nvrenbixuguishugan,shijishangnanrenyeyiyangbixu。zuoweinideta,tazuiqidaidebuzhishinideqinpei,haiyouni“feitabuke”deneileiqingxin,guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?youshihoucongshenhoujinbaotashuodao“younizhenhao,meibicidoubuqingchugaizenmebanle!”
1•别由于了解而忽视了礼仪知识
liangrenzaiyiqijiule,xuduo shierjianjiandibianhuibeixiaochu,liruyuanxiantabangnilindongxi,ninenghenkaixin,bangtadishui,tashuodaoganxie;rujinnihenyoukenengjinjinsuishoubawupindiujitamensuihoukanyebukan;yuanxiandajiazaixianghuyanqianshijueduibuhuiganshenmewaerduo、xingbitideshierde,rujinniyizhizaitayanqianpaiqiguantiyadouganjuebutaizaiyile。tashijiaowanghaozhangshijiandefuqijiancaihenyoukenengchuxiandechangjing,yinci jiarurengzailianaizhongdeniyidingyaozunshoutanlianailianrendejiaowangguize,gaixiexieshixiexie,gaihenbaoqianshihenbaoqian,gaitaobidewupinyaohaijidetaobi。yaoburan,wanyijianzhiyouyunideqianhouzuoyouchajuhendaerzaocheng dajiafenlile,qianbiandesuoyougongzuozhongyouyaozaicixueqile,tashiduomedekongbudeshier?
2•吵吵搞笑幽默能够轻松一下
youyiciyigepenyouyouyugongchuhuidaojiafeichanglei,jieguonvyoucongchaoshicaigouhuijiatajiumeiyouyizhaoyiwangdexiguanxingqujieta、bangtalindongxi。guoquleyihuinvyoudeduanxiaoxijiulaile“bawodazhongjiaqiaochongzhuangle,jiuzaishangchangdamenkou!”zheileizhuangkuangxia,zheiyipenyoumashangtiaoqipaowaichuqujienvyou,keshikandaotanvyouhaohaolizaishangchangdamenkou——
“zhuangnidedazhongjiaqiaochongni?”
“yibuxiaoxinyasile,nikankan——”
tashichaochaoma?yinggaishi,danshiruguoni,nifahuoma?ziranbu,diertianzheihundanhaimeizizidigenpengyougongxiangtammzheiyitianmeidechaochao。
女人要学好的花言巧语
xiaitingtashuodaochanmianfeicelangmandehua?keshi,niyoumeiyouxiangguotayebixutingnidehuayanqiaoyu?nanrenshijishangcongmouzhongyiyishangeryanyeshitingjuexitongxiaodongwu,youyixiehua,yidingshuoqijitamenting。“nishiwodeyingxiong!”、“nishitiandizuiwenrouderen”、“zheiyishijieshanglenibiedenanrendoubianweixiuhuazhentoule!”yebushibuhao,keshinixuyaoyinshizhiyi、yinshizhiyi、yinqingjiuli、ronghuiguantong、juyifansandixunzhaodalianggengheshishuorangnidenanrentingdehuayanqiaoyu。bubiganjuetashishuohuanghua,neiyangzuodemudishishinidetagengaizheni。tashifangfa,ziranyeshimudi。
1•“我爱你的鼻部(秀发、双眼、响声……)”
bishuoyuanyin:kaolvxurongba
tiaoyiyangba,zonghuiyouyiyangfeichangzhidekua。wobuxinle,tadewuguannaizhirentilijiumeiyouyiyangfeichangzhidenilveweijidianzanyangde,queshibuhao,jiujilaohuanghuafanfuqianpianbianshizhenzhi。buxiangxinnizhaoyijianjuebuchusedeyifukuzishitachuan,suihoumeiyicitachuanshangyihounidoushuo“zheiyijianyifukuzinichuanshangkezhenkushuai。”diyicitahenyoukenengyaoshuo“shaolaila,neimeguaiyidekuanshi。”dierci“bushiba?nidepinweinandaoshuohewobuyiyang?henyibana?”disanci“shizhenshijia?”disici“wofaxianlemeiyiciwochuanzheiyijianyifukuzinidouhenxihuana。”dinci……,wuxutashuoyidingzaoyimeizizidichuanshangzheiyijianbenlaihenyibandeyifukuzi,suihoutiaozheyanmeibaichu“kuawokuawo”dexiaobiaoqing,din+nci——“xifua,yifukuziyixiudoumolanle,hainenggoudaoyiyangdema?”nanrenshijishangyetingbucuopiande。
