有在花镇退款成功的吗？一个男人值不值得你爱？

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zaiyiduanlianaizhong，yiqienvxingxinlideyihuoyidingdoushihuixuduo ，ziran，tangruojiangnantijutilaishuo，zhibuguoshi：

ruherangtagengweishuoaiwo?

zenmerangdajiadeaiqinggengweichijiu?

 zaixixinxiangyixiang，zheishijishangbianshiyigenanti。jiranyijingtanlianai，erqiexiangyouzaiqizhong，sheixinlidoubaoshangshengyidou，danxinliyegengxiwangzhezheiyiduanaiqing，nengruzishendechangsuoyuandechijiu。

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※抓大放小

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“tazenmemeiyoumashanghuiyingwodeduanxiaoxi，shifouyagenbugaoduzhongshiwo?”

“jinrimeiyougenwowanan，tashizenmexiangde?”

……

 eryiguolianzaizheigezhuangkuangshang，huizhuyaobiaoxiandetuxiandeyixie。danshi，wulunwaidishifou，shijishang，jiranlianggerentiaoxuanzaiyiqi，quanshimeibiyaozaizheizhongguanjiandianchufenwaijiaoqueshi。

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※有主见，学好说“不”

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※不有意的真正

“zhenzheng”，yidingshiyiduanchijiudeaiqingzuihaoshidejichu。

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