花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗?爱情中常见却又难以察觉的错误！

 chenjinzaiganqingzhizhong，quanqiudoubianchenglefenhongse，liangrenqinqinwowo，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？ganqingdeguozishifangzhemeilidongrendexiangqi，lingrentaozuizaiqizhong。xiangyouganqingroumeidequanguochengzhong，yidingyaojingxingzheizhongpubianqueyouwufafajuedebuzhengque!zheibingbingbushiganqingdechangtaihua，qingbuyaozuoweilisuoyingdang!

01持续的将负面情绪带来另一方

 xuduo penyouhuibaoyouneiyangdeqingxu，lianggerenzaiyiqile，weilaiyeyouhaozhangdeshijianyaoyiqiduguo，yinci yaojiangzishenxinliquanbudexintaibiaoshujilingyifang。richangshenghuodegongzuoyali、gongzuoshangdebumanyi、renjijiaowangdefengyanfengyu，jianglingyifangzuoweiqingxudelajixiang，naxiehaodehuaidedoubuduandeqingtu。

 shijishang，yaoxiangjiangzhenzhengdexinlichengxianjilingyifangshimeiyouwentide，keshiruguonijiangqingxufeiqiwu，fumianqingxuyuanyuanbujuedechuansongjilingyifangyihou，nizijideqingxuzaiqingtuyihouxiufule，keshihuibijiaoyanzhongweihailingyifangdeqingxu，tahenyoukenenghuizaochengduinidedichu，huixingziyuelaiyuekuangzao，huijiangliangrendeganqingnongdeluanqibazao。

 youshihouxianglingyifangqingtu，shiliangrenzhongjiandexintai，naxieqingxufeiqiwudouxianglingyifangluandao，neimabianshizaichixuhaofeiliangrendeqinggan。

02冷暴力

 daohuoxian——zhengchao——lengbaoli——hehao。neiyangdefangshi，xianeryijianzaoyibianchengxuduo lianren\fufudexiangchumoshizhiyi。henduorenbingbuzaihu，bujiulengbaolime，zheiyounaxie，neimeshucidelengbaolibingbushiyemeiyounantime，zuizhongliangrenhaibingbushihuihehao。

 yaotishizhuweideshi“renzaijianghupiao，naliyoubushixie”，zhiqiandelengbaolimeiyouchuxiannanti，buyiweizhejianglaidelengbaoliburongyichuxiannanti。

 lianren\fufuzailengbaolideqingkuangxia，xintaishishifenbuwendingde，zheigeshihoujiaruchuxianyigezhiji\hongyanzhiji，kuanweilingyifangfushangdeneixin，ranglingyifangzaochengyizhong“wodangshidetiaoxuanshifoubuzhengquele?”dejuede，jinerbijiaoyanzhongweihailianggerenzhongjiandeqinggan。

zongshimeiyouchuxiandisangeren，zhangqixingdelengbaoliyehuibuduandehaofeizhexianghujiandelianqing，rangganqingzouzaibengkuidebianyuan。

nenggouzhengchao，keshiliangrenbukeyilengbaoli，rushuiyiqianyidingyaohehao。

03说谎

 zaiganqingzhong，huanghuashipohuailishifendadewuqizhuangbei。dangyigehuanghuabeijiechuanyihou，lingyifanghuizaiqianyishizhongdejuede，niyiqianshuoguodemeiyijuhuaquanshihuanghua，zaochengbijiaoyanzhongdeyulunyali。

 shuoyijuhuangyanyaoyong100juhuangyanlaitianbu，ruguonigangkaishisahuangdeqingkuangxia，wushujuhuanghuajiuzaigenlaidedaoshang。danghuanghuayulaiyuduo，liangrenzhongjiandexinrenganyejiuliaoliaowujile。

04迷失自己

 chijiuganqingdeyigexianghuzhidianbianshiweichizuikaishiyangzi。xuduo penyouzailianaizhong，zhujianyouyugeshigeyangdeyuangumishiziji，jiangzishendesuoyouxinuailesuoyouzuoweibiaozhunfamayazaiciwaiyigerendeshenshang，lingyifanggaoxingzishenjiugaoxing，lingyifangshangxinzishenjiushangxin，zhaobuzheguishuyuzishendexingqingyushenghuo。

 zhujiande，lingyifanghuijuedejianbangdegongzuoyaliyuelaiyueda，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？zishendelianrenyemeilezishenxiaidezuikaishideyangzi，huizaochengneiyangdeyihuo，“woxihuanzheigerenma?”“woxihuantadenaxie?”“woqueshihaiaitama?”

05自命清高

 “aiyigeren，jiuyaoaitadesuoyou”，tashihenduorenduiganqingdeguandian。jiranjuecezaiyiqi，neimalingyifangdexingfu、chouedouyingdangquanpanjieshou。

 zhengyouyuneiyangdeniantou，henduorenzaiyiqiyihouhuoshiwanhunyihou，gangkaishiyuelaiyueyulaiyuzimingqinggao，jiangzishendelingyimianchedichengxianzailingyifangdeyanqian，meiyoujingmeidezhuangmian，meiyoutingkuodexifu，youxieshiluanqibazaodexiufa，zhoubabadeyifukuzi。

 neiyangdeqingkuangshijishangshishifenfengxiande，“aimeizhixin，renrenjieyou”，meiyigerendouqidaijiandaodelianrenshishuaimengde，meimeidade，zimingqinggaodeqingkuanghuirangzishenzailingyifangxinzhongzhongdepinpaixingxiangjisujiangdi，naizhilingyifanghuizaochengyizhong“tayagenbuzaiyiwo”detihui。