花镇情感咨询曝光，离婚女人“出城”以后都懒得“回城”

 jinqi，hulianwangshangmianyouyipiantiezihenre：《zuoweiyiming35suiweijiadenvren，kanlebushaoshenbianrendehunyinzhuangkuang，jianjianbuneimezhejile》yinchulaichengqianshangwankafukachengbaorenduihunyinshenghuodezaicisisuo。dabufenbeihunyinshenghuosuokundenvrenyingdangdouxiangguo，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，tangruolihunzhihou，zishenderichangshenghuoshifouhuigenghao?zheiyitiezilijiuhuiyouxuduo liyidenvrenzaixushutamendemeihaoshenghuo。bulunshitiaoxuandanshenhuanshizaicidunzaihunyinshenghuoli，richangshenghuodezidehuanlecaisuanshinvrenyishengzhuiqiuwanmeidemudi。xiangxinni，quanbushi，dounengsuoyounaxia!

城里的想象已毁灭，出城女人不想回程

 wangmin“hongguoguo”yiliyisannianle，qinrenhepenyoujiqireqingdibangtazhangluozheerhunmubiao，danshi，tadoujujuele。“shiquhunyinshenghuo，wozhishiyibugenmouyinanrenyiqishenghuo，erbushishiqurichangshenghuo。wowuxujiangdabadeshijianyongzaibutingdejiawuhuoshang，wuxuzaititawulunhaizijiaoyuerxiaojixintai。ziran，yebuhuiyinmileluerbeizuozhefuzhujiashangdetachizedepengtougoumian，‘baiduditudaohang’dexiangshenggengdaiciqiejishuzhuanye……wobuzaitiaoxuanercihunyinshenghuo，bingbushi‘yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng’，zhishibaituohunyinshenghuo，wozhaodaolegengqiangdeshenghuofangshi，fajuelezuihaodeziji。”

 wangmin“tianbuliangjiuxinglai”zebiaoming：“liyi5nian，qianrenlaogonghouhuile，meishiertouhuaisongbao，qidaizaihun，henbunenglianqingmingshijiedoubangwosongli，gezhonggeyangquyue。youqishimingchaanfangfajuewobingmeiyouxinnanpengyouyihou，jiqiquexinwoshizaidengta。taquanbudeqingshangzhishangdouhaizhiliuzaiyuandibudong，danshi，woyibuzaishinageyizinvelaiwanhuihunyindenvrenle。wolaiguoxuduo diqu，zaishuzhongheshijizhongjiejiaolexuduo bizishenchenggongderen，womingbaileshenmejiaoxingfudeshenghuo。yiner，wobuxiangfanhuihunyinshenghuonatiaofaweidelaodaoshangqu。”

 rutongwangmin“yigexingqishousanjin”shuode，zaidanshendeshenghuoli，tazhujiangaoqingchu，liangzhezhijianjiayigenanren，bibushangbazijihuochu“nvhanzhi”。zheihuayichu，wangminmenjingxianghuiying。gengyouwangminhuizongchu：“yigenvrendeqingkuangzenmeyang，dequegenhunyinshenghuomeiyouhendaguanlian。”

日常生活得优劣与围城内外不相干

 mouzhuminghunyinjieshaosuodezerenrenganleyigediaoyan，youguanshujuxinxixianshixinxi：erlingyisinian，daozheigehunyinjieshaosuobeiandelihunnanshigong844ming，erlihunnvshijin121ming，zaiqizhongyeyouhaodiannvshishibabamamatidaiqilaibeiande。diaoyandejieguolingzheimingnanshizerenrenewantanxi：“dabufenlihunnantiaoxuanerhundemudishifenjuti，zuixianshixingdebixu，cizhishirichangshenghuodebixu，bixuyouxierenxiyifuzhufan，naxiazheizhongjichudecunhuoyaoqiu。danshiliyinvdeguidingquechaozhejingshencengmiantuokuan，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，rulingyifangyounaxiexihao、pingchangduxienaben、shibushixihaojianshenyundong、qinrendejiankangqingkuangzenyangdeng。zaiqizhongyiweilihunnvshideguandianhenjuxiangzhengxing：“diyicihunyinshenghuojingchangzhuzhonglingyifangdejingjifazhanbiaozhun，daizhenshizouruhunyinshenghuocaizhidao，jinyouzhaoyigeyoulianghaodexiguanhaohanyangderen，nicaikeyihaohaoguorizi。jiaruoerhun，yidingdaibiaozhechaoguoguoqudehunyinshenghuo，rangzishenguoshangmianyoupinzhiderichangshenghuo，buran，haibibushangbuxiangjiehun。”gaizerenrencengdiaochaguohaojigewoguodeleisizuzhi，zhenduineiyangdezhuanbian，zheimingzerenrenjiqigaoxingdibiaoming：shixianvshiduihunyinshenghuodeguidingyulaiyugenguojixingduijiele，gengzhongshixianghuxingquaihaoshangdelianjie，erbushijingjifazhanshangde“jiefujipin”。

