxiangtiyannideshenghuo”zheihuoxushiwojianguoguanyuyidiliandejiedu。jideyouyiduiqinglvdeduihuashizheiyangde。nanhaiduinvhaishuo：“wozhidaofangnilikai，nihuiyougengguangkuodetiankongheweilai，wohuigengnuli，dadaoyidingdegaodulaiyongbaoni。”bannianhou，taguorantuozhexinglixiangchuxianzaitamianqianduitashuo：“wolaile，buzoule。”yidilianhuirangwomenxuehuiyongqi、zhongcheng、xinren、lijie、goutong、mubiaoherennai。tagengxiangshimalasong，wangwanghuiduizijishuo，zaijianchiyixia，jianchiyixia。mashangdaole。zhiyaowanchengbisai，buxuyaoqudemingci，nijiuyingle。womendouzugouchengshuhelizhicaihuixuanzequyidilian，yinweimeiyourenyuanyiyongzijideganqingquduyigebuquedingdeweilai，weishenmehuiyidilian？yinweiwoyuanyijianchixiaqubenshenjiushiyinweixiangheniyouyigeweilai。

 suoyi，yourenyuanyiheniyidilian，qianwanbuyaosuibianbatanongdiule。yaoxiangqingchuniweishenmeyidilian？ruguonixiangqingchuleniweishenmeyidiliandeshihou，nibianbuhuiqingyidipaoqita。