广州花镇情感咨询，男人的真实一面是什么？

 renmendeshengzhangxixingbingbingbushizhikaojinqishubainiandequanguochengjileiercheng，zhishicongjiqiannianqian，guangzhouhuazhenqingganzixun，naizhishiyirenmengangkaishicaiyong“goutongjiaoliu”degerenxingweiyiqian，jiuzaoyigangkaishijilei。goutongjiaoliudegerenxingweiyujieguojiaruyinershenrudnadangzhong，neiyeyidianyeburangrenchuxianyiwai。

 julilaishuo，nvshinenggouyibiantujiayou、yibiankanjiandianshilianxuju，hainengqingqingsongsonglejiedianshilianxujudeneirong。ruguozheishidamenkoudedianlingxiangle，tamenyekeyifajue“dianzimenlingxiangle”zheijianshiqing。tingshuozheishiyouyuzaizheilijiqiannianlai，mamawubiyibianliuyixiaohaizi，yibiankaizhanqitaxingdongsuodaozhide。yinweirendedanaodangrandiyanbian，yinci xianrujinnvshiduoyoulingwaijiejuegezhonggeyangxinxineirongdegongzuonengli。

 lingyifangmian，rutongnvshiyouzhekeyilingwaijiejuegezhonggeyangxinxineirongdegongzuonengli，nanshizaizheilijiqiannianzhongjianyeyouyuyizhikaizhanzhebuliegerenxingwei，yinerzuoweilierenshoudeshizhibiancanyuzainanshidednazhong，bingzaiqianyishijiancaozongzhenanrendeyantanjuzhi。huanjuhuashuo：

男人=捕猎中华民族

yinci，womenkeyishulichunanshidexiashutedian：

①xiaizhuizherenpao(bushanyutaozou)

②juecehaozongtimubiaozaigangkaishibulie(yudadaomudideniantou)

③zaibuliedequanguochengzhongsisuoxindefangshilaijiejuekunnan(gaokuanbide“jiejuekunnan”guannian)

④buliedaodelieshishiguishuyuzishende(zhipeiyu)

⑤xinggaocailiedezhutihuodong(zhudongjingongdeshihouhuiyouqiyoumeili)

⑥taoyandenghou，erxiaichuzaijingongdeguandian(xiangbifangyu，gongjijiaoweinengcijixingnanrendeshenjingxitong)

nanrenbianshizaijiqiannianzhongjian，bazheizhongtedianjinjinkehuazaidnadangzhongeryanhua

 chengrujinneiyangde。jibian shirichangshenghuobuzaiyibulie，guangzhouhuazhenqingganzixun，zhishiyijingjihuodongweizhudaodexiandaishehuizhong，zheixiaoxiaojibainiandelishishijian，yebutaikenengzheibansuibiandijiuyaoconggudaojinchucunchulaideshengzhangxixingxiaotui。

 bazheizhongshengzhangxixingduofangmianzuchengyihou，jiukeyiyikuinanshibennengfanyingdeyantanjuzhi。ziran，dajiahaikeyiyijunanrendexingdongfangshi，laifenbianlingyifang(nanren)jiujingzhuiqiuwanmeizishen(nvren)daonaxieshuiping。

 nanrenzaizhuiqiuwanmeizishenxiaidemubiaoshi，huishifenjijizhudong、qinfendijinxingxingdong。keshi，ruguoxiangfanyounvshizheiliduinanrenjinxingmengjidehua，nanrendezhixinglifandaozonghuiyinererjiangdi。ciwai，yeshiyoubeifenleiwei“bujinadaodelieshichijingsiliao”denanrenzhonglei，dantashilisuoyingdangde，zainanrendeneixinbingbuhuiyou“yaozaiqubuliezaoyibianchengzishensuoyouwudelieshi”zheileizhuguanyinsu。zheibingbingbushiyouyu“nagenanren”jiaoweiyouqi，yebushiyouyutashisha“bujinadaodelieshichijingsiliao”dezhonglei，zhishi“yaoshishinanren”，doushihuicaiyongxiangjindexingdong。

 chucizhiwai，bulejienanrendenvshihaichangcaiyongyixieshixiaodexingdong，birutamenjingchang“yinweixihuannita，yinci qinfendiqudadaolingyifang(nanren)deguiding”。duinvshieryan，zheishiyouyuyaoxiangjiandaolingyifanggaoxingdebiaoqing，yinci caicaiyongneiyangdexintai。shibushiniyeshiyouxiangjindegongzuojingyanni?

keshi，zheizhendeshiqiadangdema?

congnanrendeguandiankanlaidehua，zheileigerenxingweibianshi：

chedizuncongnanrendeyixiangxingdong→zishenxiangdadaodezongtimubiaolikejiunengdadao

 nanrenhuiyouyunvrenzheileixintaierzaizaiqianyishizhongdedaocixiangjieguo，duizuoweibuliezhonghuaminzude“nanren”eryan，bennengfanyingshangmianzhuiqiuwanmeide“yingdangchulidenanti”zaoyibuhuiyoule，yinertamenjiuburongyizaocheng“zaibuliedequanguochengzhongsisuoxindefangshilaijiejuekunnan”dexintai，yinciziranhuijiasutaduilieshi(nvshi)sangshixingquaihaodesulv。

 neiyangdahuoeryingdangzaoyihenqingxileba?ruguobuduancaiyong“mashanghuiyinglingyifang(nanren)guiding”degoutongfangshidehua，nanrenfandaohuimanmanduinisangshiguanzhu。mingbainanrenxinlizhuangtaidenvshihuibaxiabianzheijuhuazuoweimingyan•.

“yaoshitaozou，nanrenbianhuizishenchongshangqu!”