花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗?怎样的男生是完美结婚对象？

 tanlianaizhongjiuhuitishengchenghunyinshenghuo，nvhaimendouxiangyaozaiyikaishijiutanyichangbenzhewanhunqudetanlianai，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？danyiqianshedaozongtimubiaotiaoxuanshangjiannanjiupuluchulai：tangruobenzhewanhunmudixunzhaozongtimubiao，neizhoubiannanshizhongfeichangshaoyouzhenshiheshide，jibian kanshangquhaibucuo，kechupengqilaidouhuiyouganjuebuyidediqu……

 xiangxinyouneiyanglijingdenvhai，yidingtexiangwenzheigewenti“ruhedenanhaizishijizhijiehunduixiang”。zaizheiliyizhangjiemuluzhong，wogengxiangyaobuyiyangdeyujulaitansuodaozheigewentideyagen，yinci ciciteyijiaolaiyougongzuojingyandejigenvhai，xiezhuwomenyiqizhenglizheigewenti——

nanti：ruhedenanhaizishijizhijiehunduixiang?

【回应1】康瑶，上班族

 zaiyiqianduizheigewentiyinweiwoyoujudadeyihuo，youyuworenwei，zhoubianshilingqingniandenanshiquanshibuchengshude，erwanshandenanshinianjiyouqueshibuyi——yinci，zaizheililiangdaleiquntizhong，wofeichanggangadechajuezijiyagenmeiyouheshidejiehunduixiang，gengbieti“jizhi”erzi。

 danzheiyejinjinwodeluojisiweizaineili，daozhiniantoulveweipianzhibale，zhizhineiyitianzhongwudu《shengjing》shi，jiandaozhuyesushuodezheijuhua.wogaoqingchu，shijishangnantideyagenbuqujueyumeiyoujizhidemubiao，zhishizishendeyishicunyouwucha——

 “dangnanshihenvshideyanlibujinyoulingyifangzhishizaowuzhuqingkuangxia，caihuizaiganqingzhidaoshanggengweiqinmiwujian，youyuyuefatiejinzaowuzhu，yuehuitiejinxianghu。”

 zaizheierdajiachedinenggoubazaowuzhuzheigecidangzuo“jizhi”，dang2gelianaizhongderen，jibian zuichubingbuhenqiehexianghu，danyaoshixiangyaozaixianghudejilixiaranggongtongchengzhang，bianshiyizhongwanmeideaiqing。

 zheileiniantouyaowomaosaidunkaiyiban，dajiaxuduonvshibingbushizaimaiyuanzhaobuzhejizhideairen，bianshifanfudezaiganqingzhongbeishoucuobai，shijishangzhijieyuanyinbianshidaozaileduiganqingdewuhuishang。dajiazongdianjizhebulaoerhuo，xunzhaojizhideqinglv，xunzhaojizhidejiehunduixiang，danshijishangni?zishenhaibugoujizhi，youzenyangnengxunzhaojizhideneigerenni?jizhishixianghulijing，yagenbingbushibulaoerhuo。

 duiyuruhedenanhaizishijizhijiehunduixiangni?worenwei，zheigewentidehuidashi：xiangyaojienawodebuwanmei，yinweiwonengjieshouxianshitadebuchusezhichu，xianghuyoukeyigongtongchengzhang，meiyouhuxiangzhaoguhexianghulijing，younayoudijiutianzhangni?

【回应2】漫长，专栏作家

shijishangworenwei，rujindezishenhetaxiangshihoudexingfukuaile，yaoyuanbizishenxiangxianglaidelingrentaxindeduo。

yinweiwosisuoguozheigewenti，dannanyizhaodaodaan，qishiwogengqinglaisanmaoshuzhonghelaogonghexidehuihua——

“hexiwensanmao：niyaojiageshenmeyangderen?

sanmaoshuo：kandekanbuguande，qianwanfuhaoyejia;kanbuguande，yiwanfuhaoyejia。

hexi：shuolaishuoquhuanshixiangjiagefuyoude。

sanmaokanguohexiyiyan：yeshiyouchuwai。

neimeniruguozuowodexinniangni?hexixunwendao。

sanmaotanleyikouqi：ruguonidehua，yaoshigouyongcandeqianjiukeyile。neimenichideduoma?hexiwen。

buyouduoshaoren，zhihouhainenggoushaochiyidian。”

 ruhedenanhaizishijizhijiehunduixiang?shijishangqueshifeichangjiandan，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？zheigewentikanqilaihejizhinanshiyiyangchubukeji，danzhibuguoshizhishihezishenyouyicengchuangzhidejianju，xiangdongle，yejiuchuopozheicengzhile：wojuedeguoxuduo ，danzuizhongcaizhidao，wuluntazaibierenlaikanshibushichuseshibushijizhi，yaoshiworenweishijizhide，genwozaiyiqi。

 xiwangtabushiyibande，dannenggouhenpuputongtong;xiwangtanenggouweihaiwo，danshizhongbubianwo;woyuanlianggerenyizhibaochiwendingdeqingkuang，lianggerenyuebianyuehao……

 zheiyihuidadehuiyingjiujingshishenmeni?meiyouguifandehuida，dantangruoyidingjiaowohuiying，neixiangduinishuo：dangwolaole，kanjiantahainengdongxin，neiyangdenanhaizibianshizuijizhidejiehunduixiang。

【回应3】不惊，家庭妇女

 zheigewentiwohaishihenyouhuayuquande，helaogonghunhoufeichangshaojinglizhengzhi，wojingchangxianglaotianyeshijuannianwode，youyunengxunzhaoneiyangyiweihenshuoaiwo，lingwaiyoushifenfeichangzhidewoxihuandexiaohuo，shiyijianjiweihaoyundeshier。

 zaihunqian，yeshiyouguojihuinanyiwanghuaideai，meiyicidouganjuezishenzhaodaoshihedeta，danzuihoudangganqinghaosishuntengmoguayibanbaituozishenshi，caigaoqingchuxunzhaodebingbushijizhidemubiao。