广州花镇可以退款吗？如何维持新鲜感？

 qianjiriyixiongdihederenshibushengzhaodaowo“leyu，woneimaaita，guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma？shuoguojinnianchuwojiuqutadedachengshiwomenyiqichuangdangde，jiuhaichayigeyue，weihetahuanshichuguile!”

 “biyehougangkaishiwaidi，zheicaiyinian，chedimeiyoulexiaoyuanneichuliandeganjue，taguidingdeyulaiyuduo，xingziyeyulaiyucha，dianhualveweiwanjieshijimiao，jiuganjuewogenqitanvhaizaiyiqi;shoujiweixinwanhuiyingyifenzhong，bianshuowohaizaigenqitanvhaipapa，zheizhongwohaibuzaiyi，womingbaigenbenyuanyinlaiyuanyuzaiyi。kewogongzuozhongqueshiyouqimangganjueyouqileideqingkuangxia，xiangzhaotapeizhewoliaoliaotianbangwogugudejingtou，tashuoworuanruomeichuxi，yinweiwozaiweiwomendeweilaiqinfennuli，weishaduitatouruneimeduo，tahuanshizhiruowangwen，bukeyiyijianfankuiwoyidiandianguanzhu?”

 tiquanbulingyifangchuguidexiaohuobanmenshangxin，qingchunnianshaoneimaduan，sheihaibukeyiyudaoyibanbenrenzha，jiudangleijidiantanlianaideganjue，zhangwoyixiajigefangmian：

一、校园内学校外环境破坏造成 情感转变，要提早融入。

 yiguoliandeweihubaoyangyuanbenbianshiyaoyongxuduo fangfa(dierdianhuijiangdao)，tebieshizaixiangyazhitahetarushehuideziranhuanjingbuyiyang，nvhaizaibaomingcanjiagongzuozhongzhihou，jiandaogeshigeyangdelianrenzaiyiqisagouliang，nanyousuishisuidipeizaishenbiandeneileiguishugan，zaocheng taneixinkongxumishi，tebieshizainiyeyaomanggongzuozhong，butaikenengsuishijietongtadedianhuapeitajiejuekunnan，pengdaocuobaijiannan，tahaowuyiwenhuijuede“zheigenanyou，wuguanjinyao”。

 nvrenshishifenbijiaominganyizhongweishengwu，yidanniyiyangchuxianlianrenmishinaizhiwufakongzhishi，huijiajutaxinlidezaodongbuangan“nideshierdoubukeyichuli，ruhehaihuijixukongchusixuguanzhuwo?nijiushimeigongzuonengli”，yinci dajiachangchangshuo“yiguolian，bizhongjiuqing”，buranyidingshibatayuetuiyuezhang，cikezaichuxiangebiniwenroubinizixidenanshengzhuiqiuwanmeita，nidailvmaojiudaidingle。

二、异国恋很独特，必须特别是在重视维护保养。

 youguanyiguolian，zuiguanjiandejiejuefanganziranshitongchengwangjiaowang，jiaruxianjieduanmeifawancheng，neimenibixuanxialiehaoduogefangshilaiweihubaoyanghaoyiguolian，tishengtadeguishuganheduinidexiwang，jiangdifenqidechuxian：

①一起商议下一次碰面的关键点。

 dajiabixuyiqishangyixiayicizainaerpengmian，heshi，yueguanjiandianyueshijishizuihaoshide，lirupengmianhouyiqiqunaxiedifangyongcandaonaquhewupin，kandianshijuhuanshiguangjiegouwu，zaochenganshenmezhongwunaxiefenpei，neiyangzuodegongxiaoshizailingyifangnaohaizhonglijinkenengchanshengyigejiemian，dairuganyueqiangtahuamianganjiuyuemingxian。jinguanbukeyidaizaiyiqi，danyiqixiwangxiayicipengmianhuanshihenyouqude，shuobailejiubieshengxinhun。

 ciwainiyaonenggourangtalaifangancehuaxiayicipengmianderichenganpai，bingbushishuojinilanduo，zhishijiarurangtalaifenpeineimatahuiduipengmiangengxiwang，feichangjiandandemingquetichu“bibushangxiayicipengmianyouniqufenpeiba，wohaitingnide，yaoshigennidaizaiyiqiganshenmequanshitianmeide。”

②制订短消息及电話頻率。

 youyuzainidexushuzhongyoutiji“nibijiaomang”，yinci ，zheiyidianzhenduidajiaeryanyouweizhongyao，nenggouwuxuzhangqibaodianhuazhou，danzheiyidianhuahuoshiduanxiaoxiwubiyaodayaofa，pinlvhuoshijiandoubuzaihu。

 guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma？bukeyiguodujingchang，yaoburanlingyifanghuijuedeyougongzuoyalihuoshihuirangtaganjuenihenmeiyouanquangan，bingqiejingchangdedianhuahuiweihaidaolingyifangderichangshenghuoyerangqiganjuenimeiyouzishenderichangshenghuoyitiandaowanbixunianzhe，chuduixianghaiyaozaiyigongzuo。

 lingwaiyebukeyijiangehenjiu，youyuneiyanglingyifanghuiganjuenibingmeiyoubadajiadeqinggandangyihuishi，duilingyifangqianqueguanzhu。neiyingdangnaxiedepinlvcaishiheni?zheizaiyudajiadexiangchumoshi，bingqiezheipinlvnishibuyonghetatantaodingchuqu，shixiangxiangjiarutagennishuoanteshushijiangennifaxiaoxihuoshirangnitongdianhua，ninengganjueguaiyima?

③通电话别争吵。

 jiusuannizaiwufadiaojieqingxu，youqidajiameiyoupengmiandeqingkuangxia，qianwanbiechanshengzhengzhi，youyuzheihuizaochenglingyifangdeqingxubodong，huichanshengxuduo wufayuliaodebuliangyingxiang。huirangdajiadouzuochufeilixingxingweidegerenxingwei，lirueyushangren，huoshijiletarenchenxuerrudejiyu，naizhizuochuzinvedegerenxingweideng。

 xintaishangqushi，xiangentashuolinshixingjishiguadiaodianhua，chulaisansanxinhuoshigenbierenshuoliangsanjuqianyiyixiazhuanzhuli，bianhuiganjueganggangdedachaodanaoyagenbingbushishiqing。

④和她身边人打好关联。

 youyushiyiguolian，nibunengchangchangzaitashenpang，tayouyiqiezhuangkuangnibunenglijichuxian，bunenggoubangtajiejuekunnan，zuoweinvhai，bubashiershuogaoqingchuqingxijianghualiuyibanzheizhongquanshizaisuonanmian，danniduishierdeqianyinhouguogengbutaikenengqingxi，yinci tadepenyouyouqishihaoguimizaizheiergongxiaojiushifenbianda。nixuyaorangtadepenyoubianweinidepengyou，gentamenchuhaoyidianguanlian，duoyidiancongzheiyifangmianzhangwolingyifangdegezhonggeyangzhuangkuang。bingqiedangdajiachuxiannantishi，dajiadexianghupenyouhaikeyidangzuo“heshilao”derenwujiaose。

 tebiezhuyideshi，hetashenpangpenyoudahaoguanlianshibixuyouqianrushen，bukeyiyixiazihenshencengdechupeng，yaoburantahuiwurenweinixuyaodatahaoguimihuopenyoudeliuyi，daozhiduoyudewujie。

⑤务必留意的日常生活小关键点。