huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma?wohaihenishuoleshiduoshaobianle,mianwabubiluandiu;nimeirijiulejiejiabanjiadian,yidiandoubuqingchupeizhewodengdeng.....
neizenmehuineiyangni?shinanxingbuainilema?nvxingdiyishijianxiangqideshinanshengyouduoaizishen。shiershijishangmeineimabijiaoyanzhong,haimeiyoudaonagefenshang。
neijiujingshishenmeyuanguni?henkenengshibulejieyuyanjiqiao,meiyourangnanshenggaoqingchunishuodehua。
meiyouyuyanjiqiaoshineiyangde,ruguoniyaoxiangtishinanshengyijianshi,neimanihenkenengbuduanquduitashuo,jiupatameitingdedong,zuizhonghaihuijixubuyiju,nitingmingbailema?
ruguonishineiyangjianghuade,neimaninengfajue,nanshengxuduo qingkuangxiameiyoutinggaoqingchu,tajinjinshixiajiazhuanghengaoqingchubale。
eryouyuyanjiqiaoshineiyangde,ruguoniyaoxiangtishinanshengyijianshi,neimanihenkenengbuduanquduitashuo,jiupatameitingdedong,zhibuguoshihoubianhuibuyiju,wojiangmingbailemeiyou?
jiarutadongle,tajiuyaoshuonijiangmingbaile,jiarutameigaoqingchu,tajiuyaoshuo,tanananahaimeiyougaoqingchu。
nikankan,yiyangdeyijuhua,jinjinhuanleyizhongbiaodaxingshi,nanshengjiugenggaoqingchunideyisi,yegengxiangyaotingnishuodehuale。
这就是说话的技巧。
xiangrangnanshenggengtingnishuodehua,guanjianyousanzhongjianghuadefangfa。
bianshiyikaishijiuduinanshengdechujielun,lirunijiushiyigehuaxinnan,huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma?niyidianyebumingbaitiexinwo,niyidianyebushuoaiwo。
ruguoniyikaishijiudechujielunshi,jiufangfosuibianjinanshengkoushangyidingmaozi,tabianshixxxderen,neimananshengbianhuixiang,wobiaoshuyemeiyoushenmeyong,tabuxiangting,neimayinweiwobengbiaoshule。
yincinanshengyaoshuo:meiyoucuo,woshizheiyangderenderen。
zaiweixingongzhonghaohaoshang,xuduo tangmeihuiwendabiaogexuduo nanti,liruhenanyouyulaiyumeihualiaolegaizenmebanya!
jiaruxuanyongjieguoxiandefangfa,neimawonengduinishuo,neijiushiniqingganyunyinggongzuonenglibuhao,nixuyaoxuezherangzishenyougongzuonengliqilai。
jinguanwoqiangdiaolenidewenti,keshinitingzhehenyoukenengyoudianernanshou。jiaruyongneiyangdefangfaduinishuo,yexuniyagenburongyiquqingtingwoshuonaxie。
zheileijieguoxiandefangfa,jiaruyemeiyouyizhenjianxuedeqiangdiaonidewenti,neimaniyejiuhuitingzhenanshou,naizhihuizaochengdichuxintai,youshijishiwoyizhenjianxuedeqiangdiaolenidewenti,nirengranhuichuxianxintai。
yidanyongyouzheiyixintai,nihenkenengyebuqingtingwoshuole。tongyang,yikaishinitiaodonglenanshengdexintai,jishinijuededezaiduizaihao,nanshengyehenkenengbuyuantingnishuolenaxie。
立在另一方的视角举例说明,让另一方搞清楚
jianxinxuduo tangmeidoufajuele,dangweimeigufengjiaoshizaigaozhidajiayigedadaolideqingkuangxia,wohaowuyiwenhuijuyigenikeyigaoqingchudeshili。
liruruguoniyongjieguoxianshi,nanrenshihuizaochengxintaide,jiusuanshidabiaogelijiyuniyongjieguoxian,niyehuizaochengxintai。
dangwomenyonglejulejieguoxianzheiyishilishi,shibushiniduijieguoxianzheiyidadaoligengdongle?
woyanzhongdezijilizailenideshijiaojulishuoming,jinidonglejieguoxianzheijianshiqing,jiulianbujiuwoyaogaosunijieguoxiandeshilishi,yeshijinigaoqingchu,lizailingyifangshijiaoshangjulishuoming,nengrangtingderengaoqingchu。
neizenyanglizainanshengshijiaojulishuoming,rangnanyoutingdedongnideyisini?
例如
dangnanyouhuijialebulinishi,ninengneiyangshuo:ruguonihuijialemeiyuwojianghuashi,rutongnideshoujiyouxijiridoumeinishouhoule,taruguorendehua,kenengyeshiyouxiaoqingxuleni~
cikenanshengjiudongle,tameipeizheni,nihenmishi。
ruguonishilizainideshijiao,neimanihenyoukenenghuineiyangjulishuoming,rutongchungaojiridourenquyongta,tahaowuyiwenshangxinyujue。
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