daoqijinweizhi,dajiazaoyiyizhao“xiediaolingyifangdexinfang”→“jibendeqingtingjishuxing”→“guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?tiaoxuanlingyifangxiaidehuatitaolun”decixuranghuihuashunlikaizhanle!neimaxiayibuni?xiayibubianshi“genlingyifangyinqigongming”。
zaixiangxijieshaoshijidejishuxingyiqian,shiwomenxianbawogoutongjiaoliudeshizhiba!nirenweishuobailedegoutongshishenmeni?shijianghua?huanshiqingting?goutongjiaoliu(communication)zheigecideyuyuanzailadingyuliwei“xianyou”、“yiqigongxiang”,ergoutongjiaoliu、xianliaobianshigoutongjiaoliudezaiqizhongyixiangfangshi。
dajiarujintandebianshi“goutongjiaoliudeshizhi”。lianggerenxianyouxiangjindejiazhiguannian,caiyoufangfazaigoutongjiaoliuzhongdedao gongmingdian,zheijiushigoutongjiaoliudeshizhi。ruguomeifagenlingyifangyinqigongming,jiumeifayulingyifangchuangjianqiyouliangdeguanlian,zheiyidianxiangxinsheidounenggourenke。
neima,dajiarujinjiulaixiangxijieshao“dedao gongtongdian”dejishuxingba!rutongqiming,tashizhaodaoxianghudegongtongdian,bingyizheiyigongtongdianweiguanlizhongxinjinxinggoutongjiaoliudeyizhongjishuxing。
yikaocixiangjishuxing,dajianenggouyibianshengchanzhizaobicidegongming,bingyibianshigoutongjiaoliujianchixiaqu。jijimingquetichuxianjieduandouhaimeiliaodedehuatitaolun,bingyijulingyifangdehuiying,laizhaoxunhuiranglianggerenzaocheng“meiyoucuo、meiyoucuo”dejuede,zheijiushishengchanzhizaogongtongdiandequanguocheng。dajiajuyixieshijideshili,biruyiduinanhaihenvhaiyijingjiaotan,nanxingxiaiyinjiu,youqishiputaojiu,keshinvxingquebingbushihenxihuanyinjiu。yaorangzheilianggerenyinqigongming,yaoruhejianghuacaihaoni?shiwomenxiancongbuchenggongdeshiligangkaishi:
•不成功的传子
nan:“nixiaiyinjiuma?wozuixihuanhejiule。”
nv:“wobuhuitaixiaiputaojiu。”
tashizuilandeshili,youyunvxinghenlijidijiufoudingdiaolingyifangdelejie,neiyangshibutaikenengbaxianliaofenweichaorede。youyushuangfangdouzhaobuzhegongtongdian,yinci huihuaxunsubianhuiwanbi。
jiexiaqu,shiyoudianerxiweideshili:
•shibaidoububuchenggongdeshili
nan:“nixiaiyinjiuma?wozuixihuanhejiule。”
nv:“wobuhuitaixiaiputaojiu……keshiwohenxihuanqingtianweipianzhongdejiu。nidouzaishenmeshihouhejiuni?”
nan:“zaigangxiwanzaodeqingkuangxia,huozhegongzuozhongwanbishijiaruhenre,zheishihounenggouheyibeizuizanle。”
tashiyikao“jiushui”laizhaoxunxianghugongtongdiandeshili,xiangbiyiqiandeshili,jinguanzheileihuiyingfajiaoweinengranggoutongjiaoliuzaicikaizhan,keshiyouyuhuanshijinyounanxingkeyigaoxingchangtanrenshengdehuatitaolun(jiushui),yinci yiranmeifayinqigongming。yaozhaodaonvshiyekeyigongmingdiandehuatitaolun,yeyaohuashanghenduodeshijian。
suihou,jiudengle,zheijiushiqudechenggongdeshili:
•取得成功的事例
nan:“nixiaiyinjiuma?wozuixihuanhejiule。”
nv:“neinizhidaoshenmeshicaizuiheshipeidaputaojiuma?”
nan:“neigea!shijishanglinglingmeishitebieshihewo!”
nv:“queshiya!woxihuanlinglingmeishini!”
shibushizaoyijuededao,zaizheiliyiwenyidayihou,bicihuiliaodaogenghenhuanni?
zaizheilishilizhong,wulunnanxingmingquetichunaxiemeishi,qishidoumeiyouguanlian。guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?tangruolingyifangshuoheshiyazhoudiqumeishi,ninenglijihuishuo:“yinweiwoxiaiyazhoudiqumeishi。”huozhezhuangewanshuo:“wohenxihuantaiguodeheyuenandiqumeishi。”yizheileifangfalaituozhanhuatitaolun。zheiyangyilai,jiarunanxingqiahaolejieyixiemeiweidefandian,tahuoxubianhuireqingdigangkaishixiangxijieshaole。
fujiayiti,zaizheigeshilizhong,“putaojiu”yuanbenjinguanshiguishuyu“shicai”dehuatitaolun,danshiniyenenggoubazheigehuatitaolunzhuanhuacheng“woguo”lei,biruwenqi:“neimenixiainayiguodeputaojiuni?”neiyangjiukeyiyijutasuohuiyingdeguojiamingzi,bahuatitaolunbianweilvyoudehuatitaolun,suihouzhaojiyuyulingyifangyinqigongming。
guanjianbianshiyaoyilingyifangsuochushidexinxineirongzuoweitupokou,bahuatitaolunzhuanweizishenyeshiyouxingquaihaodexingye,zheijiushidedao gongtongdiandemijue。benlaimeiyouxingquaihao,queweilegenghaodihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliuerchengxianxubaoderenke,zheileifangshijiufangfojinjinzaizuishangguashanggangweixiaorongyiyang,lingyifangyiyanbianhuikantou,ziranmeifayuniyinqigongming。
yaoqiadangdibahuatitaolunzhuanweizishenyouxingquaihaodexingye,jiarulingyifanggennishuodeshiermeiyouxingquaihao,neijiuxuyaoganjinzaizhuanhuanxindehuatitaolun。jijizhudongzhaoxunbicidoushiyouxingquaihaodehuatitaolun,jiunengyulingyifangyinqigongming。erzheijiushigoutongjiaoliudemijuezhiyi。
youmuyougengjianyidefangshini?yeshiyou!neibianshishiqianzhangwolingyifangsuoguanzhudeshiqing。ruguonilejielingyifangxiaikandianshiju,huoxuninengshiqianshoujixiangguanyingpiandexinxineirong,zhangwoyouguandezhuanyezhishi,bingcongzheidangzhongshuli、mingquetichuzishenduiyingpiandeyixiekanfa,huoshinaizhiyaoshibiaoshuduiyixieteshuyingpiandeganshoudeng。yaoshinenggaohaozheizhongshiqiantiqianzhunbei,jiugengfeichangrongyixunzhaoshuangfangdounengyinqigongmingdehuatitaolunle。
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