nanrenduirongmaodezaihujuebuxunyunvren,yiwentiweidaoxiangdekuazanhuandedeyidingshitayangzhuangdichendeanshuang,nigentashuodao“aizhenixiangzheni”tabulicainishiyouyutaganjuetashiyingdangde,bingqiejiaru•yedafu“aizhenixiangzheni”haoxiangjiubutaiyemenle,keshiduilijijitamendadefenqueguzhanghuanyingxinranjieshou。jugeshili,jiarutatoufapengsong,jiukuataxiufakushuai,toufaxishaokuatakanjiancongmingnenggan,tudingkuatataorenxihuanyeshikeyide;yandakuatashuangyanguangliang,yanxiaokuatayanjingyoushen,shuangyanzaidakuatashuangyanmeilidongren;zuibadakuatahenshuaiqi,zuibaxiaokuatakanjianxingganmiren,zuichunzaidakuatakanqilaizhenfuheguojiarendeshenmeiguan;yanmeishangshengkuataxiaonanzihan,yanmeixiapiekuatakanjianwenroushanliang,yanmeibugaobuaikuatakanqilaizuiguifandedapaimingxingmei;xiaheyoulengyoujiaokuataxiaonanzihan,xiahewenhekuatakanjianwenrunruyu,xiahebulengbuyuankuatazhanglegeguifandashuaigexiahe(liuyi,zheihundanguawanhuxuyexuhaihuijixuduizhejingzifumoxiahechunfengdeyihaozhangshijian)。
jiaruniqueshibuzhidaozenmebanle,burongyile,meishier,yaoshishuo“nide……shiwoxihuandeleixing,.wofajue!”yaodaobingchu!
2•“你怎么全都懂!”(你真聪慧、能千,居然哪些都是会)
bishuoyuanyin:guli、qinxian
wulunyoumuyousexiangweijuquan,nanrenduoduoshaoshaodoujuyoudianqishijingshen,xiaizainvrenyanqianchuhuyiliaodiyizhan“gongfa”,nvrenmenyedouhenbudejiazhongdenanrenjishidiannaozhuanjia,yeshishuidiananzhuang,jianjiayongdianqiweixiu,erzheishizaitamenyanzhongmangdequanshenchouhandenanren,yeyongyou bieyangdexingganmirenfengcai。yizhaojiaoyuxuejiadejianjie,jiarunixihuanshenmejiuyidingyaoxuehaokuanaxie。liru,niyaoshitabangnikankanpaishuibiao,ninengneiyangjiang“qinaidedenengjiwokanyixiazhinengshuibiaoma?meiyiciwoduchudeshudougenwuyeguanlichachudebuyiyang,woduizheizhongbiaozhennaxiedezuihulihutule。”tabachenghuimaiyuan“zheidoubumingbaia!”suihoubachachudeshujujixialaiwangnizheiyireng,bubirenweitashizaibishini,zheiyizishideshenhoushijiyiyishi“nikankan,haidekaowoa。”jiarunigenzongleshihede“nizenmequandoudong!”tanongbuhaohaihuijixuhuiyizhaoshou“xiaoshiyizhuang!”jiaruyihounizaixiangshitazuozheijianshiqing,zhibixuwailubiequdemoyangshuo“youyaoduzhinengshuibiao”,tayidinghuizhanqiquzuo,suihoukanneizishi,zhuaia。tanaerlejienijinjinbuyuanyikaiqinagechouhonghongdexiashuiguandaomujuzaiwanshenkanzhinengshuibiaobaxiufazhanyouhuibale。
shijishang,xuduo biaoyangdehuaquanshikonghua,sheibuqingchuzishenjiliangzhongni?danshitongchangneiyangdekonghuahuibianchengnanrendexingfenyao,gaileizanyangshiyizhongqudongliherenke,meiyounanrentaoyan。ruguoniyizhizaitajinidebingeraodebaimizhouyanqianchuxian“niyejiuzheishuizhuna,yiguhuwei。”ok,xiayicidebingdengdaitadingwaimaiba,zheiyigongzidaiyukenengnihenduoniandouxiangyoubudaole。
3•“你这人真逗”(你真风趣)
bishuoyuanyin:fenweiqingqingsongsong、tucao
fengqu,shijujiaodiannvrenyuandeyidabaowu,youyoumofengqudenanrenzainvrenquanzhongyizhihenzhuanqian。xuduo nanrenzaijizijimeiyouyoumofengquerfannao,yeshiyouxuduo qinxuekulianyoumofengququeyituozaituobukeqimenerrudenanren,zongyongbuzuihaoxiaodexiaohua、haowudaolidetucaozhaolaigaliao。
yaoshitabingbushiyigehualaohuoshixinkoukaihedexiaochounan,zantayouyoumofengqu,guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?kendingbikuatahenshuai、daqiwusilaideyoufenliang。nanrenzaibeikuafengququweiyihou,doushihuixiangjinbanfadiwanjiuchenghao,niyejiudengdaikantaruhebianzhehuashidouniwanleba。guanjianshi,jishitadechaoxiaohaijianzhitinglengde,nideshangxiyehuishitazaocheng“zhiyouwozijixifucaizaihuni,dajiabierenquanshisuren,yidianyebulejiewodechaoxiao。”——bangnibimianbiedehenyoukenengde“zhiji”leba?
