huazhenshoufeibiaozhunshiduoshao?tayizhiduinanyouqianyibaishun,duitadezhaoliaoyetitieruwei,lingyifangdemeiyigeguiding,tadounengbaozheng,jiuliantadeqinren,douzhaoliaodejingranyouxu。
changchangguanzhutafumudeshenxinjiankang,youshijianjiuyaokannanyoudefumu。nanyoudefumuyefeichangxihuantaneiyangdenvhaier,zaoyizuoweileerxiduidai,tayeganjuezishenneiyangzuomeiyouyiqienanti。
danshitananyouhuanshibuguanbugutafumudedizhi,hetamingquetichuletichufenshou,zheilingtashifenyihuo,lingwaijitadeyuanyinyerangtagengweibukeyijiena,tananyoushuo:“duinihao,danwomenbuheshi。”
jirantaneimehao,weihehaibushihe?taxianggaobudong,tazhushiyinanyouweizhu,duitahaojuranbianchengnanyouliqutadeyuanyinhetuoci?
wotingjianzheier,jiudonglezheimingfensishibeifaguo“haorenka”。
jinguanzuogehaorenyidiancuoyemeiyou,keshizaiganqinglideshanren,quebingbushigebaoci。niwangwangbeifaguohaorenka,shiyouyunibaituolelianaiguanxizhongdeyitiaoguilv,junhengguilv。
tashiguanliandaoyiduanganqingshibushigengweishenxinjiankang,kefouzoudezhangjiudegenbensuozai。
zaiganqingzhongjingchangchuzaidiweidenvhaier,qiyagendoushiyouyusuizhezheyigebujiankangderengezaocheng de,zheiyibujiankangderengehuijinidetouruwufadedaoshouyi。
jinerzailianaiguanxizhong,buhuishoudaogaoduzhongshi,chuzaidiwei,zuizhongdenghoutamendeyejinyouyizhang“haorenka”。
一、摆脱“付出型人格”
zaishehuixinlixueshangyouyigecijiao“fuchuxingrenge”。
fuchuxingrengeshuobaile,bianshiyouqixiaixiezhuren,duitarenhuodadadu,duizishenqueshifenkoumen。
bingjihuhaipabubiantaren,burongyihuijuebieren,bingchangchanggenjuquyuetarenlaichaoyueziji,zhangciyiwangmishifangxiangdeyizhongrenge。
zaiganqingdetianpingchengshang,jinyoubicidetouru,caikeyihuodetongyangshouyi。
yinci jiaruyaoxiangjiejuezheileirenge,zuixianjiuxuyaocongyongganshuobugangkaishi,huazhenshoufeibiaozhunshiduoshao?youyunanrendoushibuliexingxiaodongwu,renqitunshengzainanshengneibianjihuyebuzhuanqian。
guoduodeyuliaozhizhongzaisuonanmianlingrenjuedemeiqu,tamenxiangyouzhuizhuliebudejuede,shidudexuehaoshuo“bu”,gengnengjifatamenduinideduzhanyu。
yingyongbaituozishendeshushiquan,xihuanshenmejiuyaoganshenme,badaliangdeaijiaojizishen,jiarunilianzishendoubuxihuan,neimasheihuiaizhenini?
二、不做“破窗型情侣”
shenmejiaopochuangxingqinglv?zuixianwojieshiyixiashenmeshipochuangxiaoying。
pochuangxiaoyingshiyiweiweifafanzuixinlixuezhuanjiamingquetichulaideyizhongqianzaixingjiduanxinlizhuangtai;yigefangzijiaruchuangzipole,meiyourenxiufu,gemeiduojiu,biedechuangziyehuiwuyuanwugudebeibierenbaituo。
yiliangchetingzaimalubian,luntaidiuleyizhi,gemeiduojiuzhengliangchedoushihuikanbudao。
yigehenzhengjiedeyingxiangli,renyaoguoyibuqudiulaji,eryidanzheiliyoufeiqiwuchuxianyihou,renbianhuiguoduandewangzheierrenglaji,fenhaoburongyiganjueneiyangzuoyounaerbushihe。
zailianaiguanxili,jiarulingyifangyizhichuzaitianpingchengdediwei,neimazaipochuangxiaoyingzhong,bianhuixiangneishanpochuangzi。
yikaishinijinjinduinanshengrenqitunsheng,keshiyidanchanshengxiguanxing,zheileishujuxinhaorutongniduinanshengpianpianduiwaikaifangdeyizhongxinhaodeng。
yijuhualaimiaoshubianshi,nanrenbunengguan,buranzhujiandeniyejiuhuizailingyifangneibianyuelaiyuemeishenmedaodedixian,wuluntaganshenmefangmadeshier,douburongyigulvnidetihui。
zhangjiuyiwangzongshiranglingyifanggengweibuzhenxi,yinci bubiduiyigenanrenduiwaikaifangshitasunhainidequanli,ninengwenrouqiaoli,haikeyiduitazhaoliaonengjia。
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