有在花镇退款成功的吗?面对丈夫出轨选择放弃or原谅？

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？zhenduiyijingxiangyouhunyinshenghuozhongxingfukuailedenvshi，bujingyizhongfajuelaogongchuguidekeguanshishi，shikendingdesixun。zhongjiu，zaihunyinshenghuozhongmomofuchu，xinganqingyuandangtashenhoudeneimingnvxing，bujirushouyi，danqiuhunyinshenghuodechijiu。

 zaifajuelaogongchuguihou，xinliwuweizaquan，danyoupobudeyijienazheiyikeguanshishi，erzaipingjingxialai，wubiyingduideyigexuanzeshi：tiaoxuansheqi，huanshitiaoxuankuanrong?

guoqu，zhenduinvshieryan，liyishiyizhongquru，jibian lingyifangwaiyu，danyepobudeyiweiquqiuquan，tiaoxuanrennaihekuanrong。

kerujindeyishizhong，kandaicanjiubukandehunyinshenghuo，tiaoxuanrennaiherenrang，beikanzuoyizhongruanruodezhuyaobiaoxian。

youyijuhuashineimeshuode：waiyudepincijinyou0ciheyicici。

 tashiquanjiebeichuguizhezhengquerenshikeguanshishi，bubiyinweitingxinyulingyifang，tiaoxuanyishiweiquqiuquan，zuihouhunyinshenghuodekulongyanyuelaiyueda，zuihouqianchuangbaikong，meifahuifu。

queshi，yixieairen，jibian hehaoruchu，danyenanyizaihuidaocongqian。

danshijizhong，tiaoxuankuanrong，zuihouxieshoutongxing，xingfukuailecishengde，yebuzaishaoshu。

yingduilaogongchugui，jiujingyaozuochuzenyangdetiaoxuanni?

 yankeshijiyiyishangeryan，zheishiyigemeiyoudaandenanti。shihuanzhongjiaofa，nantidejuecequan，rengzainideshoushang，youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？nixuyaozuodeshizonghexingjutiqingkuangkanlai。

01接受度

zhenduizheijianshiqing，nidejieshouduzenyang?

 tangruojiniganqingjiepi，kandaizheijianshiqingmeifajiena，xinlijiandingbuyidijuede，zheiheyiguoxianmeilidetanglibianluoruzangwuyiyang。

 queshiyanbuxia，neijibian tazaizenmejieshi“jinjinyishihulihutu”，zhonghouqicongcimeifan，bingqietianbuduicechaoguoyugu，dannijibian tiaoxuankuanrong，yehuinanyishihuai，pingdingzheishicihoubianchengdajiazhongjiandejiedi，zaowanhaihuijixuyatani。

 nixinlingshenchuganjue，jiarutachengrencuowuxintaiyouliang，cihouyibufancuowu，huanshinenggoujienazheijianshiqingde，neihebujitamenyigejiyu。

 jijitiaoxuansheqihunyinshenghuo，bingbushishiduiganqingbuzukeshou，fanguolai，yeshiyizhongpoli;tiaoxuankuanrongzaicijiena，yebingbushishiruanruo，yiyangshiyizhongxionghuai。

02他的承认错误心态

bingbushiyiqiewaiyunan，douzhidekuanrong，zheixukantadechengrencuowuxintai。

shiyongqianwendejiaofa，jiranzaoyiwaiyu，neikantawaiyushi1ci，huanshiyicici，guanjianhuanshikantadechengrencuowuxintai。

 ziyiweishimeiyoucuo，hanzhe“nanshengbianshilanqing”，chuyiciguikeyi。youneiyangniantoudenanshi，jibian tiaoxuankuanrong，yidinghaihuijixuwaiyuyicici。

queshizhimibuhui，yishihulihutu，xiahenxin，tiaoxuanjiazhong，xiangyaohehaoruchude，hebuchangshikuanrong。

03你的心理状态

 waiyuzheijianshiqing，queshishiyijiantongchuyoucaogaodeshi，danzailingyifangmiankanlai，bingbushiwanquanshicuoshi，yaoshihunyinshenghuomeiyouwanquanliekai，dounenggoudangzuoqiaojingzhong。

shitiaoxuansheqihuanshikuanrong?

 xukannikandaizheijianshiqingdexinlizhuangtai，shibazheijianshiqingdangzuoyigequru，yaoshiyongbufangqi，cihoujiubazijidingzaichiruzhushang?neihuanshitiyilijisheqi。

huanshiganjuezheijiushihunyinshenghuodeyigeqiaojingzhong，pengdaodeyigejianxin，tixingnihunyinshenghuobingbushikanshangquneimajizhi。

 hunyinshenghuozhongyeyougeleinanti，jixujiejue，ruobuyuanyiyingduihechuli，zhangjiuyiwangxialai，zaowanhaihuijixuyougenggaodefenqizaizhengqianfang。

hunyinshenghuodefangshibingbuchediyouxiao，zhongjiusheidoubingbushiyichengbubiande，bubiandongfangshi，zhongjiuhuibeihunyinshenghuorengxia。