 zaineiyangdeshujuxinxishenhou，youxuduonanrenzhanchuqu，jiqiqifendibiaoming：dajiazhuiqiuwanmeilequtouyuan，bazijixiuliancheng“nvhanzhi”。nandaoshuonvrenjiumeiyoushenglixuyao?yehuaqishuidiangongchengzuobianqihuaidiao，nandaoshuoniyejiubuqipanyishuangnanxingdeshou?guonianhuoguojie，denghuowanjia，niyejiuburongyigugaozixu?guanjiandeshi，xiaohai“beidanqinjiating”le，xingqingfazhanqushipianle，guangnizijiguodejingcaifenchengyouyongchu?shubuzhi，zhongduonvshiwangminyizhaozhididenaxialequanbunanti。

 youguanshenglixueguidingzheiyishuo，youxierenzhiyanbuhuidibiaoming，buhunzhuyibuyiweizhemeiyouxinghuoban，jishimeiyoushihede、anquanxingdexinghuoban，yeyouqingquyongpindian。

 shuodaojiazhongdegezhonggeyangyingjiansheshihuaidiaogaizenmeban?dahuoerdefanyingyeshichuhuyiliao。wangmin“qiangweihuadechao”shuo：“woyizhizaihunyinshenghuolideqingkuangxia，jiazhongdezilaishuiguandaoyehuaiguo，nagehuanshiwolaogongdegongkenan，xiushixiule，danquanbuxishoujianrutonglijingledizhenzaihai，quanbudezhuanyonggongjuhefeishuidouliudaoneibian。bierenzhichengdanxiu，suihoujiuqiaozheerlangtuizuozaishafashangdenghoujingyang。lihunzhihou，ketingxidingdenghuaiguo，zuobianqilouguo，wangshangbaiduyixia，zhaolaijishuzhuanyeweixiugongzuorenyuan，xiudewenwende，linxinghaibadamenkoudesuliaodaijishaoxialoutile。wofandezheweiyiliangbaiyuanjiukeyinaxiadeshiergenyigenanrenjiangjiu、yingduiyibeizima?”

 erguonianhuoguojiedeluoji，xuduo nvrenyeshiliyitiebadizhanxianlezishenbujiuduguodezheiyixinchunjiajie。youdequlvxing，youde“zhai”zaijialibeishuzheiyiniandundeshu，youdedaizhulaomahexiaohaibadourankongxiadecheng，congnanlaidaobei、congbeilaidaohei……“jishiguonianhuoguojieyoushihouhuichujingshangqing，yejinjinyishunjiandemishi。zhongjiuyinianyou365tian，guojiafadingjiarijinjinjishaoshu，dabufenshenghuohuanshiguangcaiduomude。”tashiwangmin“meitiankanbudaotiantianjian”dehuizong。

 shuodaoliyijiatingduixiaohaideweihai，xuduo nvshidejianghuashi：zhongguoshijiatingfuqindeaidabufenjinjingebaifang，yulaiyuduodeshilizhengshi，bumeimanhunyinbudanduifufubicishibufuzerende，bingqieyizhuangmeiyouhuanleketandehunyinshenghuoduihaizichengzhangyeshiyizhongqizha。linweibujudeliyizuishaohainenggoujiaohuixiaohaixuanze、buruanruojiqidangdandedanliang。

 buguanweichengneiwai，dajiazhibuguofenbietiaoxuanyizhonggengweiheshizishendeshenghuoxiguan，nenggouhuodegengqianggengziyoudeshenghuo。meiyigerenlijingbuyiyang，zhenduihunyinshenghuodeganshoubiranhaosikanhamulaiteyiyang，qianwangangai，chedibuyiyang。

你的婚姻生活合格了没有?随意的挑选最承担

 lihunlele，xiangzhaoyigexiaozhenandunxialai，rutongtazijishuodeneiban，zeyizuochengguoxiahoubanbeizi，bitiaoyigenanrengengkekao，ertalixianghuazhongdexiaozhenguifanhenshiji——sansixianchengshi、xinxiankongqi、loujiabutaigao、renwenfengqingposhi。congguilinyangshuo、yantaishi、lianyungangshidaohuangshanshi，wangminjitachulechengbaishangqiangetiaoxuan，xianeryijian，zeyizuochengbiyigenanrendekongjianyaodahenduo。zeyizuochengxiangbandaolao，shigangxingxuqiu;erzeyigenanrenhuanduyishengdehunyinshenghuo，quezhujianyibushiyibufennvshiderichangshenghuoyongpinle。

 jinqi，youxierendechuleshixiakaolianghunyinshenghuoxingfukuailedexinbiaozhun，mingjiao“sanyou”：jiyouxiaoyouqingyouqu。feichangzhidexunweideshi，xuduo rendaokanguozheiyijianyideguifan，bizhaolezishendejutiqingkuanghou，xiaozheshuo：“meihegee。”yeyouxierenshuo：“nengde2geyoujiuzaoyifeichanghaole。”