广州花镇可以退款吗？情侣最常犯的4种沟通错误

 jingchangyouneiyangdepenyouxiangdajiafalaosao，shuozishenhelingyibanyiqianduomededexingfu，guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma？errujinlingyifangquefashengbianhua，liangrendeganqingjijianglaidaotubengwajiedechengdu。

neiyangdeshilishizaiguoduo，danguigenjiedi，doutaobutuo“goutongjiaoliu”erzi。

 liangrenyikaishinengzouzaiyiqi，haowuyiwenquanshibeilingyifangdeshenshangdemouyitexingsuochudong，yejiushishuoxiyinzhu。zaitanlianaizhichu，yinweishenmiganhecijixingganzaizuoguai，haoxiangkanbujianlingyifangdeyiqiequexianhebugou，jishikandaoleyeshiyouyikejudadekuanrongdexin，huiqukuanrong，huiquguanzhe，huiqunichong，bingqiebingbuhuiweiciweiku，fandaoganjuelingyifangtaorenxihuan，lecibupi。

kehaojingbuchang，shenmiganhuibansuizheshijiandeliushierjianjiandidanhua，liangrendefenqiyehuimanmanzhanxianchulai。

 jiaoweipubiandebianshishuobailede“sanguanbufuhe”“xingqingbupei”，tashimeiyoubanfaqugenggaideshier。wulunshixingqinghuanshisanguan，erzhedepeiyangdouhebenrendejiatingguanxihejienadewenhuajiaoyuyongyou judadeguanlian，yaoxianggenggaiyigerendegexinghesanguanshishifennandeshier。rutonglaozuxianshuodeyiyang：“benxingnanyi，bingxingnanyi”。

 bingqiezheileiwupin，chedimeiyoubanfazhangqideguanzhe，youyuzishendeyantanjuzhi，yijuyidong，dairenchushidengcengmiandoushouqiweihai。

yinci ruguoyujianyigehezishensanguanbufuhe、xingqingbupeideren，tongchanghuitiaoxuangebendongxi，gezougede。

而大家说起的，是此外一种状况

 bianshiliangrenxingqingda、sanguanhe，meiyoudisanzhedengbiedeyaosu，kenantishixianghubenlaienai，queyoudoutihuibushanglaiyuanyulingyifangdeai，yinci neixinzongganjuelingyifangbushandaiziji，buzaiyizishen。

 haizongxiainayiwangdeshierchuqulaizuobijiao，weicilaizuowei“nimeineimashuoaiwole”dezhijiezhengju。zuizhongdoujuedeshixianghushizaituozhe，liangrendouhentongchu，ercaiyiqizheiyifenqingganyoumuyoushijiyiyi，yingbuyinggaijianchixiaqule。

 zheiyangderenyouhenduo。daobingbushiyouyuzuo，bianshiyouyu“goutongjiaoliu”deyuangu。yaobupinzhibuhao，yaobuliangmeijigou。jincierzhong。

liangmeijigouzheixiefangmianjiaoweizhaobangqi，duojishijian，duogoutongjiaoliuduogoutongjiaoliujiukeyile，wentibuda。

关键而言说“品质不好”的这一范围。

1.精准表述，防止曲解

 yibandajiajuede，lianrenjianzhongjianxianghudouxianghulejie，liangrendegoutongjiaoliuhuibibierengengweichangshun。danyouyigebukailangdekeguanshishishi，yuefaxingyingbuliderenzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliu，yuefeichangrongyikandixianghudegoutongdejiqiaoheluojisiweinengli，erqiexiayishidequjiadinglingyifangqueshinenggougetdaozishenyaoxiangchuandidexinxi，neixindeanshizhebianshi：“tayingdanggaoqingchude”;zhidaozhengchaodeqingkuangxiabianshi：“yuanyiweininenggaoqingchu……”

zheijiushiyouyumomohuhuhuoshishihanhubuqingzaocheng deyizhongqujieeryinqidezhengchao。

 chulidefangfabianshi，yingdangxiayishidiyulingyifangjiangchuzishenshijideniantou，jingzhunbiaodazishenyaoxiangchuandijilingyifangdexinxi(xintai、yaoqiuzheixie)，shunlichengzhangdi，lingyifangbianhuilejienixuyaoshenmexinxi，caihuichuxianyouliangdeyijianfankui。

 ruguobujingque，jiufeichangrongyishibai。rutongjisuanjiyuyanyiyang，jinyoujianruyigejingquedegongshijisuan，caikeyihuodeyigewanquandezhengquedejieguo。

2.认清同一性，调节好频道栏目

 liangrenzaiyiqishijianjiule，dedequequehuichuxianxuduo “tongyixing”，xuduo shieryoutongyangdeniantouhexingwei，zheijiushishuobailede“xinxinxiangxi”。

 keshi，henyoukeneng，neilei“tongyang”jinjinbujingyi。youyumeiyigerennaobuyiyang，sisuofangshihejiejuexinxineirongdefangfadangranyeshibuyiyangde。yinci ，yaonenggoulejielingyibanyoubuyiyangdeniantou，erbushimangzhechize“niweishenmehuineimexiang”，gengbubirenwei“nijiushizaiyuwochangfandiao!”

 yaodandingcongrong，yaolejie，yaolizailingyifangguandiankannanti，bianhuijiandaolingyifangdeshenshangdaliangdeliangdian，haikeyilejielingyifangfahuo、baoyuandedadaoli，nenggougengqiangpingfuzishenxingfen、naonudesixu，wanchengpingxinjingqidigoutongjiaoliu。yaoburanzongganjuemeiyouyigepindaolanmu，jiufengzhijiqianbeishao，shijianjiulefeichangrongyiyinqifenqi。

3.高度重视身体语言和关键点

 jinimuguangzishenganshou。keniquezaikanshouji，yagenmeikanjian。shijishang，muguang、zishi、xiaobiaoqing、yudiaodengxiaoguanjiandian，tongchangnenggouxianxianchuxuduo xinxineirong。keshiliangrenyouyuguoduqinmiwujiansatuo，changchanghuihushizheiyidian。“bienaole，wowanyouxini”。

 shijishang，shentiyuyanshiqingganzhongyongyugoutongjiaoliudeyidashenqi，yunyongqiadang，huijidadituidongliangrendeqinggan，huirangqiyuelaiyuegengweiwennuanerlanman。

4.回绝冷暴力，积极主动答复

 lianrenjianzhengchaobingbukongbu，kongbudeshirennihuomaosanzhang，woyeyiyanbufa，yaobujiuyonglengdandemuguangdingzhuni，huochuanchuyishengchixiao。

lengbaolibianshiyichangwolidouzhan，liangrendoutongchu，danyiranwujiyushi。

 yiqiandajiashuoguo，lengbaolishiyizhongzuididengdebiaoshuxintaidefangfa。qiadangdedakaiqingcanzhaoshangwen“jingzhunbiaoshu，fangzhiqujie”yilan。