花镇情感咨询给退款么？男生都反感女生恋爱中哪些行为？

 huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？chongzhedaoluludengkuanianyedewo2020niandouhaimeijiandaoxinlangweiboyouwenzhangtougao，zenmezhidaogaoxingdanshisantian，jiumashangyongyouchulianqingrenxinsifeijinlaiwodesiliao。

quanwentaizhongxiaoxuewencaile，wojidahuoeryichengnenglejiedeyuyan。

 wangminxiaozhaoxianrujinershisui，yuchulianqingrennanpengyouxiangchu2nian，nanpengyougangdaxuebiye，gongzuozhongbijiaomang，yiqianliangrenlangqingqieyiyixiazibeigongzuozheidaotianranpingzhangfenge。

xiaozhaobuduandizeguaitanayitianmeiyoulijihongzishen，natianmeiyoumiaohuixinxineirong。

wohaijinbuzhuyaoqieduanta：kebietaniangjiangguo，wobushininanyouxiangtingzhedoufan。

zuihouwokuanweitadeyebuzhidaotatingjinlaimei，zongzhiworenweijiarutazaizuoxialaishixiongduojishao。

wofazifeifuwenleyixiazhaozilong，shijiyidian，nanhaizidoudichunvhailianaizhongdeshenmegerenxingwei?

 yijuwodeqiongzhuibusheyuzhanyuyongdetiwen，jidahuoerlaiyiqitanlianaibande《zoujinkexue》，kanyixiadaodishidaodedelunsanghuanshirenxingdeniuqu。

恋爱时的太过占据

“shuozhende，jiarunihennianren，kenengdajiazaoyifenshou。”zhaozilongneiyanggaosuwo。

ganxieshangcangwodegexingxiangbeiyaowoqijinyouzheganqing，budebuchengrennianrenzhendeshireliantichufenshoudediyidayuanzui。

jiarubiciquanshiyigezhanduxishu，xianghuzhijianchanmianfeicecuicanlingyifang，worenweiokmeiwenti。

keshijizhongjingchangchuxiandezhuangkuangbianshi，yifangmangzhegongzuozhongxuexipeixun，lingyifangmangzhedajiaolingyifang。

“nimeimiaohuiwoxinxineirong，nijiushibuaiwole。”

woqueshilejiebushangzheilibiandeluojixing。

jiarulijihuixinxijiuyaoai，neisirigenwokendingshiquanshijiezuixiangpeideyidui。

 lianaishidouxiangrousuilelingyifang，zhiruzishenderenti，yihantaiguodezhanju，tazhiweitaochu。meilijihuinixinxineirong，queshibuyiweizhetabuaini。

争吵时的蛮不讲理

zhaozilongyiqianhenyansurenzhentichuzhiyiguowodexingbie，tadepianjianli，nvhaidouxiaireshishengfeidezhengchao。

lejieyigexiongdi，butaishu，keshitahuigenwodiaokantadenvyou，xiangtingledoudanxin，zhengchaoshimanhengwulidezuihaoyiweizhe。

“wojintiantiqianxiabanla，meigaozhita，tazhidaoyihoujiuxuyaogenwotaogejiaofa，ganjuewoshinazheiyidianshijianquchuguile。”

tameiyiciyaowokenengquanshizheiyidianneirong，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？zhiyaoshitaxiangzhaodianchadounengyoutansuoyufaxian。

luojixingdayueshineiyangde：

nanyouzuobudui→mananpengyou;

zijizuobudui→mananpengyouweishenmebujijizulantafancuowu;

yemeiyouguoshi→nananyouzhiqiandeguoshizaicimayibian;

 jiarunanyoubianbo→jiumataxintaibubaizheng，fasongjitayixieyebuzhidaonaerlaidewenzhangneirong《zhaoyigefuruandenanshengzaiyiqi》，anshizhezishenyouxingzijinjinyouyulingyifangbuzukuanrong。

yixiebenlaizishenxingzichoulaotianyedenvhai，quenengyouyigeguanzhetadenanyou。

“tichufenshou”houdesipilailian

buqingchudahuoerfameifajue，nanhaizixuanbushuotichufenshouyiqian，huichuxianyijujingdiantaicijiao：

“dajiaxianfenlifenbielizhiyixia。”

zheibuyidingshiyuanju，henyoukenengyijubuyiyangdeqingjingheshitaiyoubuyiyangdeyishushoufa，keshihanyiquanshixiangfangde。

zheijuhuabingbushitichufenshou，jinjinyigezhongzhi。

 nanhaizifazifeifuyaoxiangliangrenzaicisikaoyixiazheiyiduanguanlian，bubibeishixiadexintaichonghun，keshinvhaijingchangwuhuizheijuhua，tarenweitashitichufenshou。

 qijibaihuaiyouyizuoyixiaqidailingyifangnenggouxiangzhiqianyiyanghonghongta;huoshizhizuoxialiugezhonggeyangshuozishenhuigai，qiupengmianqiufuhexingqiuyigejiaodai。

wulunshinayangzhuangkuang，doutinglowtingjiangjiade。

meirenhuishishikekekuanrongnidebaopiqi，yemeirenhuiganjueniderenrangnengtaorenxihuan。

jinguanwozheigetianrandeganqingshishangbozhuyeshuoguoxuduo zanghua，liru：

xihuanniderenhuikuanrongnidehuaixiguan，buxihuanniderenliannidecunyoudouganjueshizhongbuzhengque。

keshipobudeyirenke，wobuhuimingquexiaiwodenanren，nenggouyizhixihuanwo，meishimeikexihuanwo。

yixiehuaixiguan，bixuyouzishendexixinkuanrong，erbushinidemubiao。