花镇情感是骗局吗？初次约会最好问什么问题?

 jiarunijiandaoyigenanrenheyigenvrenlingjulidizuozhemouyixiaocanyindianli，huazhenqingganshipianjuma？xianghukanqilaijiaolvbuanernankan。burongzhiyi，tamenzaikaizhandiyiciyuehui。

 womendoushiruhezhidaotamenzheishidiyicideyouhuini?xuduo buyaneryudeanjianxiansuo：tamenyiguanzhengjie，guangcaizhaoren，shishangchaoliudandanshifen。tamenzuodeyoudianerjiangying，rentishenzhi。tamenhuanguwuzi、miaomiaolaidan、zhuoshi，jinjinyoushihoucaihuichuxianyanguangdechupeng。

 zuixianzhudeyitiaoanjianxiansuobianshi：tamenchizheshuiguoshala，shizhishiyizhenjiaolvbuandejianmo，yihuierpobudeyijianjiemingleshuoshangjiju。nanrenhenvrendouhuinaqushuiguoshala，shashadedidingzhuyanqiandeshucaishuiguoshalakan。nanrenkanqilaiyoudianerbuqingchushuoxieshenme，nvrenkanqilaiyoudianerxiuse。zuizhong，zaiqizhongdeyirenqinfenbaituokunju，gangkaishijiaotan。

nanren：shuiguoshalameiweime?

nvren：feichanghao，nijuedeni?

男人：嗯，挺不错。

 suihoushenxiangengzhangdejianmozhong。ninaizhinenggoucaidechutamenzaixiangxienaxie。nanrenzaixiang：“kuaidianer，shuoxieshenmeba，naxiedoukeyi!zheijianzhizhongcuican。”nvrenzaixiang：“taweihebutanwonantini?yaobuwoxunwendianshenme——danwoyebuzhidaogaiwenxienaxie!gaizenmeban?”zhuangkuangrengzaizaici，daliangdemobuzuosheng，daliangyingfuleshidetichuwenti，gengzhangqiningwangyanxiadeshuiguoshala。

shuiguoshalajianzhigefeichanghaodecai，duiba?

 diyiciyuehuiqueshishidajiashejiaohuodongzhongzuilingrenzaochengjingshenjinzhangdezhuangkuangzhiyi。youshihouhuidianranchiredeganqing，youshihouyehuixiehuo。yaoxiangyouyigehaodejieguo，guanjiansuozaigoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxiayaoshifangyali，taolunyixieyongxintiaoxuanguodeheshidiyiciyouhuidehuatitaolunhenyouxiezhu。lirushizheneiyangquwen：

>zainishengmingzhongsheiduinideweihaijiaoda ?

>zuonaxiedeshierhuijinixinqingshuchang?

>nizuiaiqunaxiedifangdujialvyou?

>sheijiushinihaopengyou?nixiaita/tanaxie?

>niyizhixiaidedianyingshishenme?weihe?

>nixianjieduanjiaoda derichangshenghuofazhanmubiao?

>libaitiannixiairuheduguo?

>nizaishenghuozhongyounaxiexihaoma?

>nidejiazhongshinaxiede?

>niershizuiainaxie?

>niyiqianhuoxianzaiyouchuohaoma?younaxieyouqudexiaogushima?

>nizuizhongaidejiaoshihuodaxuelaoshidaodishishei?weihe?

>jiniyishengdouhuizhuiqiuwanmeidewupinma?shisha?

>nizuifanganyouhuizhongdenaxie?(genwoshuoneiyangwoyenenggoufangzhi!)

 yexunizijizaoyiyouyixiehenheshidiyiciyuehuiwendenanti，neiyangniyidingnengshijiaotanchenggongjinxing。jiarudouhaimei，yongzheizhong，suihouzaikuozhanbiededenanti。ruhekuozhan?jiaoniyigehaofangfa，xunzhaoguanjianzi，suihouzaijiashangweihe、ruhe、zhihouni、zenyang。lvshibushuang，laishiyixiadiyigenanti——

“zainishengmingzhongsheiduinideweihaijiaoda ?”

“worenweishiwodebaba。”

“为何?”

