花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？感情危机中如何做到绝地反击？

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 nvhaierlaogongtinglezheijuhuashuo：“jirannineimeyaoxiangzheiyixiaohai，neimejiuxianliuxiaba，xiangxinnishizhenxinshiyide，nineimeben，zhuangyezhuangbuchulai。”jiangwanyixihua，talaogongjiuyaoqiyehuibaogongzuole，meiyouzaitiliyideshierle。nvhaieryikan，jiulejiezheiyiweijiguoqule，hunyinwanhuile。

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