花镇情感咨询给退款么？扭转不平等的“爱情地位”

 huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？shuobailebugongpingdeganqingyingxiangli，yibanjiushizhizaiganqingzhongtouruxuduo 、fangqixuduo ，quehuodeshouyihenshaodeyifang。

 zuidianxingxingdemoguoyingpian——《congnidequanshijieluguo》zhongdezhulianhexiaoyanzideganqing，zhulianweilegenghaodijixiaoyanziyigejiaganleyiqieqinfen，zuizhongyiranfenshou。zhuliankuzhezhuizhejianxingjianyuandedeshi，beitongdijiangchu:

“xiaoyanzi，meiyouniwozenmehuoa!”

yingpiandaozheierdeqingkuangxia，henyoukenenghenduorendouleiruyuxia，xintongzhulian。

 shijishangzheishiyouyuzhulianzaiganqinglizhangqixingchuzaidiweidejieguo，zhulianganjuexiaoyanzishimeinvxiaohua，zongsuanhuodehexiaoyanzizaiyiqidejiyu，xinganqingyuantouruyiqie。keshixiaoyanziduizhulianni?yaobulengdanwubi，yaobuzhigaoqiyang。

 ganqinglibuyidingyaodangzuiqiangzhe，danzhangqixingchuzailieshideyingxiangli，biequshenxinpibeiyehuichongyizaiganqingzhong，zuihouyehuijianglianggerendeganqingxiaoshidaijin。

ganqingchuzaidiweijiujingshishenmejuede，wodexueshengmalihenanyoudexiangchumoshi，feichanghaodebiaominglezheiyidian。

viphuiyuanmalilaidiyicishipinyuyinbianhewojiang：

 xinyuan，wolainanyouqueshitourulexuduo ，youshihuijuedezishenhenbiequ，kebuzhidaoweishenmenanyouhaoxiangjihukanbujianwodetouru，yijianshiyulaiyulengmo。yiqianyouyicichangshihenanyougoutongjiaoliuzishendetihui，nanyoufahuodeshuo：

 “ninengbuzuoya，jiushinizishenxiangyaozuode，ganlekonghuayouzheimeduo。xiangyaozuojiuzuo，bukenzuojiufenli，biegaodeneimabiequ”。

cihouyihou，malilaibiancongcihaipahelingyifangbiaoshuzishendetihui。

 ganqinglichuzailieshideren，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？ganghaoshidanyouzuizhongfenshouderen，yinciyongyouniantoubuganshuo，youbukaixinhefahuobianhuiyizhizishen，haipaqugoutongjiaoliu，danxinzhengchao，genghuanxianglegoutongjiaoliuhouchanshengdebuliangyingxiang---lingyifanghuiliquzishen。

wangwangchanshengzaiganqinglichuzailieshidejushi，yibanyouxialiehaoduogeyuanguzucheng：

1过度注重結果

guoduzhuzhongjieguo，huirangzishenzaiganqinglibianyuelaiyuetixindiaodan，haipachuleyidianbuzhengqueweihaidaozuizhongdejieguo。

 keshi，zhenduiganqingeryan，goutongjiaoliuhechuliganqinglibiandenanti，bubianshiweilegenghaodinenggougenghaodizaiyiqima?meiquzaijiaowangquanguochengzhongbachuganqingdaoshangdejingji，zhangqixingweiquqiuquanderenshou，zuizhongdejieguoyehenyoukenengbujinrenyie。

2没有安全感

 ganqingzhongzuoluoyudiweideyifang，jingchanghuimeiyouanquangandeyifang，yizhiduizishenbuzuxinxin，caiyizijizuodeyaoshishaobushunxin，bianhenyoukenengweihaidaoliangrendeguanlian。