花镇情感机构靠谱吗？有一种爱叫“放手”

 tichufenshou，daodishisheidoubuyuanyijiandaodejieguo。danshijizhong，henduorendoujingliguo，nenggoushuochengwukenaihedejieguo。danshizheieryaotishideshi，tichufenshouyebixuzaoxingyishu，congmingquetichutichufenshoudeyishunjian，daoyingyongzourulingyiduanxinganqing，huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma？quanshirenshengdaoluzhongwuketidaidemolian，“hepingfenshou”shiyuanfen、“haosanhaoju”shidaxuewen!

1.被甩的男人眼里无泪，撕心裂肺的痛，因此 ，分手，就不要损害他

 dangganqingjieshu，zenyangtilianchuhuiqitadanliang，xuehuifangxiatongkudewangri，yibuchenjinyuzaiqizhongwufaziba?xialieshi4gewubiliuyideshiyi。

(1)fenshoudeyuanyin，jinliangyaochengxingaozhi。

 lianrencengshidajiadejiezhu，shidajiazuigaoduzhongshidelingyiban，jiranyiqianxieshoubingjiantaguorenshengzhilu，lingyifangjiuyingdangfeichangzhidenichengxinkandai。yinerfenshoudeyuanyin，jinliangyaochengxingaozhi，caikeyijiangzainanjiangzhizuishao。liruyigenanrenxianggennvpengyoutichufenshou，yuangushitaaishangletaren，zheishijishangshiyizhibaoyuan、shushouwucedeshier;danjiarutameiyouchengxingaozhi，youxiachelelingyigeyuanyinqutantichufenshou，neimazheiyinanrenfanxiadecuo，chukaipanbianyiwai、yeyoumengpian!huanjuhuashuo，‘chengxinyexuzhishang，danqueyiweizhechengxin’，yizhongduilianrendechengxin，wusuobuzhinenggoushuochengyizhong‘chengdanzeren’dezhuyaobiaoxian!ziran，zhenshideyuanyinshuochurukou，duibeibeiqidereneryanhuoxushipiaopodayu，danzuishaonengrangbicikandegengqingxi，yedanxin，wanghoumianyeyaochengshouyitiaomengpiandezuixing。

(2)bubizhizhenglingyifangdezuixing。

 mingquetichutichufenshoudeyifang，yidingyaozaichengxindeqiantitiaojianxia，buzhizhenglingyifangdezuixing，suihoumingquetichutichufenshou，zongshishigexinghuabufuhezaocheng pili，haiyaoranglingyifanglejie：“duinihao，jinjindajiaxianghubuyi”。

(3)buyongshuolingyifangdeshuoxianhua。

 wulunnishimingquetichutichufenshouzhe，youhuozheshifenshouzhe，bixuqieji“buyongshuolingyifangdeshuoxianhua”!tashijiguanjiandejianchibuxie，lunqiganqingshangsheikuijiuleshei，shuolingyifangshuoxianhuaquanshizuishigedezhuyaobiaoxian。huirangbierenrangnifumianxinxidianping，gengrangdajiacengyoudeganqingyuelaiyuefeichangbuzhide。huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma？huiguotoulai，ruguonizhizenanpengyouzisizili、xiaojiaziqi、lansandengquexianshi，bierenhuiwen：neimenidangshiweishenmetiaoxuanleta?youyu，shuolingyifangshuoxianhuadelingwai，yeshizaijinshizishen!

 (4)tangruolingyifangbingbuqidaishixiafenshoudeshihou，bubihuoshengshengladuanxianghudexian，daozhineixindesiposhang，zheigeshihounenggoumingquetichu“rangbicilizhisisuoyiduanshijian”detiyi，rangxianghudoushiyousikaodekongjianheshijiancaihao。

2.不必把丧失的理性化

 xinlixuezhuanjiadeyanjiufaxian，yuefawufahuodedewupin，zaidajiaxinzhongzhongdeyingxiangliyuegao，shiyongjiazhiyueda，duidajiayueyouyouhuoli，suibianhuodedewupinhuoshizaoyihuodedewupin，qishiyongjiazhitongchanghuibeibierensuohulve。zaiwoguominsushixingneiyangyizhongjiaofa“qiburuqie，qiebibushangtou，toubibushangtoubudao”，huanjuhuashuodezheiyidadaoli。

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 danzaimeimeidadexinlizhuangtaiyizhiyouyigeyihuo：“bierendoushuowanhunzhuyaoxunzhaozijixiaide，duijunweidejuedeshifousuanxiaini?neiyangjialezhihouhuibuhuihouhui?”

如今，她仍在迟疑。

 xianshishenghuozhongde，neiyangdeshilibuzaishaoshu。pengdaodeneiren，niquexinshizuihaoshide!zhenzhengdezhuangkuangshi：buyidingxiangnixiangxiangdehenhao。xuduo nanrenyoubuliebennengfanying，yixiyinnvrendezongshulaihuodexinxin;ernvrenshianjubennengfanying，yujianaideren，jiuganjueyaohetajigoujiazhong。nianqingdenvrenfeichangrongyibaaidenanrendangzuozuizhong，fenshouhouhouwufaziba，zishensunhai，zibaoziqi。

 shijieshangnvrenxuduo ，nanrenshuofeichangzhideaidenvrenbujinyige;shijieshangdenanrenyexuduo ，nvrenjiushuo，feichangzhideaidenanrenzhiyouyige。

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