“youyutazongshikeyizaipengdaokunnandeqingkuangxiayongkailangjiejuekunnan。”

“tashiruheshiyongkailangjiejuekunnande?”

“liruyouyiciqiyecairen，qiyetonggaotayouyutajiankangzhuangkuangjiaocha，huazhenqingganshipianjuma？yinci jueceshitadaigang。”

“怎能那样?”

“meifa，shehuifazhanyoushishihencanrende。”

“那之后呢?”

 “jieguofuqinhendandingcongrongdijienaleqiyefenpei，haishuodaigangnenggouzuoyixietaxiaideshier，duizishenderentiduidajiaquanjiarendouhao，danshiqiyekaolvdaotashilaoyuangong，jiujitamenfenpeileyigexianzhi，jinguangongzidaiyubugao，keshitazuodehenkaixin。”

……

 nantiyongwanhougaizenmeban?meishier，yingpianpaidehaojiuhuiyouxupian，nantiwendehaoyouhuijiunengzaici，xiabianrangnizhizheijigechangyongzhaoshi：

1•xianghuzunzhong，taolundajiahuatitaolun

 jiaruniyulingyifangdexingqubuyiyang，ziranfeichangrongyirangrenjuede“jiufengzhijiqianbeishao”，wufayinqigongming。danshi，buyiyangzhongbuyidingjiuyidingzhaobuzheyiqiexiangtongdian。lirunixihuandushuxiemaobizi，taaichangge，henyoukenengxianghudehuatitaolunyaoshaoyidian，dandajiazongyaokandianying、kandianshijuba。nimeitandushuxiemaobizi，doubutanchangge，zhishicongdianpingdangjinshijiegeguodeyingpian、dianshilanmuxiashou，zongnenggouxunzhaogongtonghuatiba?dajianenggoujinjinweiraoyingpian、dianshijizhongdejuqing、jiaose、yishushoufa、yishubiaoyandenghuhuanguandian。shuoshuonikanledelanju，tanyitannixiaideyingpian，liaoyiliaonixiaidedapaimingxing，taoluntaolunsanweidianyingduomedelingrenganjuexuanmu……

 zaitantaozheizhongdequanguochengzhong，fenbieduirenshengdaolu、duishehuifazhan、duishishifeifeideyishidounenggouzhanxianchuqu，jinerzuodaoxianghuzhijianzhangwodemudi。shijishang，goutongjiaoliushifoukeyishitoujixing，shifouhuichuxian“galiao”，yugoutongjiaoliubicidezhuangkuangdoushiyouguanlian。jiaruniyouhuidemubiaoshigebushanyancideren，henbuyitandeqinqinrere，niyejiudejinkenengzishenkaiqifangbianzhimen;jiaruniyouhuidemubiaoshigejiqingdesuihezhe，tabianhuisuishisuidihuiyingnidejiaotan，shiyouhuizaishifenhedelaideqifenzhongkaizhan。

 zongeryanzhi，ruguonicaiyongxianghuzunzhongdeduice，youhuishihaotandedajiahuatitaolunhuanshixuduo de，guanjianshikanninengbunengyijuxianghugoutongjiaoliudexiangxiqingkuang，lingbianerjijingdizhaoxunhebawozhubicihenganxingqudehuatitaolun，jiqingyoushan、geshujijiandigoutongjiaoliu。

2•yidongzhijing，renyibuhuohuatitaolun

 qinglvdeyuehuiqunali，nenggouzaifangjiannei，haikeyizaihuwai。jiaruniyulingyifangdemouyihuatitaolunwanbihou，yishizhaobuzhelinglingyifanghenganxingqudehuatitaolunxushang，zaizuoxiaququeshishimangcizaibei，wufarenshouzheileijianmo。neima，jijixianglingyifangmingquetichuzhanliqilaizhutihuodongzhutihuodong，sansanxin，wuwaihubaituokunjudehaofangfa。

 waichule?neidajiasansanbushijiukeyisuishisuidibuhuoshenpangdechangjing、jiaoseheshizuoweihuatitaolun。nitingneimeihaodechanjiao，niwenzheqinrenfeifudefenfang，nikankanzheilantianbaiyuncaodi，niqiaomalubianneiduixiangzhixiangxidelaonianfufu，nichounageequweideguanggaozhi