有人在花镇情感工作吗？男生同样需要你的关爱

 xueguochuzhongwulikedenvhaiyidinghenqingxidelejie：lidezuoyongshihuxiangde。shijishangzaizheimeduoniandetanlianaijutizhidaoquanguochengzhong，yourenzaihuazhenqinggangongzuoma？yinweiwohenqingchudelejiedaoyidian，neibianshi：aiqingdeliliangyeshihuxiangde，yijingganqingzhongderen，suoyourendoubukeyiyiweidesuoyao，yiweisuoyaodeganqingnanyizhangqi，ziranyiweidetouruyouwusifengxiandeganqingyeyiyangnanyilaogu。rujinxiangyixiangnideqingkuang，yijingreliandeni，shibushiguangdianjizhesuoyao，feichangshaoweizijidenanpengyouqieqieshishidetouruni?

 qingjilao，nanshijinguankanshangquhenwanqianghenkeguan，danshijishangtamenyiyangxuyaonideaiyi，ruguoniwenhedeganqingshikebaoweizhezhetashi，zheiyinanshikenengshikeyouwennuandejuede，yedangranhuigengweitengxini……zhenzhengdeaiqinghuxiangde，nigaoqingchuruhequguanhuaitama?

zheipianwenzhangneirongzhong，linxijiaoshijiangdaizhunantibangnizhengli，jinibianchengtaneixinshenchudouxiangyaotengxidenvshi——

谈恋爱技巧一：心存感恩是第一因素

 zainidexinli，niyizhixiangdeshibianchengnanpengyouneixinlizuijizhidenvshi，shijishangzainanhaizixinliyouhechangbushineiyangxiangdeni?nanshiquanshihenaimianzideweishengwu，tasuozuodeyiqie，suoweihubaoyangdeyiqiedouxiangshidianjizhenengbianchengnixinliduyiwuerdenanshi，keyizhengshizishenqingkuanglemeiyoubuzhengque，tayougongzuonengliainiyibeizi。

 yinci douhuixiangyaowusifengxian，xiangyaorangnitouruchongzuduodeqingyi，zheishihoudeniyidingyaomingbaixincunganen。errenfeishengxian，sheidoushihuizaiyixieshiershangfancuowu，tahaowuyiwenhuichuxianfancuowudeshike，pengdaozheizhongshi，xuduo nvhaidoushihuiyuelaiyueshifenkeqiu，buduandexunchilingyifang，henbunenglikeranglingyifangzhiqianjiuzheng。danwogengxianggaosunideshi：nvrenliyingxuehaojianliang，duojitamenyixieguanzhuhetiexin，erbushiyankedediaonanta，burandajiadeganqingnanyishenxinjiankanghelidifazhanqushi。

谈恋爱技巧二：感情还要留些隐私保护

 ganqingdegangkaishishihengongzhengde，youyuyiduanganqingdegangkaishiquanshichuangjianzaininongwonongdeqiantitiaojianxia，yourenzaihuazhenqinggangongzuoma？danwojuedezaiganqingzhongsheidoushihuiyoumimide，yixienvhaiyiqianshedaozheigewenti，bianhuiyuelaiyuechuxianyichangdefengkuang。yinweizongdianjizhefajuenanpengyouyulaiyuduodemimi，wulunshibaguaxinlizhuangtaicujinde，huanshihuaizhegengshenrulejielingyifangdemudi，zongeryanzhizaizheijianshiqingxihuanniyehaowuyiwenfengkuangguo：tajiaojishiniyejiufengkuangdetongdianhua，ruguonidenanpengyougongchujiubuduandichaqin，lailashengshudedianhuahuoshiduanxiaoxijiufengkuangdebiwen……

 zheileigerenxingweizhiyoushitagengjiadewukenaihe，poshizheiyinanhaizitongchu，nijuede“zaiyiqijiubukeyiyoumengpian，wodegerenxingweishibimiantademengpian”，danqishiwogengxiangrangnishuodeshi“ganqingyebixuliuxieyinsibaohu，ganqingbingbushikendingdequantouming，youshihouliuxieyinsibaohufandaogengfeichangrongyirangganqingshenxinjiankangdefazhanqushi”。

谈恋爱技巧三：对爸爸妈妈的孝敬不可以阻止

 womenzhongguorendeyishizhong，baishanxiaoweixian，zainanpengyouyunyingzishendexiaoxinshi，ganwanbukeyiyouyudadongzishenneimayidingdiandequanyierhuomaosanzhang。

 zaijiaowangshijianzhangle，nvhaimenchangchanghuiwenyixiazijinanpengyou“hetamayitongdiaoshenshuilininengxianjiushei”neiyangyumeidenanti，weicilaitansuozishenhelingyifangmamanayigegengguanjianyixie。nizaiguanjian，yeburutademama，meiyoutademamashengxiayangyu，zenmekenengyoulenidenanpengyouni?yongxinzhaoliaoershiyunian，dangtayujiannihouxiangyaobuqiuhuibaodejiniwusifengxian，shijishangzheijiushinidefuqi，nizuiliyingxiexiedebianshinanpengyoudebabamama，shitamenrangnichanshengzheibanchusedenanpengyou。

 yinci dangnanpengyouxingxiaodaoyunidequanyiyouyidingdemaodunshi，shiduderenrangba，duinishuodenanren：quzuonigaizuodeshier，woshoudianbiequshimeishierde。

谈恋爱技巧四：蛮不讲理还要在适度的机会

yinweishenshouchongni，nvhaimendouhuiyoumanbujianglideshike，yingduinidemanbujiangli，nidenanpengyouhuishiruhedezhuyaobiaoxianni?

 youshihouhaowuyiwenjinjinshaxiaozhe，yongjiaoguandexiaobiaoqingganenhuikuini，danyoushihouyehaowuyiwenhuichengshoubushang，niyaoguozaiqizhongdeyuanguma?

 manbujianglihaiyaozaishidudejihuide，dangdajialianggerenzaiyiqishi，nixiangyaoruhezuodounenggou，danruzaitadepenyouyanqian，huoshizaitadeqinrenyanqian，wojianyiniyidingyaozaiyidaotadeqingmian，buranninengsidefeichangcan。yaoxiangtamingmuzhangdandechongni，huanshixuehaokanhaojihuiba。

谈恋爱技巧五：重视标准和道德底线