花镇情感是骗局吗？谈一场不分手的恋爱

 meiyigenvrenzaichuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，douqidaitanyichangbutichufenshoudetanlianai。shubuzhi，yidingyaoliuyizishendetanlianaifangfa，youyunidetanlianaifangfabuduidehua，nanyitanyichangbutichufenshoudetanlianai。youqishixiabianzheisizhongtanlianaifangfa，huazhenqingganshipianjuma？qianwanbie，youyutamenzuifeichangrongyizaocheng maixiangtichufenshou。

1、你在意另一方比较多

 niyizhizaichuduixiang，quebuquedingxinglingyifangdeniantou;nijuededajiahenshihe，tafangfobuyiweiyi;tameiyoushinitexiangta，nibuzaishitafangfomeiqubie，zheibiaoshishenme?“errenruobuyiyangxin，qiketongxingyeni?”

 youshihuichuxianyifangailingyifangjiaoduodeqingkuang，ruoshizaiwanshandeqingganzhong，huichuxiangengtidezhuangkuang，lianggerenlunzheshiyanzhuiqiuwanmeihebeizhuiqiuwanmeiderenwujiaose;danruguoyouyifangyizhishiyanyixingpengyou，neiyangdeqingganbuwanshan，zhangqixialai，ninengduiainannai，ninengganjueshoulingyifangcaozong，ninengjuedenaonu、shangdangshoupian、tongchu。

2、你爱的是另一方的发展潜力

 niaideshilingyifangdefazhanqianli，huazhenqingganshipianjuma？erbushilingyifangzhenshidemoyang，niaideshilingyifangjianglaihenyoukenengdemoyang，neitayagenbushinideairen，zhishinigengxingaizaodemubiao。dajiameiyicizuojiehunqiankehoufudaodoushihuiwen，jiarulingyifangwushinianneidouburongyigaibian，ninenglingrenmanyimajiaruniyizhiqidainenggaibianlingyifang，caiganjuelingrenmanyi，neimejiubingbushiai，zhishiduqian，yongbicidehuanlezuoweichouma。genyigerenxiangchushi，yaoaihezhongshilingyifangdezhenxiang，erbushitajianglaidemoyang，ninengqidaitazaicifazhan，danniwubilingrenmanyitarujindemoyang。

3、把另一方作为钦佩的目标

 nianqingdenvxingmishangdianyingdaoyan、xueshengmishangzhuanjiajiaoshou、wenmimishanglaozong……mishangsuoqinpeidemubiao，zheileiqinggannanyibaochiyiqiezhengchang，youyulianggerenzhongjianmeifagongpingkandai。shuangfangwubiyaogongpingkandai，bushiwozhiyingxiangli，zhishixintai，bukeyiguoduoqinpeilingyifang。huimishangsuoqinpeimubiaoderen，yibanxinxinxiaochen，tamenganjuezishenhencaogao

4、你要想协助另一方

 nichangganjuelingyifanghenkelingma?nijuedezishenyouyiwuxiezhulingyifangzhenzuoma?nishifouhuidanxinjiaruliqulingyifang，tahuichibuxiaoyanlidaji?ruguoshi，niyexushige“jiunankuang”。“jiunankuang”burongyiquzhaoyigeshihedemubiao，zhishizhaoyigetasuolianmin、nenggouxiezhudemubiao。zhaoyigeshoudaowaishang、mingan、yikao、bushenai、biequderen，niyoulianshengai，tahuiduinixincunganxie，neiyangdeqingganhaoxiangyixiangyuanjiumeirirenwu，erbushiwanshan、junhengdeqinggan。