花镇情感挽回怎么样?自我暴露定律

 huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？neimaneimewentilaile，bingbushiwenwajijishuxingnajiahao，zhishinaxiedenvhaigengfeichangrongyiqudechenggongxiyinzhunanhaizi?

ziranshileguandenvhaihuixiyinzhudaodaliangnanhaizi。zheijiuxuyaoqianshedaoshehuixinlixuezhongdezishenpulujibendinglv。

 xinlixuezhuanjiaaotezhanshifajue，youliangderenjijiaowangshizaizishenpulu，manmantishengdequanguochengzhong，manmanfazhanqushiqilaide。bansuizhexinrenganshuipingdetisheng ，bicihuiyulaiyuduodibaolu。danbuguanguanlianduojinmi，dajiadoushiyoubuyuanyipuludexingye。

zishenpuludeshuiping，youqiandaoshen，dagainenggoufencheng4geshuizhun：

1、zuixianshixihaocengmian，liruyinshijiegou、xihaodeng;

2、cizhishixintai，ruduirendeguandian，duishishirediandedianpingdeng;

3、disanshirenjijiaowangqingkuang，liruzishendebuzixinxintai，heqinrendeguanliandeng;

4、disishiyinsibaohucengmian，liruyixieqisihekuangxiangdeng。

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，guanlianyuejinmi，dajiadezishenpulu，jiuyuepubianheyuekegumingxin。suhuashuodehao“jiaoqianbuketanshen”，jiushilaidaopulushuizhun，yaoshixiangchushuipingerding。danyouyigechongfenbiyaotiaojian，bianshixianghumeiyouyiqieguanlianderen，henyoukenengzuodaochedidezishenpulu。

 renduizuishuxiderenhuowu，youhaogan，youxinlaigan，erbushifanguolai。yaoguaiwangwangkongbu，shiyouyuwomenbulejieta，dajiabuqingchu，tahuibadajiaruhe。lejiecaikeyichanshengxinrengan，youjuhuajiaoyuanqinburujinlin，jiushizheigedadaoli。

 yinci ，yaorangtarenzhangwoni，rangtarenlejieni，neishichuangjianxinrengandejibenya!huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyang？meirenhuixinrenganyigefeijiheixiazi，dajiayebubizuoyigefeijiheixiazi。yinci womenzijiyaohuodetarendexinrengan，jiuxuyaojijidakaixinfei。

 guangsijiaoshichangchangshuo，zaichuqideqingkuangxia，dajiabubidianjizhehenanhaizichuduixiang，jiudianjizhejiaoyou，nanhaizishiburongyiganyuanyuzhiyunizuopengyoude，nanrenhenvrenmeiyouchunyouyi。

dajiazairichangshenghuozhong，changchangnengkandaozilaishuderen，womenkeyicongtamendeshenshangxuedeshenme?

●最先是对外开放的心理状态。

 zilaishuderendaojiaopengyouxinlizhuangtaishanggengweiduiwaikaifang，yegengquxiangyujiaoyou。jiarunijuedezishenbushanyurenjijiaowang，nenggousisuoxialienanti：

 nishibushiduijiaoyoumeiyoufeichangdadeyaoqiu，gengxiangyaozishenyigerendaizhe?huoshinirenweizishenbingmeiyoufeichanghaodejiaojinengli，yemeishenmeyoushihetaoxidediqu?youhuoshiniyizhinanyicongtarendeshenshangfajueyoushi，yeduitamenbingbuhaoqixin?

xianeryijian，zheizhongxinlizhuangtaihuizulannihebierendejiejiao。

 jiarunikeyixintaidiaozheng，rangzishenzaiyurenxiangchuzhongdedao kuaile，fajuelurendeshenshangdeyoushibingduitamenhenganxingqu，bingquxiangyujianxinzijinenggouhebierenchuangjianyouyi，neimaniyejiuyongyoubiancheng“zilaishu”deqiantitiaojian。

●此外，非语言沟通也十分关键。

 zilaishuderenhuiyunyongdaliangyuyanyiwaidegoutongfangshi。yurenxiangchulibulegoutongjiaoliu，eryaoxiangkuaisudedao bierendehaogandu，dequeyouyixiegoutongjiaoliufangshishangdexiaojiqiao：

 1、zuixian，duoxiao。xiaoshishejiaomeitizhongyigeqiangdadewuqizhuangbei，budannenggouchongzubiaoshuhaoganduhezhencheng，haikeyitigaolingyifangduizishendehaogandu。

 2、cizhi，shiduduiwang。xinlixuezhuanjiayuehanxunkaizhanguo“qingshenduiwang”xunlian，taguidingcanjiazhebaochiweixiao、tianmanzhenchengdikanjianlingyifang8miaozuoyou，jieguofajue，duiwangduibitu，canjiazhebicizhijiandezhiaishuipingjunzhishenggao7%，xiaishuipingshenggao11%，qinmiwujianshuipingshenggao45%。

 3、zuizhong，yaoyong“dajia”。zaiyantanjianyaoyong“dajia”kaishi，huijirenyizhongqinmiwujianjiqigongtongmingyundeanshizhe，kuaisulajinlianggerendejianju，liruba“niyaohexieshenmema”huancheng“dajiahexieshenmeba”。

●除开所述內容，聊天內容也很重要。

 youyuxianghubulejie，hebierenliaotianfeichangrongyinankan、galiaohuojuniyuketao，erzilaishuderenwangwangnengkuaisushenrujiaoliu，shiyouyutamenhenshanyuyingyongerdian：zishenpuluheshenyoutihui。

 zishenpulujiushizhizaizishenfayandeqingkuangxia，shidudibiaoluzishendelijing、tihuihehaoe。ershenyoutihuizhizailingyifangzishenpuludeqingkuangxia，nikeyilizailingyifangdeshijiaoqutihuihelejielingyifangchangshuo。

zheierzhongfangshibudannenggourangjiaotanshunlikaizhan，hainenggouchongzubiaoshunidexinrenganheyouhaojiqiguanzhuhehaoqixin。

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