花镇咨询有效果吗？学会“绿茶”的这些手段

 huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？liangrenzaiyiqijiule，shenmiganheyouhuolijiuhuijiangdi，zaijiazhiyifangbumingbaijingyingganqing，ganlexuduo sunhailingyifangdechunshi，zuihouzaocheng hunyinpolie。

 dajiayizhidouzaizhuzhongyaoxiangwanhuiganqing，wubichuangjianercixiyin，ranglingyifangzaiciaishangleni，zheiyouneiyangdewanliucaisuanshizuikekaode。neimayouguanercixiyinnizhangwoshiduoshaoni?

什么叫二次吸引：

 dajiayizhishuoxihuanyigerenshimeiyouliyoude，shijishang，zheijinjinyizhonglanmandejiaofabale，xihuanyigerenyidingshibixuyuanyinde。tadeshenshangyouxiyinzhunidedian，nideshenshangyeshiyouxiyinzhutadedian，liangrenenaijiushihuxiangxiyinzhudejieguo。

 neimashenmejiaoercixiyinni?xuduo qinglvfenshoudoushiyouyuxianghujianmeileyouhuoli，shiqureqinghechongdong。erercixiyinbianshijinizhonggoubenshendefengcai，shitazaidubeinixiyinzhu，jijizhuiqiuni。

二次吸引的恰当方式：

1、距离产生美

 yaoxiangkaizhanercixiyin，weichimoshengganshiwubide，youyujinyougezhejianjudajiacaikeyifajuebingkeguanxingdedianpinghexinshangyigerendefengcai。

 fenshouzhihou，bubimanbujiangli，yebubisipilailian，linshibubipengmianlianluo。huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？jixianghuyiduanlizhideshijian，zheigeshihouyejiushiniweilegenghaodijitamenhuanranyixinjuedeerzhongxiadexuannian。jiarunimeitianzhuizhetawanliu，nayoushijianqugaibianxianzhuang?

2、全方位提高自己

yaochanshengercixiyin，yidingyaoyouxindegenggai，youyujinyouxindewupincaikeyijifananshengdeqiuzhiyuhezhengfuyu。

 quanfangweitigaoziji，guanlifangfayixiayouyuyiqiantanlianaierzouxingdeshenxing，tiaoxuanheshizishendezhuangmianhededangdechuanyidapei，gaizhengyiqianzheixiedaliandexingqinghexiguanxing，xuexipeixunyixieliangxingjiaowangjiqiao。shitayijiandaoni，jiunengfajuenidegenggaihebuyiyang。

nanshengneixinshenchushiyongyou buliexinlizhuangtaide，bennengfanyingshiwufajujuelieshideyinyoude。

3、恰当展现

zhenduinanshengeryan，youbaopipabanzhemianhuibilijiquanguangengnengrangtamenxinyang，yuefawuyijiandetiaodouyuefazhimingxing。

 yaoxiangxiyinnanren，yidingyaodangranerqiadangdezhanxiannidegenggai。shengchanzhizaoqiaoyuhedazaochuweixinpengyouquan，shitagaoqingchu，niwodecuozhanxianjitamenkande，zhishitazhenghaokandaole。

二次吸引有什么错误观念呢?

1、taiguodepulunideyaoqiu

 ercixiyindeguanjianshigaoaozidawanliu，yinci caozongnidexuqiuganhenzhongyao。youyuyidantaiguoxuqiuganpulu，lingyifangzhidaonisuozuodeyiqiedoushiweilegenghaodiwanliuta，neimanizuozaiduodegenggaihegerenjiazhidetigaodoumeiyouyong，nidejiagouhuanshineimadi，lingyifangyeyagenbuxihannidegenggai。

2、bazhanxianbianchengleyizhongxianbai

 youderenbuzhengquedelejieleercixiyindehanyi，juedeyaoshiranglingyifangjiandaozishendegenggai，tajiuyidinghuijijiwanliuzishen，yinci jiujijipaodaolingyifangdeyanqian，zhanxianzishendezhuanbian。

quebuzhidao，nineiyangdegerenxingweizailingyifangyanlihexianbaiyagenmeishenmechabie，zongshilingrenganjueyouzhikexiao。

3、jibukenaideyaoxiangshengjiguanlian

 youderenyidanchangdaoercixiyindehaochu，helingyifangdeguanlianhuodeduanzanxingdejinduzhihou，jiuhuijibukenaideyaoxiangjinyibushengjiguanlian，yinci shibukanchanghefenbuqingshijiandezhanxianzishendezhuanbian，huoshidatantetanliangrenyiwangdeshier。