广州花镇情感：谈恋爱的技巧和方法

yigexitongruanjiandeshiaiquanguochengbixuxiangxitaguoshangbianwugeliucheng，guangzhouhuazhenqinggan，bingqieshunxubukeyicuo。

第一阶段——互相吸引住期

 zuixiannigenjuzhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhiquxiyinzhulingyifang，rangnanrenduiniyouhaogan，rangnizhuanzhuli，dangtaduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhihounizaizhuyaobiaoxianchuduitahenganxingqu，zanyangheshangxitadeyoushi，helixingniweishenmexihuanta，shitaganjueshitahuodenideguanxin，neiyangjinxinghuxiangxiyinzhuhoudajiacaigangkaishixianghuxinren。

 zhanxianshiyongjiazhishiyongjiazhidemudishidedao tadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，zaimeiyouxingquaihaozhibiaozhiqianbubiduitabiaoshuxingquaihao，youxingquaihaozhibiaozhihougangkaishitiaoxuanzanyangta。

 xingquaihaozhibiaozhijiushizhinanrenqianyishideshifangyixieduiniyouganjuedeshujuxinhao，lirutoukanni，jijigennijianghua，xunwennimangbumangdeng，xingquaihaozhibiaozhinenggoulejieweidajiachangshuodebiaoshuhaogandu。

 jiarunijiedaonanrendebuganxingquzhibiaozhi，guangzhouhuazhenqinggan，shuomingnimeiyouxiyinzhudaota，pubiandebuganxingquzhibiaozhiyou：zhuanzhulimeizainideshenshang，buzhudongyuenixianliao、weixinhuifuman、meiyouxiangzhangwonidegerenxingwei、congbuyueni。

 ciwai，youdenanrenhenyoukenenghuiduinichuanchujiadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，yejiushijiazhuangduinibodianhua，zheileinanrenyibanshiyouxiwanjia，huozhechuziyushenglixuqiu，huozhedaizhenduixingxiangyunyongni，lirujihunnanren。

shijizenyangxiyinzhucanzhao“haoqixinxiyinzhuquantao”

第二阶段——幽会暧昧期

 genjuyouhuihudongjiaoliuhexianliao，dajiagangkaishizhangwobicidexinxineirong，lirurichangshenghuohexingquaihaodeng，dajiayouyixiexiangtongdian，jianjiandiyongyoulianluogan，bianweilejie。zaizheiliquanguochengzhongtahuiduijiniyidingdezijintouru，lirutameiriyueni，tayueniquwan，taguanzhunideshier，tarangnisongdongxi。

 zaizheiqijian，tahenyoukenenghuiyunitiaodou，ninenghetayuyannuanwei，bubijizhebatadangnanpengyou，tahenyoukenenghuixiangshizhijinkou，danniyinggaigesanchawuhuijueta，shedingyixienanduxishu，jianmanfazhanqushidesulv。

jianyihelidelianaiguize(guanjian)

youhuihudongjiaoliushiduoxiaorongshaoshuohua(nvrenweichimiantian，rangnanrenhexin)

 jianduanxinghuijue(jibian nihenxihuanta，niyeyaogesanchawudehuijuetadeyaoqing，gesanchawuhuijueshizhijinkou、qinwen，rangnanrenmobutoushibushinixiaita)

 buzhudongyaoqing，jijiwanbiyouhui(jiarunidequexiangjianta，yebubilijiyueta，bubizuosonghuoshangmendelieshi，jianjiexingdeyaoqinggengyoushijixiaoguo，lirunigentaxianliaoshuonizhouliudouhaimeifenpei。)

 bubigentadaihenjiu，zaigaochaodieqideqingkuangxialiqu，rangtaqidaijianniyimian(shitaqipanjianniyimian，liuxieruoyinruoxianjuede，youhuishijianbuchaoguo1xiaoshi)

