怎么应对这类种类的男生，花镇情感咨询怎么样

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主要表现一：沒有使命感，不愿担负男生需有的基础义务

 zhixiangtanlianaiyoubujiehunde“buxiangjiehunnan”yibanquanshimeiyoushiminggandenansheng，tamenqipanlianaizhongdeneileijuede，xiainvhaiergenzishendeqinqinwowo，youyu，lianaizhongdenanhaihenvhaibushejidaoyiwunanti，yebuyongfanyingnanshengxuchengdandeyiwu，jimeiyoujiatingzerendezhongren，youmeiyoudaoyizerendeguanshu，gengmeiyoushehuigongdedebiaozhun，yinci ，wujuwushuyouyoupiaoliangmeinvxiangsui，ziranshinanrenmenqipanderenjiantiantang。shubuzhi，jinyouneileidanxinfuzerenyoujiqibuyuanyifuzerendenanshengcaihuizhuyaobiaoxianchujiqide“buxiangjiehun”xinlizhuangtai。

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主要表现二：极其自私自利性，一切都以自身的得与失筹算轻和重

 bujiehundenanshengyouerzhong，yizhongshimeiyouqiantaobuqixifujiebuqihun，zheileirenyibanburongyiyou“konghunzheng”;lingyizhongshiyouwanhundeqian，danbianshibuyuanbeihunyinshenghuochanzhudezisizilinansheng，zheileirenzijuedezishendebiaozhunfeichanghao，shenpangdenvshengxuduo ，yinci ，tanenggougenhenduobuyiyangdenvhaierzaiyiqi，yezhishishizaiyiqisuibianwanwaneryi。huazhenqingganzixunzenmeyangzaizheileirendesixiangyishili，wanhunjiudaibiaozhedanfudaliangdeyiwu，bianhuixishengzijixuduodesuiyi，yinci，zheileirenbianhuizaochengchiyi，weikongzishenhunhoubianhuisangshirenshenziyouquan，sangshijingjifazhanshangdejingjiduli。

 nvhaieryingjishichuligenzishenchuduixiangdenanshengshifouyouneiyangdegerenxingweiquxiang，jiaruyigenanhaigenlianaizhongdenvhaieryiqiedouneimajinjinjijiao，bixuzaijishizhisunzhihoucaijueceshifouyouyidingdexingdong，neiyangdenanshenghuanshichengzaobatachuaileba!buran，dengzhenilaidaodalingshengnvnianjizaizuowukenaihetiaoxuanjiuhuizhiwanyi。

主要表现三：欠缺信心，惟恐没法确保另一方的幸福的生活

 yebingbuyidingbuxiangjiehunnandoushihuineimazisizilide，youdenanshengjimeiyougongzuoyoumeiyouxinxin，ziranhuizaiquxifuzhaoxifudenantishangdanxinle，tazongshizaidanyouzishenbulizhidijiangniquhuijialehouyixiliedeshihounantiruhejiejue，yizhiyuxiangtaiduoershentilixingtaichiyi，yizhiyujingchangyongshenhuisedeqingxulaidanyoushifouhuibiequleni，jinigensuitayiqichikunailao。shijishang，zheileineixindihaisuanzuohenshanjierenyi，jinjinnimenliangdeshenghuohuanjingxiangchataiduo，huozhezheigenanrenshangchuzaigongzuodechuchuangqihuanjie，huozhezheigenanrengerenganjuedouhaimeizhengtishilikeyigongniguoshanghaorizixingfukuailehemanzuderichangshenghuo。