如何摆脱失恋，迎接新生活

 ruguonishizhendetourudaozheifenaiqingzhongneimeniyidingfeichangzaihuzheiyiduanganqing，shiliandeshihouniyeyidinghuifeichangzhitongku，youshikuyichangkenenghuishufuyidian，zheiyanghuoxukeyishifangyixianiyayidexinqing，danshizhenzhengdizouchulaiquehennan。neimewomenruhezouchushilian？ruheduidaishilianni？ruhequbaituoshilianni？

一、如何走出失恋？

1、多参加活动

 ruhezouchushilian？qishishilianshihenzhengchangdeshi，fenshoule，xuehuiziwozhaogu：fenshouzuipayiquebuzhen，renheziwozhaogudexingdongdoushiliangyao：qudaqiu，qukuangwu，qushanshang、haibiandajiao，quliugou，qugongyuanshaitaiyang，qukandianying。henduorenjieyouyishilaiwanchengxintaideaidao，birushaohuixirixinhan，cileigaobiexingdongpoyouliaoshangdexiaoguo。

2、不想之前的事

 ruhebaituoshilian？fenshouqishizuipazuanniujiaojian，tebieneixiexihuansuanjiuzhang，huibudangchuqishiyushiwubude。haiburubaneixiedongxishouzangqilai，yongyizhongbijiaoyukuaidefangshiweizheiduanlianqinghuayigejuhao。

3、多点向朋友倾诉

 ruhebaituoshilian？fenshoubazijiguanzaiyigehuiandehuanjingli，ziwoduoluo。zhaorenshuo、zijixie，wangshanghewangyoususuxinsheng，qingxuyaoyouchukou，buranhuijuedi。raneryinweipashuolegengreshangxinhuo"xinchoubukewaiyang"，pabierenxiaohua，gancuifengkou，shubuzhishuochulaijiushiyizhongzhiliao，nengshuodaibiaoxintaishangyijingkeyitanranmianduiqulvxing。lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

4、转移注意点

 ruhezouchushilian？zhuanyizhuyidianweiguanjian。fenshouzuipaxianzaininaowufaziba，choulixinqingdefangfahenduo，likaishangxindiqulvxing，tingduanyinle，kankanshu，qidao，huobaaizhuanyi，qubangzhuneixiexuyaoaideliulanggou，quguanhuaishenbiandelaoren、xiaohai……nianqingrenzuichangyongshangwang、dianshi、liaotianlaizhuanyi。

5、要学会自省

 ruhezouchushilian？fenshouqishihenpa“siniuyimianjing”，wanquanshiqufanshenghuozaitongkuzhongzhaoxunyiyidenengli，fanshengbushishuluosheidecuo，ershinengzaishiquhoukeguanpinggushuangfangdechengzhang、xuexi，yijikeyizuoweixiayiduanganqingdejiejian。

去旅行。

6、去旅行

 ruhebaituoshilian？lvxingshigaibianrenduixuduoshiwudekanfa，erqienizailvxingshihouxinqingshikaixinde，nimanmandejiuhuibanishiliandeshiqingwangla。lvxingjiushiyaokaixinde，buyaolaoxiangshiliandeshi，bunengqunimenyiqiquguodedifang，zheiyangnicaibuhuihuainianta（ta）nicainengbaituota（ta）。

二、如何对待失恋？

1、投入新的生活

 ruheduidaishilian？shilianle，yiweizheyouyigexindekaishi，jiranyijingshilian，neimejiubuyaoshibushidiquhuiyiyiwangdemeihaoshiguang，neizhihuishinijixushangxin，rangnichenzuizaiyiwangdehuiyilimian，niyinggaiyonggandepaoqiyiqiandehuiyi，tourudaoxindeshenghuozhong。

2、否定之前的感情

 shilianle，xiangyixiangduifangdehuaixiguan，xiangyixiangnimencengjingbuhaodehuiyi，ranhounijiuhuifaxiannimenbingbushihezaiyiqi，xianzaifenshoulehuoxushide，yemiandezaiyihougengjiatongku。

3、投入另外的事情

 ruheduidaishilian？touruxindedongxi，chuquhepengyoutongkuaideheyidun，hepengyouhaohaodeqingsuyixia，keyihenhaodehuanjienidexinqing，shifangnideyali，nenggourangnigenghaodecongshilianzhongzouchulai。

 zhaodianshiqingzuo，shijianshideliaoshangji，jiangzijideshijiananpaihao，rangzijimeiyoushijianquxiangduifang，zheiyangjingguozhangshijiandezuoshi，nijiuhuifaxianduifangdeyingzizainidexinliyijingyuelaiyuedanle，erzhangshijiandezuoshinihuifaxiannidegerennengliyeyousuotigao，zheiyeshiyijianyiwaizhixi。

4、找出自身的不足

 ruheduidaishilian？zhaochuzijizheicishilianshishenmeyuanyin，jiayigaizhengyiquebaozaixiayiduanganqingzhongnibuhuizaiyinweitongyangdeyuanyinercuoshinidelianren。

 shilianle，bingbushishuozaipingshideshenghuozhongbunenggouzaixiangjian，ershibuyaozaiheduifangyoushenmeaimeideguanxi，nongdaolianggerendeguanxihaishibuqingbuchude，lianggerenyaojiangganqingshangdeguanxiqieduan，zheiyangcaibuhuijixujiduifangshanghai。

 meiyiduanganqingzaishilianzhihoudouhuichuxianyiduantongkuqi，erjingguozheiyiduantongkuzhihou，nijiuhuifaxianzijisihuzhangdale，zijibianle，biandechengshule，zheiyeshishilianzhihounideshouhuo。

shilianzhihoudiaozhenghaoziji，yigengjiankangdexintaitourudaoxiayiduanganqingzhongqu，xiayiduanganqingshishiliandediaoji。