yizhoushuzuiduoyouhuiyici(bubipulunidexuqiugan，bubimeiripengmian)

sanciyouhuineibushizhijinkou(jianmansulv，jinanrenquweixing)

weigaobaiqianbuqinwen(xianjifuwuchengnuozaishentiqinmiwujian，bubishitasuibianhuode)

 diyicirushuibuxingshenghuo(bubirangnanrensuibianhuodeniderenti，bubirangnanrenrenweinishisuiyidenvren，neiyangnanrencaihuiaixitahuodede)

xiyinzhuqiyaozhanxianxingganmiren、quweixing

youhuiqiyaozhanxianrenrang、zanyang

 rangnanrengangkaishijijidiqinmiwujianshengji，zheiyishengjishiyibubude，qixianshentichupeng，ranhoushizhijinkou，suihouqinwen。zheiyiyouhuishengjiqizhandeshijianzuiduode，shiweilegenghaodisuzaodajiazaiyiqideshushidu。

 youhuiqineishileijitaduinidetouru，zhengqueyindaolingyifanggangkaishiyidiandiantishengzijintouru，taxinganqingyuantourunixuyaoshanyujiena，jiarutaburongyininengzhengqueyindaota。danfanbuyuanyizijintourudenanrentaduinidexingquaihaoquanshijiade，shiweishenmehuodeniderenti。jiarutabuyuanyizijintouru，nijiuxuyaolengzangta，ranhouzhanxianshiyongjiazhizhizhitazaiduduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhi。

第三阶段——关联明确期

 lijingdierjieduandajiazhongjianyongyouyidingdeshushiduheyouhaodu，zheishihoutahenyoukenenghuiyongyuanyinpeinidaoyigesimideshineikongjiangangkaishiyouhuoni，xianghenifashengxingguanxi。youyutadouhaimeigaobaiquedingguanxi，nvrenyidingyaoguoduanhuijue。jiarunishitachenggongle，neiguanlianhuifazhanqushiweiduanqiguanxi。

 jibian taxiangnigaobaile，yimingqueqinglvguanlian，zaitaxiangtuoniyifukuziqian，nvrenyidingyaozuochudiyugerenxingwei，lirubuxutatuoguangyifu，huotuoguangyifuhoujiaotazhongzhi，jibian nixiaita。

 yibanruguonimeiyouzhenshifahuo，meiyoupinleminglakaita，meiyoujinggaochufenta，neiyangbingbuhuihuihuaidajiazhiyuanxiandeguanlian，liruniduitaxiaozheshuo“nibiezheiyang，wobie”“dajiataikuai”，zuoyixiedaibiaoxingdiyu，niyaoshijianchibuxiejiukeyile。

weiyounimingqueduitaduiniyouganjue，xinganqingyuanzijintouru，xianghenifazhanqushizhangqixingguanlian，nicainenggouhetafashengguanxi。

ruhequedingguanliancanzhao“tanxungaobaiquantao”

woshitanlianailaoshiyishuo，zaishuolianaiwangyouhenduojiaonvhaitanlianaidewenzhangneirong，dahuoernenggouquxuexiyixia。

不正确的谈恋爱方式

buzhengquedefangshiyi：meiyoudiyijieduanhuxiangxiyinzhu

 diyijieduanbianshishuobailede“bodianhua”huo“youganjue”。juedaduoshunvrenfandebuzhengqueyibanshiraoguodiyijieduanlijiyoudierjieduangangkaishi，douhaimeixiyinzhudaotajiugangkaishishizhequzhangwonanren，quduitahao，danyibanhuibeinanrenhuijue，youyunanrenhaimeiyoubeitaxiyinzhu。

