花镇情感机构靠谱吗？遇上这样的人可以考虑嫁了

 jiageishenmerenjiaoweikekao?xuduo kexueyanjiuzhengshi，duizhangqixingqingganweihaijiaoda dehaoduogeyaosushi“jijizhudongquanjuxingdafu”、huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma？“fazhanxinlizhuangtai”dengqingshangzhishangyaosu。

1发展心理状态VS固定不动心理状态

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaijuedeshiqingshiyichengbubiande，yiqieshier，shihebianshishihe，bushihebianshibushihe。tamenjianxin，tanlianaizuizhongyaodebianshi“xunzhaoshihederen”，gongzuozhongzuizhongyaodebianshi“qudezuihaoshideoffer”deng。yinci tamenzaoyunantishigengweiquxiangyugenjuzhaoxunlaichuli，erbushigenjuqinfenlaichuli。

 fazhanxinlizhuangtaijuedeshiqingshinenggougaibiande，yiqieshier，shihebushihedaliangdezaiyugerenjiazhi。tamenjianxin，tanlianaizuizhongyaodeshigenjubicideqinfenrangqinggangengqiang，gongzuozhongzuizhongyaodeshiwulunqudenaxieoffer，bagongzuozhongbaozhengdewanmei，rangzishengengweirongru。

 yiner，dangchuzaitanlianaishifashengzhengzhi，gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenhuixiang：dajiafashengzhengzhi，haowuyiwenshiyouyuwomenbuheshi，ai，ruguozhaodaowodeyinyuanjiuhaole。duitameneryan，zuizhongyaodeqinfenlaiziyuzhuiqiuwanmeidequanguocheng，yidanbalingyifangzhuidao，qinfenjiujieshule。neiyanghunhouzhangjiuyiwang，biciyulaiyuganjuebushihe，yulaiyukanlingyifangbukanbuguan，laogongyeyulaiyuganjuetarenjiadexifugengyouyouhuoli。

 eryiyangzaoyumaodun，fazhanxinlizhuangtaidehuixiang：huazhenqingganjigoukaopuma？jinguandajiafashengzhengzhi，dandajiahuanshishihede，shiwomenlaiyiqikanyixianaerchulenanti，rangwoxiangxiangwozenyanggaibianzishenhelingyifangyituidongqinggan!duitameneryan，balingyifangzhuidaobingbudaibiaozheqinfendewanbi，erganghaoshizhenshiqinfendegangkaishi。tamenhuibajuedaduoshuhuolizijintourudaotisheng bingtuidongqingganshang，erbushizhaoxunxindeqingganshang。neiyangzhangqizhihou，jibian biciyikaishiyoumaodun，zhihouyehuimanmanbianhexie。

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtai&fazhanxinlizhuangtaibiaoshuleneiyangyigezhuangkuang：weihetongjifenxifajue，babamamaqiangzhixingdehunyinshenghuozhongguolihunlvgengdi?

 shijishangzheibushiyouyuqiangzhihunyinzaocheng zhongguolihunlvdi，zhishiyouyubeiqiangzhixingdehunyinshenghuotongchangfeichangrongyirangtamenduizheiyihunyinshenghuozaochengfazhanxinlizhuangtai：tamenlejiezishenmeishenmetiaoxuan，yinerchulenantiyebuhuiquxianglingyifangshifouzishenyinyuan，zongshixiangbanfaqujiejuekunnan。

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtai&fazhanxinlizhuangtaibudanmingxianweihailehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile，haiweihaileniyizhizaigongzuoshangdezaojiu。

liruyiyangshijiaoshu，dangyitangkemeijianghao——

gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenxiang：ai，laikanwozhenbushijiaoshudeliaoa!

 fazhanxinlizhuangtaiderenxiang：cicibuchenggongzhibuguolinshide，xiangxinwohaishiheshijiaoshude，rangwolaikanyixiaweihechunanti!xiayiciwoshizhexiatianjiaxiaogushiqushouke，huoxushijixiaoguohuigenghaoyixieni~

 yiner，zhenduimeizhidetiyishi：quzhaojuyoufazhanxinlizhuangtaierbushigudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenwanhun，duitaeryan，jiangnizhuidaozhibuguozhenshiqinfendegangkaishi，tahuiyibeizigenjuqinfenrangnidaliangyiwaijingxide!

2积极主动全局性答复

 lingyigeshifenguanjiandeyingxiangyinsushilingyifangzenyangdafunidexixun，zheiduiyiqiedezhangqixingqinggandouweihaijida(buzhishihunyin)。

tadedafufangfafencheng“jijizhudongvsxiaochen”he“quanjuxingvsfeiquanjuxing”2gecengmian。

在其中——

jijizhudongdafu：jijizhudongduinidexinxikaizhanyijianfankui，erbushilengmohebuwenbuwen。

xiaochendafu：duinigongxiangdexinxibuwenbuwen。

quanjuxingxingdafu：zhenglianqiejilixingdidafunidexinxi，jinigengweixinxin。