花镇情感机构正规吗？一场完整的恋爱分为四个阶段

 youyiwei20zuoyoudenvhaiershuozishentanguoliuduantanlianai，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？meiduanyuanshishidou“nuleigoudongdihuo”，qingyichanmianfeice，yifu“wodeyanzhongweiyouni”demoyang!danyuemosangeyuehou，xinlizhuangtaihuihuranzhoubian，yiqianyanzhongyiwuquexiandexingfunanpengyouturanbianzhiandanwuguang，qingshangzhishangyedile，rongmaoyechoule，renyefaweile……zongeryanzhi，yichangdachaodanaochulai，suihousheiyebuxianglisheile。jicisanfan，ganqingjiushizheiyanggaoyiduanluo。

 shijishang，wanmeideaiqingcongsigeyuecaigangkaishi，tanlianaiqiansangeyuejinjinreqingqi，xiongxingheermengfanyingxia，kanlingyifangquandouhao。sigeyuehouhaiganjuexianghuxiyinzhu，caisuanshizhenshiaishanglelingyifang。——dajiayitiandaowanxiguanna“ganqing”shuoshier，shijishangyouyouduoshao“aiqingxiaogushi”li，queshiyouganqing?

 neiyangdexiaogushiguoduo，xuduo lianrenshenxianleduanlianyuyan，tamendangzhongdabufenyequanshihuaizhemeihaoyuanwangqijigengzhangqidizaiyiqi。jinjinzaizheigexintaixinfuqizaodeshiqili，tanyichangjuebutichufenshoudetanlianaihaoxiangqueshinanyi。dajiahebuxiantaolunyixia，duanliandaodishizainagejieduanshangchulenanti。

yichangxiangxidetanlianaifenchengsigehuanjie：

第一阶段：并存

langqingqieyizhishi，henbunengyitian24xiaoshinizaiyiqi。

第二阶段：反依赖

 yifanggangkaishixiangzhengdesuiyishijian，lingyifangzegangkaishibumanyiyuzishenbeilengdan，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？douhuiyinsuoshibaofazhengzhi。

第三阶段：猜疑

 youdiergehuanjiezaicifazhanqushi，yifanggangkaishibarichangshenghuozhongxindiancongtanlianaiqianyidaogongzuozhong、jiaopengyouhuobiedexihao，lingyifangzejuedelingyifangyiqingbielianle，bushandaizijile。zheishifeichangrongyibaofayulunyali。

第四阶段：相互依存

ganqingdaliangdezaoyizhuanhuanchengyikao，huxiangzhaoguxianghukuanrong，xiangzhangqidezhenqingqingkuangmairu。

juedabufendetanlianai，doushiyouyumeitingguodierhedisanjieduan，erxuanbujieshu。

第二阶段和第三阶段有点儿相近，但又不完全一致。

 xiangjineryan，dierjieduanshuobailede“fanyilai”，daliangfanyingzai“jiaozhuyingxiangli”nantishang，zheiyihuanjiedelianrenhuigangkaishijiaozhuzishendesuiyishijian，bingqidaizaiyixiesuoshidexuanzekeyifanyingzishendezhudongquan，zheiyishiqiliangrendezhanshiyibanjujierlingsui，henyoukenengyijianwuzuqingzhongdesuoshibixuchaoshangyijia，shijishangbingbushishikendingbukeyikuanronglingyifang，zhishizaizaiqianyishizhongli，renyidanjindaopingwenderenqunrichangshenghuo，jiuyongyouqipanhexinguanliandechongdong，yidanzheiyiduanqingganyongyoujutide“guanlizhe”，shuobailedeyingxianglizhengbazhancaihuigaoyiduanluo。

 suihoujiuruhuorutudijindaodisanjieduan。disanjieduanyibanlaidaoqinggandepibeiqi，youqishijiaowangyinianzhishangdeqinglv，duixianghudeguanxingangkaishibianqian，zheishidenanrenhuihenyiqiezhengchangdibashijieyouduodadoukanbiqingganguanjian，yincinvrenhenshoushang，yiyoudongjingbianyu“ruguobuaile”lianluodaoyiqi。keguanshishiyezhengshi，zheiyihuanjieshizuifeichangrongyibeiwailizuoyonggongkedeqingkuangxia，wulunshifumudedizhi，huanshixiaosandejingong，zheihuanjiedelianrenzuiyoubachibuzhudewuzhugan。

 zuoweimeiyiweizhishenlianaizhongdeni，yidanfajuelexiangjinjixiang，jiuyingdangtishizishenliuyi：jiexiaqujiangyaojindaoqinggandexinhuanjie，changshichenggongxianjie，shijishangzhangqidizouxialaibingbuhuitainan。

 jiarufeishuoqidaozenyangchenggongduguodier、disanjieduan，wohaishiganjuegoutongjiaoliuhezhuanyizhuyilibijiaoheli。pengdaojianyibutongyishijiushangyi，queshishangyibuxialaideqingkuangxiajiuxianbuguanxinzheijianshiqing，quzuoxienengrangxianghukaixindeshiqing，dengyiduanshijianzaihuishoukanlai，shijishangyijianshiyemeiyoushenmelebuqi。