 xuduo nvrenzaiganglejienanrendeqingkuangxiajiugangkaishijijiwenqinanti，shizheququdelianxigan，zheijiushipubianderaoguodiyijieduanlijidaodierhuanjie。dannanrenduiniyaoganjuebuhao，haiduinimeishenmexingqudeqingkuangxia，niyejiugangkaishiguanzhuta，chixuwentayiduixiangjinnigongzuozhongshiganshenmede，niduoda，nilaizinalidengnanti，zheihuirangnanrenganjuewuqu。

buzhengquedefangshier：meiyoudierjieduanyouhuinuanwei

 dierjieduanbianshishuobailede“tiaodou”huo“nuanwei”。raoguodierjieduan，meiyoujianjiandiyouhuixianghuxinren，meiyouyibubudizijintouru，jiarunipobudeyigentamingquelianaiguanxi，jinguannanrenduiniyouhaogan，dandajiazhongjianquefalianluogan，lirudajiacailejiemeiduojiu，douhaimeijianjiandiyouhuihezhangwoniyejiutongyizuotadenvyoule，nvrenhuibeinanrenzuoweisongshanglaidelieshi，huodehoubianburongyiaixi。

buzhengquedefangshisan：meiyoudiyijieduanhedierjieduan，lijiquedingguanxi

 meiyouhuxiangxiyinzhuheyouhuinuanwei，xunsufashengxingguanxi。dangnanrenhaimeiyouzhangwotashiruhedeyigerenjiuxiangtagaobaiyibanshiweilegenghaodixing，nanrenyibanburongyihuijuenijinzaogentafashengxingguanxi，danguanlianhuimaixianghunwaiqing，nanrenhuiganjuetagennizaiyiqibianshikaolvxingxuyao，budakenenggennichuduixiang。bianchengxingbanlvguanxihoudabufenbutaikenengzhuanzhengdingji，youyunanrenzongshigennengquebaotaduzilidexiaohaishitadezisunhoudaidenvrenwanhun，taburongyijixiwangyuyigepaoyounengquebaozheiyidian。bingqiedangnanrenxunzhaogenghaokandenvrenhouhenkenengraokaita，haipazaihetachupeng。

吸引住另一方

 nanrenrenzhiyigenvrendefanzhishiyongjiazhi，dajiachengzheizhongwei“xiyinzhudianyuankaiguan”，nanrenjibenshangshizhonghuitiaoxuangaofanzhishiyongjiazhinvren。

 chuangjianxiyinzhudefangshi——zhanxiannidepinpaixingxiang，shenghuoxiguan，shejiaomeitixuanhaopai(duoyixingpengyouzhuiqiuwanmei)，xingganmiren，renrang，taorenxihuan，xianshu。

 xingquaihaozhibiaozhi——qudechenggongxiyinzhunanrenhou，nanrenhuirangnixingquaihaozhibiaozhi，huodexingquaihaozhibiaozhiguanjianshizhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhidanmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuxuqiugan。zhuyaobiaoxiandehenyouhao，queduitadecaifumeixingqu，zheihuixiyinta。

表述兴趣爱好

 nanrenbixuhelixingnizenmehuixiaita，shitaganjuezishenbingbushiyouyuyixieqianbodeyuanguerhuodelenideliuyi，juedenishishangxitade。

 biaoshuxingquaihaodefangshi——nifajuetadeyoushibingzanyangta，cujintaweilegenghaodihuodenidexingquaihaoerqinfen。juedaduoshunanrenxiaihuodenvrendeliuyi，bingqiebujinshiyouyutamenshifurenerhenganxingqu，yinci niyinggaigenjutadecaifuzhiwaidebiedeyuanguerjiangzishendexingquaihaozhibiaozhijiyuta。

相互信任

xianghuxinrenshichuangjianchongzudelianluogan。

 xianghuxinrendefangshi——yibanliaotianyuehuichuangjianshushiduhelianluogan，xianghuzhijianzhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao、gerenchengzhangjingli，dangdajiazaiyiqijiaowangyoulianluoganbingjuedeshufushi，tahuishanyujinizijintouruhetouru。