花镇情感挽回有用吗？正在毁掉你恋爱的就是你的“高需求感”！

 buqingchuweihe，fangfoyishunjian，huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma？gedawangzhandouhuiezhibaoluxuqiugan，neiyangbuhao，neibanyebuhao，nvhaiganwanbukeyibaoluxuqiugan。fangfobaolulexuqiugan，qingganjiuyanxiaoyunsanle。

baohanwodeyixiehuiyuantuoxinyehuiwenwojiang：

woshibushibukeyijijijinanshengfaxinxi，jijifaxinxishifoujiubaoluxuqiuganle?

woshibushibukeyibiaoxianchulaiduitadehaogandu?

tabangwosongliwu，woshibushiyaojiazhuangmanbuzaihu?

tafalaixinxiwoshibushibukeyimiaohui?

tafalaixinxile，woshibushibukeyihuiyingtaxinxi?

baolulexuqiugananeiyangjianzhijiumeijiu?

huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma？wodetianna，zheinajiaotanlianaijiqiaoya，zheidoushiyinaerxuedededalianmijiya?

 aipinshengbuzhiyicizaizongyijiemuzhongzhuzhongguo，dahuoerbubichangshiqugenjunaxielailibumingdezhaoshuheshuobailedefangfaaqudedao zhenzhengdeaiqing，dajiadabufenrendouzhishipingfandepingchangren，xuebuhaoburongyihunfeiposan，zhenxinshiyishizhongcaisuanshijiaoda dezhaoshu。

 zheiershuodezhenxinshiyibingbingbushishabingbingbushifengkuangtouruhezhanxian，shiyoujiexianganyoukongzhidezhenxinshiyi，zheiyidiancaisuanshiwomenyaoxuexipeixunde。

neiaipinshengjinriyaojidahuoerjiangdeyejiushi，ruhequbiaoshunidexuqiugan，jiqidajiashensuoxuqiugandejiexianjiujingzainaer?

●第一种状况，在大家关联创建的前期，许多 女孩会担心：

aiyowoxiangbubijijijitamenfaxinxiya?

woshibushibiesileyebukeyijijiya?

qianjiriyizhiquanshitajijibangwoxinxi，tajinrimeiyoufalaixinxi，shifouzhunbeifangshoule?

shijishangwoduitahuanshitinglingrenmanyide，keshiwoshibushibukeyiduitashuo?

 hutu，guanlianchuangjiandeqianqizuizhongyaodeshinaxie?shipingwendishushidua!womenbunengzongdianjizhe，rangzheigenanrenjinifengjinikuangjinikuangkuangzhuangdaqiang，nizaichihuanyazhidezhuanguotougaosutaju：e，nihaoa。

zheiyizaidianshilianxuju，xiandaiyanqingxiaoshuolidejuqing，xianshishenghuozhongjibenshangmeiyouhaome，ganjinbieshuile。

 jijijitamenfalexinxi，guanzhuxiata。yeyou，nijiranduibierentinglingrenmanyide，neibiaoshuxialingyifangderentonghehaoganduzala，zheidoudanshijiede。

guojiedeshiniyishangqujiujilingyifangpandingle。

 liru：nijiushiwoyaozhaoderen。niruguoxiangyijianshihao，niyejiuwubibaozheng12345678tiao……niruguoxihuanwo，niwubiyibeizibukeyiyiqingbielian，buranniyejiuzaobaoying。neiyangbianshiguojiele。

 fanguolai，zhishixiangjiezhulingyifangchixudeshuchuhaogandushifangchulaiyoushanshujuxinhao，erdajiazheiershierbujian，neimejiulingyifangdetihuibianshi，zishenyongyipenyipendekaishuiqujiaohuayizhengzuobingchuan。

 chufeishinishishiyongjiazhigaodaoyidingchengdu，rangzheiyinanshengganjuenishiwuketidaideshifeinibuaidenvwangdengji，buranzheiyinanshenghaowuyiwenhuihuila。

youyumeiyourenhuixiangyaozuoyijiankanbujianyiqieqidaideshier。

yinci ，rengzaiqinggandeqianqi，womenyaozuodeshipingwen，miantiankeshibuchuyubeidong。

liruninengtiantiandishuoju：

zhiyinyounidechuxian，wohaibuyuanzaizuoxiaoxiannvle，xiangpeizhenikanyixiashijiandeyanhua。

neiyangjiujiwuxingzhizhongshuomingdajiayuanbendegaoshiyongjiazhi，yeshifangchulailekedexing。

●第二，在情感增长期，我们要做的均衡。

 zailianaizhongyeba，hunyinshenghuozhongyeba，tongchangbicidexuqiugandouburongyishiduidengde，zirancongshizhishangshuo，zheiyixuqiuganyubenrenzhengtishiyongjiazhifanbi。

 neirujinaipinshengjidahuoerjiangdeshidabufenzhuangkuang：yejiushijirandajiazaoyizaiyiqile，shiyongjiazhishangdachabuchaburongyichadaotaifukua，yinci zaizheierqianwanbietaitianzhen，bubihusiluanxiang，bubishilengshire，gengweibubiwuyuanwugucaiyi。

maomuzai《yueliangheliubianshi》shangshuodao：

zaiganqingdeshishang，ruguoniguanxindeshizishendezizun，neimeniyidinggengshandaiziji。

 dajiabingbingbushirangdahuoermeiquguanxinzishendezizun，zhishishuo，weichiganqingjunhengdeqiantitiaojianshiyougongzuonenglipingwendejianxinzijihejianxinlingyifang。

yinci ruguonixianggennitapengmiandeqingkuangxia，ninenglijiwenqi：

nijintianjidianxiabanleya?buqingchujintianzenmele，huranhaoxiangjianniya。

ruguonixiangyaozhidaotadeshiyifangan，nenggoulijiwenqi：