为何如今男孩子不追女孩子了，冷爱和花镇到底可不可信

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为何如今男孩子不追女孩子了

 「barichangshenghuoxiangxiangdetaihao，ninengdiedefeichangzhong;barichangshenghuoxiangdetaizao，ninengsangshishengcunxiaqudedanliang。richangshenghuojinyouyizhonggerenyingxiongzhuyi，bianshizaizhengquerenshishenghuodezhenxiangyihou，rengranxiangshoushenghuo。」——luoman•oufan

为何如今的男孩子，都不愿意花时间去追女孩子了?

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这是为什么呢?

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