有在花镇退款成功的吗?男女交往时最忌讳的误区

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？worenweizheiyihuatitaolunfeichangzhideyonglaitaolunyixia，youyumeiyigenvshengzaizijintouruyiduanganqingshiyizhifeichangrongyishenxianyizhongzishendanxinhebuduanzhong。

ziran，bushishuojinyounvshenghuizourucuowuguannian，nanhaiziyiyangyehui。

danyinweihuatitaolundeduoyuanxing，wojintianzhiduiyunvshenggengfeichangrongyizourudezheixiecuowuguanniankaizhantantao。

☉错误观念一

 「zailingyifangzhongzhihuobucanjiazijintourudezhuangkuangxia，xiguanxinggenjuzaicizengjiawofangzijintourudefangfa，yiqidaihuandelingyifangdegenggai。」

jiandaotadezheijuhua，woyexiangqilezheixiechangchangsiliaowodefensi。

tamenyicicidikuanrongwaiyudenanpengyou，bingchangshicongzishendeshenshanggaizheng，wangtuweicilaiwanhuinanpengyoudexin。

qipianzijidizishenmengpian，bianshinvshengzaitanlianaishizuifeichangrongyishenxiandecuowuguannianzhiyi。

 shijishangruguonibazheigecuowuguannianlejieqingxideqingkuangxia，zhihushangjuedaduoshunvshengtichuwentideganqingnantidounenggoujiejuele。

☉错误观念二

「shandaizijishizhongshenglanmandegangkaishi，lianaizhongjiaoda decuowuguannianbianshibushandaiziji。」

shandaizijidezheiyidingyihenguangfan，yinweiwoyiqiantandaohenshuci。

neishenmecaijiaoaizishenni?

 shandaizijiyaoxianbaohuhaoziji，youchengqianshangwandaoliduinishuoruheduinanyou，quefeichangshaoyouxierenxianduinishuo，tanlianaideqingkuangxiayaozenmeduizishen。

tamendouaitaren，suihouqidaitarenlaishandaiziji。

zuizhongbeisunhaideqingkuangxiayouganjue，「woneimeaini，niweiheyaoneimeyijianshi。」

guigenjiedi，nibuguoshiwangjilezaizheiliduanguanlianli，haohaoaiziji。

shizhongbingzhe「buyaomiliange，laomabufushile」dexinlizhuangtai，xiangxinziji，nimeitiandoushihuishikuailenvhai。

☉错误观念三：

「bahunyinguanxidangzuoyizhongningjiedewupin，qitubahunyinguanxijuxianghuahua。」

 yidingyaojizijihenanpengyoufenyigeleixinghuotieyigebiaoshi，youyunanpengyoudeyixiegerenxingweijiujiangtadajin「buanshishi」deduiwu，jieriyidingyaosongli，linshuiqianyidingyaoshuowoaini，bujimaibaojiuyaoaiyijianxingjianyuan...

shijishangzheizhongfangshishangdewupin，bingmeiyouneimaguanjian。

 ganqingshiyizhongshunlichengzhangdewuzhi，womenlianggezaiyiqishiwodedanjianhuijisutisheng，jidongyougaoxing，caiyinggaishizuihaoshideqingkuang,erbushizheixiefuzaibiaocengdesifengwenti。

☉错误观念四

「meifajienananpengyouyibushandaizijile。」

 shijishangdaduoshuqingkuangxia，yiduanganqingdexiaotuihuoshishixiaoshi，shiyijianhenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang。danxuduo nvhaierguannianbushangzheiyidian，zaihenanpengyoufenshoudeshihouyidingyaotaoyigeyuanyin。

「我们不合适」

「异国恋太艰辛」

「我妈妈不同意」

xuduo qingkuangxia，dajiagaoqingchuaimeiyouliyou，buxihuanyeshi。

梁实秋说过：

「woyigerenzou，wobuhuisongni;niqu，wulunduodafengyu，woxiangqujieni。」

 zaigangkaishiyiduanganqingshi，dajiabuguanyoumuyouxiangguoyaoxieshoubingjianxiuchengzhengguo，douyingdangtanranjieshouzheiyiduanlutuzhonghuichanshengdeyiqiejieguo。

tanlianaishishiyouyuzaiyiqidehuanlexingfukuailecaitiaoxuanlelingyifang，erbushinenggouyongyuanzaiyiqicaitanlianai。

 yishujiushiwoqingchunnianshaomengdongwuzhijieduanhenxihuandeyiweiwenxuejia，youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？talengkuwuqingyouxizhidiweiqianwanyueduzhejiemileaiqingdezhenxiang，shiwomengaoqingchuganqingdexingfuyucanren。

 buzaizhangwotahehulanchengdeaiyuhenenyuanyiqian，woxinzhongdetayaodangzhetitai，yutiantizhezhangqunmubuxieshiditaguozheixiezhuiqiuzhe，yazhiyoutanrandexianghenizaiyiqilizuoyigehaoganbu。

yihan，shijibingbushi，tayiyangtarucuowuguannian，aihulanchengaideganxinqingyuanyoushanghenleilei。

 zongranneiyangyigexinliqingmingjiederexuechuanqinvrendoumeifajingquezidonghuakongzhi，wozaizheiguidingdajianengjingquediraokaizheixiequantaodequeyixieyanke。

jinjinjiaruneng，dajiayaorangzishendexinshaoshouyidianshang。