4•“你这个人,有观念/艺术创意。”
bishuoyuanyin:beiqinpei、shangxi、lejie
liuyi,zheijuhuashiyaofenliangbanshuode,shuodaozhengzhongjiandeqingkuangxia,jianduanyihuier,haoxianglijingduanzanxingdesisuo,suihoujiangchuhoubianyiju。
shijishangxuduo benzhidewupinquanshizhuguanxingde。yigerendaodiyoumuyouguannianshinanyipingdingde,keshitaduiyigeexingshijianfabuchuyouyigerentediandeguandiandeqingkuangxia,niyinggaijiyutahaowuyiwen,yini,tazhihouhaowuyiwenbuhaipazainiyanqianshuoshihua;erni,zheijuhuajiuxiangdangyutagennishuode“woxifuyoupinwei”,zhongjiu,nixiaitadebiaomian、zhuanyezhishihenyoukenengshijishangxuduo bierenyeshiyou,keshizheileiguannianheyishuchuangyitarendanshixiaofangbudaode,zheilei“jinjinbeixiaofang,congmeibeichaoguo”derenshengjingjiehuishitamengranzaochenggaoyuqitananrenyijiedexinxin,yehuishitazhangwodao,nicaisuanshinagezuizhangwota、zuishangxita、zuiqinpeitaderen,neiyangmingzhidenvren(tazaoyijuedenidongtabianshimingzhile……),buquhuijialejiukexile,gankuaiqianligongchanjuanba!
5•“有你真好,没彼此都不清楚该怎么办了!”
必说原因:归属感
nvrenbixuguishugan,shijishangnanrenyeyiyangbixu。zuoweinideta,tazuiqidaidebuzhishinideqinpei,haiyouni“feitabuke”deneileiqingxin,youshihoucongshenhoujinbaotashuodao“younizhenhao,meibicidoubuqingchugaizenmebanle!”——jiusuantaquandoumeizuo。tayidinghuihenhaoqi“naerhaoya?”zheigeshihouchongfenfahuinidewenbihuoxiangxiangli……jiaruqueshiganjuejiannan,jiuxuyaozhuzhongxiexietanengyizhikuanrongnipeizheni,jilenixingfukuailekuailedeshenghuo,zheileikuazankendingbi“nishiwoxinzhongdeqiti,meiyoubiciyifenyimiaoyechuanbuguoqilai”laidequeshibingqiezhenxinshiyi,neiyangzuozuifeichangrongyigouqiweihunixuyaopeizheniyibeizidexinxin。
youyigepenyouzaijialiyangleyizhimao,tameirixiabanleyizhijizhehuijiale,youyu“xiaomaomiruguoyitianbuwei,huoshimeiyouzhunshiweidiertianbianhuibingyangyangde”。tazaiqiyeyeyangzheyipenxianrenqiu,ruguojiribudaoyebuhuigaozhipengyouyaozhaoliaotadexianrenqiu,tadeyuanyinshi“xianrenqiuyigeyuebujiaoguanyebusi,wuxutaijiaoshengguanyangzhe。”nikankanyuefajiaoshengguanyangdewupintayueyaojiaoshengguanyang,yuefabutaijiaoshengguanyangdewupintahaijiuyuebujiaoshengguanyangle。yinci ,gesanchawudiduinishuodeta,nishixiangmaoneibanbixutade,erbushixiangxianrenqiuneibanyoutameitadoubuzaihude。
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